My name is Lei Fen, now Chinese New Year's Eve four years old, female, unmarried, is the adoptive father rushed back to pick up the bitter child, the adoptive father is the only son of the grandparents at the same time with a disability on the leg, walking up and turning a corner is somewhat inconvenient, because of living in the alpine mountains, no financial resources, living on the planting industry, basically able to maintain food and clothing every year, Qian Wen is very difficult, so, the adoptive father has not been able to marry the daughter-in-law, since I came, the whole family treated me as a pearl in the palm of the hand, although the days are poor, but the family does not lack warm laughter at any time.
Although the adoptive father has a disability, he shoulders the responsibility of old-age care, all day in the field to get up early and greedy black labor, help a fish pond to take care of farming when he is idle, earn more than a thousand yuan a month to supplement the family, the adoptive father and grandparents are very diligent and thrifty all their lives, there are good let me eat first, buy me good clothes to wear, although the family is poor, never let me starve and freeze, I did not live up to the expectations of my grandparents and adoptive father, at the age of eighteen, I was admitted to the provincial city key university with an excellent score of six hundred and thirty-nine points, After graduating from the fourth department of college, I was admitted to graduate school, after receiving the notification, considering that my grandparents are old, my adoptive father's health is not as good as a year, they have paid too much on me, too much, to find a job early, reduce their burden, I decided to put the opportunity to go to graduate school, work to earn money to repay the family.
I was recruited by a foreign company in the provincial city, the annual salary received more than 300,000 yuan, the provincial city is more than 100 kilometers away from the family In addition to holidays, I at least have to go home in January to visit my adoptive father and grandparents, once or twice to participate in the third year of work, there is a colleague surnamed He chased me, I also have some good feelings for him, but when he learned that my family was destitute, money and money, even maintaining a great difficulty in life, plus also to bear the obligation and responsibility of supporting three elderly people, he took the initiative to leave me, at that time let me sad and cry without tears. A year later, another state official who was two years younger than me courted me, "May Day" small long holiday, I took him to my house to meet with my grandparents and adoptive father, they saw the future granddaughter-in-law, son-in-law, so handsome, handsome, how happy in their hearts, so kill chickens, slaughter geese, full of rich wine and dishes to treat seriously, but this guy, as if he had some dislike for my family, he used a tissue to put the chair, wiped it again before he began to sit down, washed and washed the tableware he wanted to use one by one, and washed and washed the tableware he wanted to use. When my grandparents used chopsticks to move the dishes, he did not eat at all, and when he came back, I directly said to him: "Look down on my family, that is, look down on me, in the future my family will live with me, save dragging you down, you go!" Let's break up" So the second relationship also ended with a breakup.
Five years ago I met a boy again, he was a Chinese teacher in a middle school in the provincial city, he looked like a talented person, a little bit of talent, in many newspapers, magazines published some articles I put everything in the family, to him frankly, after listening to him he said: "Everyone has old people in the family, he will never abandon", but on the eve of the wedding, his parents said: "On the day of the wedding ceremony, do not want my family to be present, you can have another banquet at night." Hearing this, I was furious and angry, and I said to my boyfriend: "My grandparents, my father has been very kind to me since childhood, the love between us is like the sea, there is no their dedication to me, my love, there will be my today, no matter what man, to marry me, first of all, to identify with my family, otherwise, everything is free to talk about", so I resolutely and resolutely proposed to break up with my third boyfriend.
Three years ago, my grandfather and adoptive father died one after another, I took my grandmother to the side to take care of and vowed to rely on my grandmother for my life, in her old man's life, I am not ready to talk about marriage, unless it is a man who is willing to come to the door to "marry backwards as a son-in-law", otherwise everything is exempt from talking, everyone said: "Is my request excessive?" "Please speak up in the comments section.