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People can't always do big things, but they can certainly do little things for others at any time, in order to reap the joy of accumulating goodness.
There are several reports on the Internet that raise hands like this:
If there are broken glass, pins, blades, etc. in the garbage, please wrap them with tape and wrap them as many layers as possible, so as to reduce the probability of cleaning personnel or garbage pickers being hurt.
When you get on the bus and encounter the old, weak, sick and pregnant women, don't make a sound when you give up your seat, and don't make a big fuss. Stand up and block others with your body, leave a vacant seat for those who need it, and then pretend to get out of the car and go farther. Too many people are not far away, and people smile when they thank you.
When you encounter something selling at night, you can buy more, don't bargain, things are not expensive. When students come out to work-study, you buy whatever they sell. If there is no special reason, it also takes courage to come out to work, and encourage them as much as possible.
"Don't do it with good and small, and don't do it with evil." In fact, many times people don't need you to do anything for him, just a little bit of your hand. The reason why it is done is because it is small and big; the reason why it is not done is because it cannot be done rather than cannot be done. In conveying kindness, each of us is a moral bearer.
The ancients had clouds: "Raise your hand, how to hang your teeth." "It's a small thing that's not worth mentioning to you, and it can mean a lot to others."
Sometimes for others it is just a momentary compassion, a show of hands, but for the parties, it is earth-shattering. There is a story of a boy who tripped and fell to the ground, and the book, two sweatshirts, a baseball racket, a pair of gloves, and a Walkman all fell to the ground in his arms, and was seen by Mark on the way home, so he got down on one knee to help the boy pick up the scattered things one by one. The boy's name was Bill, and he happened to be on the same road as Mark, so Mark helped him get some of his stuff. On the way, Bill tells Mark that he enjoys playing video games, baseball, and history classes, that he doesn't do well in other subjects, and that he tells Mark about his breakup with his girlfriend. They arrive at Bill's house first, and Bill invites Mark in for a Coke and tv. That afternoon they talked and laughed together and had a great time. Since then they have often met on campus and sometimes have lunches together. After graduating from junior high school, they went to the same high school again. Three weeks before they graduated, one day Bill asked Mark if he remembered the first time they had met years earlier. "Have you ever wondered why I brought so many things home that day?" Bill asked Mark. Mark shook his head. Bill said, "You know, I cleaned up my closet a bit because I didn't want to leave the mess to anyone else, I had secretly taken some sleeping pills from my mother and I was going to kill myself when I got home that day." But, after we had a happy conversation and laughter together, I gave up the idea, and I realized that if I ended my life myself, there would be no such happy time, and there might be many other very beautiful things in the future. So, you see, Mark, when you picked up my book that day, you didn't just pick up my book, you picked up my life. So, thank you, Mark. ”
A show of hands is really something that can be solved with your hands, without paying a significant price and cost, but it may change the fate of others in their lives.
Ye Xuan said in "Learn to Ignore and Learn to Forget": Doing good deeds every day may not be a big thing, but the work of raising your hand can warm the hearts of others and even yourself.
A show of hands will also make you successful
A young man who graduated from high school came to work as a handyman in an acting company, with a meager salary and often being called to drink, but he still did his job in an orderly manner.
Once, he helped the supervisor to find an actor information in the file pile, and he found that many important materials were randomly placed, disorderly, and once found, it would be a lot of trouble.
He thought: If these documents can be sorted into categories, wouldn't it save a lot of time to find them? Thinking of this, he immediately put it into action, worked all night, worked overtime, spent a few days to sort out the actor information stored by the entire company, and deliberately established a database in the company's computer, so that when looking up the information in the future, it can be extracted at the fastest speed, which greatly improves work efficiency.
Later, colleagues at the company noticed this remarkable change, and when the manager learned that it was a young man who had just entered the industry, he was surprised. So he was called to the office, and after a conversation, the manager decided to promote him to the director of actor liaison, and said to him: "Don't worry, you are completely competent, what you do for the company is enough to prove your wisdom and diligence, and in the process of collating all the actor information, you have become the person who knows the actor's situation in the company, so this position is yours." ”
Facts have proved that the manager is correct, since then, the show business circle has one more gold agent, but also one more star scout, he is known as the "ghost talent scout" Zhao Runqin, under his vigorous excavation, Maggie Cheung, Guan Zhilin, Li Jiaxin and other well-known actors stand out.
When Zhao Runqin completed his own extraordinary things, he did not expect that his hand-raising efforts would bring him such a great opportunity. He doesn't do this, sooner or later someone else will do it, and maybe in this way, his chance to become famous will also be given to others. Don't be small, sometimes, success is in your show of hands.
Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance
There was a blind man who lived in a building and every night he would go for a walk in the garden downstairs. Strangely, whether he went upstairs or downstairs, he had to grope along the wall to light the lights in the corridor. Once his neighbor couldn't help himself and asked, "Your eyes can't see, so why do you turn on the lights?" The blind man smiled slightly and replied to him: "Turning on the light can bring convenience to others to go up and down the stairs, so that they can see more clearly when they go up and down the stairs, and they will not knock me down, and they will also bring me convenience." The neighbor suddenly realized that he had to admire his way of enjoying himself.
This is the story of "giving people roses, having residual incense in their hands", a very insignificant, just like giving people a rose as ordinary as a small thing, the warmth it brings will slowly rise and diffuse in the hearts of the flower givers and the flower recipients, and begin to penetrate into our social life after being infinitely enlarged, bringing beauty to our lives.
Try to be a kind person and use your hand to bring a little convenience to others.
About the author: Achin, a freelance writer, loves words, likes to express what he thinks through words, and loves comics ( ́-ω-').