Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
There is a classic passage in "33 Days of Lost Love": "I open the address book of my mobile phone, and who I want to talk to, it is good to be a person, and it is good to be able to respond." But there is not a single such person on the long contact list. This is also the evil consequence of my unsentimental indulgence in love. ”
Many times, we love a person with all our strength, firmly believe that two people will come to the end, and firmly believe that the other person will not leave us no matter what.
It is precisely because of this confidence that many people, in a relationship, become no longer pay attention to details, no longer try to manage themselves, so that partners gradually feel disappointed in this relationship.
Many people, until the moment of real loss, realize how big a mistake they have made, and begin to feel remorseful, wanting to keep the other party, but the other party's resolute posture makes us prohibitive.
The law of seven days of separation tells us that if a person still loves you, then he will regret the decision he made within seven days of being separated from you and want to return to you.
So, if your partner, within seven days of breaking up with you, has these performances, it actually means that he still loves you:
If your lover, after separating from you, asks about your recent situation and inquires about your news, it actually means that he still loves you.
He will desperately want to know if you miss him now, will worry about whether you are alone with other people of the opposite sex at the moment, will be afraid of whether you will, and will never look at him again.
Therefore, he will pay great attention to what you are doing and thinking now, and long for the future to be able to reconcile with you one day.
And if once you start to have signs of a change of heart, the other party will feel anxious and panicked, trying to save the feelings between you.
Of course, the man who has you in his heart will take the initiative to contact you after a brief separation between you. You know, when you have a conflict with your partner, you will be dominated by emotions, say something against your heart, and only think about how to fight back against the other party, but you have not considered the consequences of doing so.
When the two people are separated, they gradually realize how great a mistake they have committed, and begin to constantly reflect on what they have done.
When a person thinks about the sweet past experiences of two people, thinking that there may never be a way to meet again in this life, he will feel that face is not important at all, and bowing to his lover is actually not a big deal.
So, if your partner initiates contacting you after separating from you, it proves that he still has you in his heart and hopes that you can give him another chance.
He hopes to rekindle your relationship through his own connection and let you know his determination to love you.
And if your partner no longer loves you, he will never take the initiative to contact you.
For him, it is a great blessing to break up with you, and he does not want to have more intersection with you in the future.
Seeing this, you may ask, these performances are all there, does he really love me? In fact, in addition to these signs, the most obvious thing is that he will be very disappointed.
Be clear, in the relationship, if your partner still loves you, then when he faces a life without you, the mood will be unusually low.
His mind is filled with everything about your past, he remembers the streets you walked together arm in arm, the moments when you prepared for each other's surprises...
At this moment, there is no figure of you around, only a lonely person, and my heart is full of sadness.
Therefore, his mood will continue to remain low, and it will be difficult to return to a happy state.
And if the other person is not sad and lost because of your departure, but quickly begins to embrace a new life and immediately finds the next partner. Then his actions show that you can never go back to the past.
summary:
In fact, when two people are together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will get bored, which does not mean that they no longer love each other, but it is difficult to see the hidden love in life.
The seven-day law of breaking up actually tells us: many times it is not that we don't love, but that we need time, calm down to recall those warm moments, appreciate the happiness that the other party has brought, and then make the final judgment.
However, people always have difficulty controlling their emotions, bringing harm to the most intimate other, and saying words to sting the heart of their lover.
I hope that you and I can control our temper at a critical moment and not attack him the most loved one with those cold words.
I also hope that you and I can remember that the words spoken when we are burning in anger are not out of sincerity, and give our lovers another chance.