Ma Yun and Huang Bo are both representatives of high emotional intelligence, what sparks will collide when two people on the same stage? When the two people really met that year, Ma Yun asked Huang Bo: "Can you give me endorsements?" ”
Huang Bo said, "Yes! But you've got to give me a car! As a result, after Ma Yun knew what kind of car it was, he laughed.
At that time, Ma Yun smiled and replied: "What car do you want?" At that time, the people present heard Ma Yun's question and pinched a handful of sweat for Huang Bo.
If you refuse, the consequences may be very serious, after all, Ma Yun is the boss of the business world and has a certain right to speak on some things. Even many big guys in the entertainment industry have to give Ma Yun some face.
Huang Bo laughed and said, "Help me empty my shopping cart!" Suddenly, Ma Yun laughed, and the whole audience boiled over, and this wonderful answer was exchanged for warm applause from the audience. Huang Bo did not directly respond to the question of "free endorsement".
On the contrary, from another point of view, not only humorously hinted that I actually wanted to pay endorsement fees, but also put an advertisement for Ma Yun's shopping cart.
Ma Yun then asked Huang Bo, "What do you think I look like?" Huang Bo smiled and said, "We both look similar." In fact, this question is really not easy to answer, saying that it looks good looks flattering, saying that it is not good-looking and too hurtful, and saying it is generally vague.
One sentence will easily solve the problem, I have to say that Huang Bo's emotional intelligence is indeed very high.
Regarding looks, Zeng Zhiwei once ridiculed Huang Bo: "I don't dare to sing on TV, and it is very sad to think of Huang Bo singing with an ugly face." ”
Huang Bo was not angry, and said politely: "I didn't think about acting before, once I saw that Zeng Zhiwei can get the emperor of the film, I have nothing impossible." ”
In another program, Faye Wong participated in the "City of Illusion" to find Huang Bo to help, He Jiong asked Faye Wong, you have so many friends in the circle, why did you invite Huang Bo to come? Faye Wong replied very directly, he is free! The scene was awkward.
At this time, He Jiong threw this question to Huang Bo, Faye Wong has so many friends, why choose you, it should not be that you are free. Huang Bo said that because Faye Wong is a person with strict quality requirements. The audience burst into laughter.
Once Huang Bo and Zheng Yuling presented awards together, and as a result, Zheng Yuling took stock of her Golden Horse qualifications, and also ridiculed Huang Bo for dressing too casually and simply did not take the Golden Horse Awards seriously.
And Huang Bo responded with witty words and ease, he said: "I have been in the Golden Horse Awards for the past five years, and I have made the Golden Horse Awards like home, of course, I have to wear a little more comfortable when I return home, so I wear house clothes." ”
Huang Bo's witty response not only resolves the embarrassment, but also explains his high emotional intelligence and orderly heart.
High emotional intelligence is like this, many times can allow themselves to avoid some embarrassing situations, but also help their own network and development.
Daniel Gorman, the father of emotional intelligence, once said: "People with high IQs may not have a successful career, but they must perform extraordinary." ”
People with high emotional intelligence can see their inner qualities through a person's words and deeds, and they know which friends should be made and which friends should not be made, so there are basically very few situations in their friends that they owe money and do not pay back.
People with high emotional intelligence can see through the hearts of others, know the unspoken meaning of others' words, and at the same time they know how to control their emotions, know how to take care of other people's emotions, and solve problems with a relaxed and humorous attitude.
Whether in life or at work, people with high emotional intelligence are not only reflected in their ability to speak, but also in their understanding of how to get along with colleagues, how to communicate with leaders, and they know the skills to negotiate with customers.
Working with people with high emotional intelligence, you will be very comfortable, they will always anticipate all the accidents that will happen in advance, prevent them in advance, they are broad-minded, even if they encounter setbacks and sufferings, they persevere and never give up. With them, there is only one way to succeed.