We often hear that girls should stand up, sit with a seated image, and "have a girl's appearance." Is there anything wrong with girls being naughty? Why can't girls be naughty anymore? Is it the innate weakness of girls, or is it the result of acquired environmental and social oppression?
Parents who have girls in the family have paid attention to the fact that in the new era, do not say "there is a girl-like" to the baby, and do not deliberately suppress the child's lively nature. Otherwise, outdated educational concepts will only cultivate children abandoned by the times!
I have a friend who has a feudal style, when he brought a 6-year-old girl to my house to play, I found that children never dared to speak loudly, did not dare to make a big sound when eating, and put dishes and chopsticks gently, not to mention talking back to adults, well-behaved and docile.
Imagine how strictly "ladylike" children are educated at home. As the father of a 5-year-old girl, I really think there's no harm in being naughty at all, but there are many benefits. So I often went crazy with Xibao and made a lot of games to play with her.
Many parents do not understand, what is the benefit of naughty girls?
From the perspective of traditional education, girls have always regarded "virtuous and virtuous" as their spiritual beauty, and they should be gentle and sensible. And this standard is built around "whether you can marry or not". I often hear adults around me say, "Girls are so naughty, what should no one do when they grow up?" ”
However, in this society, where girls are still used as accessories to men, they must be independent! So girls being naughty is actually a good thing!
First, the naughty girl has a generous personality and is not afraid of the scene. The naughty baby girl has her own aura from an early age, has leadership and observation, and has an enterprising spirit. Usually bullied, you can also bravely protect yourself, not to be gas bags.
The kindergarten has important activities, and they are not ashamed, but generously show themselves on stage. Naughty girls will become more and more confident!
Second, naughty girls are generally quick-witted. I think that many parents have had such an experience, obviously the baby himself made a mistake, we go to educate the baby, but the baby said dumb, very humiliating. Loving people is not the privilege of baby boys, and girls' minds are also very active!
Third, the naughty baby girl "has better luck"! This "luck" does not mean that girls can be favored by heaven if they are naughty, but that they are very good at seizing fleeting opportunities. While the other baby girls were still hesitating, the "naughty girls" had already taken action.
Most importantly, fourth, naughty girls have a sense of independence from an early age and do not succeed in gender. Such a baby will not dare to grab some rare opportunities with boys because they are a girl, and will not take "marriage" as a "bet" and rely on others to live.
I hope that my child will be a person with an independent personality from an early age, so Xibao will sometimes even refute my words with reason, which is very headache! But when I turned my head, I was very happy.
Therefore, if your baby girl likes to bounce around, sometimes she will scare you twice, naughty and playful, don't drink and rebuke her. Instead, we should take advantage of the situation and let the baby "jump" in a good direction, and the baby will become more and more confident and become an independent new era woman, tenacious and smart! Pay attention to the millions of fans of the whole network [Xibao Dad], and share original thinking games and exclusive early education experiences every day!