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Crab Law
If you put only one crab in the bamboo basket, you must cover it, otherwise it will crawl out. But if you put a few more in, you don't have to put a lid on it. Because when one crab climbs to the mouth of the basket, the rest of the crabs will drag it down, and so on, and no crab can successfully climb out.
This is the famous "crab law": "If I am not happy, then I want to see others unhappy; if I can't climb up, I also want to hold others so that others can't climb up." 」 ”
So it is easy to fall into a vicious circle mode, everyone you step on me and I step on you, because a lot of energy is used to pull and step on each other, there is no energy to improve themselves, no one can escape, and finally the collective falls into a state of decline.
In life, the most rational choice is to know how to appreciate each other and complete each other.
No one is an island, standing alone. The truly strong know how to appreciate others, build bridges for each other, and at the same time complete others, they also complete themselves.
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Mushroom Law
Mushrooms grow in a dark land in the early stages, and have been in the process of free growth for a long time, and if they give up the hope of growth in the early stages, they can only remain silent forever. If you can always grow upwards, not afraid of hardships and tribulations, you will one day be able to break through the darkness and see the light. This phenomenon is called the "mushroom law."
Newcomers to the workplace always hope that leaders can pay attention to their talents and efforts. But the reality is that the vast majority of newcomers repeat the basic work over and over again.
Everyone grows up to go through such a process, and the time when they fight alone in the dark is the most difficult.
I like the saying: "It's easy to give up, but it must be cool to stick with it." "If you survive, you can get out; if you can't survive, you will be buried."
No matter how good a talent is, they start from the simplest things and grow up all the way.
Everyone must go through a "mushroom period" in the process of growing up.
The only thing you can do before you break through is not to give up, to stay up, and to do things to the extreme.
As long as you can withstand loneliness, you will always usher in your own highlight moment.
The law of fleas
Psychologists have done a very interesting experiment.
Under normal circumstances, fleas can jump to heights hundreds of times their own height. If you put a glass cover on the flea at this time, the flea will crash on the top of the glass cover. After a few consecutive times, the flea lowers its jump height and jumps only to the top of the cover at most.
As you continue to lower the height of the glass cover, the jump height of the fleas will also get lower and lower. At the end, after removing the glass cover, you will find that the fleas can no longer jump high. This is the "law of fleas".
The "law of fleas" tells us a very simple truth, there is only one kind of failure in life, that is, self-limiting.
In life, there are many people who encounter some difficulties and will choose to withdraw, and some people like to stay in their comfort zone and dare not try and challenge the unknown. Eventually, like a "fleas", it becomes numb and dull.
The meaning of life is to open up, not to stick to it, and we should not lose the courage to move forward at any time.
In this life, no matter how old a person is, he should not draw the ground as a prison. Although the process is full of pain, you will definitely meet a better version of yourself in the end.
I have seen a very interesting analogy that the strong are like a tree, burying their roots deep in the ground, growing upwards, and using thick leaves to provide shade to others. The strong are like eagles, leaving the figure in the long sky, overlooking the earth, and using powerful wings to meet the storms of life.
May you learn to root downwards and grow upwards like the strong, with a larger pattern, embracing the larger world.
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