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Text/Nancheng Nian Bei'an
01
Around me, there are many people who fall in love, just find someone to pass the lonely and boring time.
It seems that the person who is in love can do it.
They kiss and hug, get tired of being together all day, wear couple costumes, and use couple avatars.
Tell each other touching love words, and when it is good, I would rather not be separated for a second.
But it will also be because of some trivial things, it will be turned upside down and quarrelsome.
It is precisely because of this little bit of misunderstanding and contradiction that the two people will break up.
One second he was still dying and living with love, and the next second he was threatening to break up with the other person.
After the breakup, it will be fast enough to plunge into the next love.
For them, there is not a little window period.
For them, love may be a spice in life, or a game.
If it is not appropriate, change people, the last one is bye-bye, the next one is more obedient.
But in our lives, there is still such a category of people.
They never fall in love easily, unless the other person is very impressed with them.
02
I don't know if there are such people around you, they obviously have a high appearance and the conditions in all aspects are not bad.
But I've always been single.
If asked why they are always single?
Nor can they say a single reason for this.
There was such a person next to me, Miss Orange.
Miss Orange sister has a high appearance, a good figure, and more importantly, a super nice personality.
None of the people she had come into contact with did not praise and praise.
In the eyes of many people, a girl like Tangerine must be a master of love.
On the contrary, she is actually single.
I know very well that Miss Orange takes love very seriously.
03
In her opinion, falling in love is not a momentary impulse, but the result of careful consideration.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, falling in love is kissing and hugging and holding high.
I just want to find someone to accompany me.
Two people dressed as lovers and went out to play together.
But in Miss Orange's opinion, she doesn't fall in love for the sake of falling in love.
Instead, she can eat, shop, and watch movies alone. Eat takeout when you're hungry, rest when you're tired, and go out to play when you want.
Such a life can be done by yourself.
If it's not because of the heartbeat, not because of love, then don't fall in love.
04
Orange The love she pursues is a two-way street.
Love that only one person takes the initiative, no matter how hard it tries, will seem very difficult.
If not, Orange would rather be single.
But in the eyes of many people, if you are single, even if you are not very impressed with each other, you will still try.
In my opinion, none of them are really in love.
True love is that no matter what happens to two people, they will not let go of each other's hands.
Understand that it is not easy to be together with each other, and it is not easy to say break up.
When encountering things, they will communicate with each other in time and communicate with each other.
Two people will trust, tolerate, understand each other, go hand in hand, and achieve each other.
Boyfriend and girlfriend are not just a title, but also responsibility and companionship.
To become a better version of yourself together is the real love affair.
05
Some people fall in love to pass the lonely and boring time;
Some people fall in love with the tide, seeing that everyone is in love, they also choose to fall in love; others are in love because someone pursues, even if you like each other so much, they will choose to fall in love.
I believe that many people in our lives fall in love for the above reasons.
If it were not for the love that was talked about because they liked each other, most of them would not be happy in the end, and the relationship would fail in a short time and face a breakup.
And true love, is to like each other, is not his must, is no matter what kind of difficulties encountered, will not give up on each other.
I hope you can understand what it is to really fall in love, and then it is not too late to fall in love!
I write to accompany you to buy drunk
The tavern does not close late at night
It doesn't matter if you're happy or not
I'll accompany you to put the wine talk to the dawn
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About the author: Nancheng Nian Bei'an
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