Brother Li Published "Don't Treat Dad as a Parent", written to his daughter Xiao Demon, revealing full of love between the lines. Li Turbot believes: "Parents are tutors. What kind of person the parents are, what kind of personality they have, and how to behave in the world are the most intuitive and influential education for children. He said and did so, and so did this, so there was this book "Don't Treat Dad as a Parent." The daughter little demon is not willing to be lonely, and has been influenced by her father Li Turbot since she was a child, and she has made words, which is naturally not bad. He also wrote a book, Born in 1998, telling us: "Love is the best gift of youth." ”
Born in 1998, the little demon is only 17 years old this year, which is the flowery age of youth. The little demon has a lot of personality, saying to himself: "Not cruel, not sad, not willful." There is only heavy humor, mild tears, and full of love. In "Born in 1998", she spoke of the confusion of growing up and the confusion of youth, but not entangled, but committed to discovering the beauty and happiness of life. For example, "out of tune" parents, teachers with full personalities, "strange" classmates, various games and playthings, and even adult topics such as early love, supernatural birth, poor students, and household registration policy.
A good father has a good daughter, which is exactly what Li Turbot usually teaches: I have always regarded you as an "independent person" rather than "my daughter". We are friends who treat each other as equals, relatives with high trust, playmates who play together, objects of mutual learning, and "co-offenders" who are consistent with the outside world. Be friends with your daughter, don't treat the village chief as a cadre, don't treat your father as a parent. In such a space, the little demon can grow freely, free from the shackles and oppression of tradition; that is why her life is full of joy, and her childhood is so nostalgic.
"Don't Treat Dad as a Parent" shows a father's love and expectations for his daughter in the form of 46 letters, and the daughter demon responds to the father's love with humorous strokes in the appendix to the book, "Dear Father". As for "Born in 1998", it is more like a kind of text pouring out to her father, with a cuteness after 95, cuteness, humor, frankness, truth, wit, funny, independent, unpretentious, and then a super sense of picture, reading such fresh and lively words, like watching a light and interesting movie. After the end of the scene, I still think back to the picture in my mind and can't forget it for a long time.
Father and daughter, there is always an endless topic. For his beloved daughter, Li Turbot said: "Those who have walked with you, are grateful and gentle. Leave you and always keep a good thing in your heart. "We can read from it a strong sense of love, whether it is a father's responsibility or a wish, Li Turbot has a deep love for his growing daughter." The world is big, there are many beautiful things, it is too late to discover and enjoy, where is the time to spend on people and things that make you unhappy? "Little by little, the poured love fills the space of words.
It is a matter of course to be a parent and to educate one's children. But how to educate, what kind of methodology, is not something that parents can do or understand. In the past, Wang Shuo wrote a long novel "I Am Your Father", which is full of the bittersweet and bittersweet of being a father. In the new era, Li Turo's "Don't Take Dad as a Parent" is happy and joyful; although he is not an education expert, he understands the value of existence, he has thought about what kind of life his children should live, and he believes that the birth of his daughter is not to lead to the road of slavery, but to experience the beauty of life.
With such a father, the daughter of the little demon is also growing up happily and healthily. There is no only child's pampering and other faults, and there is a rare optimism and tolerance for life. At the end of "Born in 1998", the little demon writes: "Knowing that you have to leave in the end, so you are afraid, so you cherish and cherish the time together more; just as you know that you will die, so you love life." And parting is coming. Slowly, step by step, gently, and irresistibly. "She knows that the world is not perfect, life is not all joy, flowers bloom and flowers fall, and everything is looked at with peace of mind.
Born in 1998, the little demon looks at life from the perspective of a child, whether it is the joys and sorrows on campus, or the parents at home, and even the daily chores in life. All of them are colorful and full of positive energy that she has written, full of positive energy. Occasional mischievous cunning is also due to the personality of the little girl. It is different from the compositions assigned by those teachers, there is no empty slogan and standard writing norms, but a kind of free optimism and sunshine and cheerfulness, constantly discovering beauty, finding fun, and finding happiness from daily life.
Reading the father-daughter book, I felt that I could compare it with each other, as if a big tree had two branches. One is a father's monologue to his daughter, and the other is his daughter's remembrance of growing up, and in the crossover we see the affection and warmth between father and daughter. It can be said that having a father, Li Turbot, has given her daughter a healthy and colorful color in her study and life, and the initial connotation of life has been rich and beautiful since then. The old saying has clouds, words and deeds, Li Turbot is so. And the little demon born in 1998 also proved to us in words how important it is to have a good childhood.