In 1998, a strong character who constantly grew up to avenge his father made a deep impression on the thirteenth sister of "Hongxing Thirteen Sisters of the Ancient Puzzle Boy Love Film".
Wu Junru, who played the thirteenth sister, won the Academy Award for Best Actress in 1999 for this film.
As a result, her acting path was "out of control", and later won the Golden Horse Award for Film Queen with the movie "Jin Ming".
She has played Zeng Rou in "Deer DingJi"; directed and played the "Universal Master" LingJie in "Demon Bell"; Played Duan San Girl in "Absolute Double Glory"; played Cheng Dajie in "Family Has a Happy Event"...
When it comes to the queen of Hong Kong's comedy industry, Wu Junru, everyone should know it.
With a big grin, an informal personality, and an exaggerated performance style, she teased thousands of spectators.
She is so dedicated and "ugly", how many classic roles she has achieved, but also let people have a deeper impression of her in their hearts.
There are thousands of beautiful women, and ugly women are difficult to change, so she is unique.
In addition to her works being loved, her feelings are also attracting people's attention. She is such a big grin, not very confident in herself, why is her feelings harmonious and warm and happy?
In an interview, Wu Junru said: "If one day, you really feel that it is not suitable for each other, you will separate." ”
Love, just be together, cherish each other; if you don't love, you will separate, let each other go, and you are still friends.
She is very open-minded, and in the concept of love, she sees more transparently than most people.
A marriage certificate is just a piece of paper that can be torn open at any time. Whether there is each other in the heart, good or bad feelings is a bond that connects the two people.
Wu Junru has had two relationships, and her ex-boyfriend is a "forward-looking" singer, Du Dewei.
Many people may have seen "Pawnshop No. 8", yes, he played the male protagonist Han Nuo, who was popular at the time.
At the beginning of the 20th century, Wu Junru and Du Dewei met by cooperating in "Overlord Flower" and began an underground affair that lasted for 8 years.
At that time, Wu Junru was young and cute, slightly fat, and Du Dewei was also a person with musical talent.
He has released albums and formed bands, and the "advanced" style has allowed him to gain a large number of fans.
At first they had a good conversation, handsome man and beautiful woman. Du Dewei's career is in the ascendant, because he is handsome and talented, who doesn't love it?
Wu Junru developed mediocrely, often playing ugly women, and was once directly accused by public opinion of her being the third party between Tang Zhenye and Weng Meiling.
Tang Zhenye only thought she was a sister, and after Weng Meiling's death, she was scolded by fans for fox essence, and was hidden by the snow for many years.
Later, Wu Junru's career slowly warmed up through his own efforts, compared with Wu Junru, Du Dewei's career slowly became calmer.
The specific details of the breakup have not been exposed, and it is said that it is because Du Dewei dislikes Wu Junru is too fat, and he still likes to be thin;
It is also said that because Wu Junru is too "ugly", she often plays a clown; some say that because of the emergence of a third party.
During this period, Wu Junru was still sad because of this relationship, and was once unwilling to touch the relationship again.
Although the two have broken up, they have become friends again, and now they have their own families.
Regardless of the details, a relationship that was once favored by some people stayed in 1996.
After the breakup, Wu Junru resolved to lose weight, reducing to 50 kilograms, thin with edges and angles. One day in 1997, she met Chen Kexin on the set.
Love can really hurt people, make people grow, and at the same time, they can meet love around the corner.
A bottle of water knots. Once on the set, Wu Junru was very thirsty after filming, and shouted on the set: "Is there any water?" ”
At this time, Chen Kexin happened to be nearby, and immediately handed her water after hearing it.
Her big grinning personality immediately left a deep impression on Chen Kexin, and later Chen Kexin made an appointment with Wu Junru, and when he ate with her, he confessed directly to her: I am in love with you.
The so-called love at first sight may not be so.
At first, Wu Junru did not want to consider him, because as soon as he saw Chen Kexin, he felt that he was not the kind that was fixed.
The state of filming, and usual life will still have some differences, Wu Junru thought, Chen Kexin thought that his personality was the same as the big grin of filming.
At that time, Chen Kexin was in the United States, while Wu Junru was in Hong Kong. Sometimes when Chen Kexin came back from the United States, they would meet, chat, make long-distance phone calls, and so on.
But Chen Kexin was not very serious, he was just in Hollywood at the time, and he did not have much idea about getting married and having children.
Wu Junru believes that if you can't communicate in the direction of marriage, then don't do it.
Every relationship is meant to be taken seriously.
They gradually have feelings in the coming and going. Their patting and dragging seemed to their friends to be somewhat incredible.
Chen Kexin is not the ideal type of Wu Junru, everyone agrees that she is a Yan control, the personality contrast is relatively large, just complementary.
In 2004, after 7 years of pat dragging, the two lived together. Although they are under the same roof, they divide the room into two halves, one person and half.
It is both a cohabitation and a co-living partner; respecting each other's privacy and sharing a common space.
In June 2005, Wu Junru discovered that she was unexpectedly pregnant. At the age of 41, in April 2006, she gave birth to her daughter Chen Shiru.
In 2007, the premiere of "Submission of Names" was held at the Beijing Olympic Stadium, and Chen Kexin held Wu Junru into the venue, also to openly admit the love of 10 years to everyone.
Chen Kexin is not a person who can speak well, he is more about hiding his feelings, showing in his daily life, and his temperament is more calm.
With Wu Junru moving and quiet, it is a good match, and his love is delicate and long.
Chen Kexin proposed marriage to Wu Junru, but both were rejected, and he said bluntly: "It is Wu Junru who does not want to marry me." ”
Wu Junru felt that the current state of the two was very good, the spiritual level was very fulfilling, and both people cherished each other, which was very good.
A piece of paper, for Wu Junru, it can not become a bond of feelings. She didn't want a piece of paper to become a shackle to marriage.
Most of us must have a marriage license to get married, it is like a reassuring pill, with the guarantee, a certificate to bring the two together.
From a personal point of view, the marriage certificate is also a sense of ceremony and a sense of security to the other party.
Wu Junru and Chen Kexin, their ideological realm, can already give each other a sense of security without taking a marriage certificate.
They each give themselves full security, and do not have to rely on each other to give themselves. Love is there, and it is enough.
She was very supportive of Chen Kexin, and when his career was at a low point, she did not say anything about working hard to pay for it, and spent it with him.
Practical actions are worth a thousand words.
In this life, Wu Junru has not yet worn a wedding dress, she said: "I want to wear it, but I am afraid that I will not look good when I wear it, fat and fat, and I don't look good as a young girl." ”
But from her words, I could feel the slightest desire for the wedding dress. After all, every girl has a wedding dream and hopes to see her beautiful appearance after wearing a wedding dress.
I am the most beautiful bride in the world.
They have been in love for 23 years, and Wu Junru will also learn to be like a little girl, from time to time to praise Chen Kexin:
"Wow, you're awesome!" "You're so handsome!"
Let him feel a little admiration for him from time to time. Of course, Chen Kexin also liked it.
It will be more intimate to praise each other and maintain a slightly upward look at the person you love.
"Love needs to be worshipped, love needs to be managed, not just a simple period of attraction."
A period of attraction is not long, its shelf life may only be a few days, and the freshness will disappear as soon as it passes.
Nowadays, couples, even if they are married, have a marriage license as a guarantee, but the proportion of people who will not operate is also very high.
In marriage, there is not only bondage, but bondage can make people crazy. The husband can't stand the "supervision" of the wife, the wife can't stand the indifference of the husband, and so on...
As a result, today's divorce rate is also very high, and it is the best confession of love to be in love.
"True love, unlike making a movie, is unscripted. I think that in the end, love is habit, it is life..."
This is a letter written by Director Chen to Wu Junru, a short paragraph in it.
Life is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, perhaps there is no daily romance and passion when in love, but there is a long stream of love.
She teased him: "He can't be an actor, not this piece of material, he can only be a director and direct others to act." ”
The ridicule in words is the love mark left by the years.
The longevity of their love also stems from their willingness to stay with each other, even without a marriage license.
Isn't what is missing now such a love that cherishes each other, but does not give the other party a bondage?
Author: Flower Tea
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