To be a person and do things, you must be able to withstand loneliness! Life, there is a kind of wisdom, also called to endure loneliness! Really powerful people, never "in a hurry", they will hone themselves and improve themselves in loneliness.
In the history of our country, there are many outstanding figures who have achieved brilliant lives in loneliness. For example, the famous ancient scholar Liu Xun was a person who lived with loneliness all his life, and in this loneliness he achieved the "Wenxin Carved Dragon", which pioneered the theory of Chinese literature and art.
Liu Xun became an orphan from an early age, and his family was poor and could not marry a wife, so he became a monk. It was also because during this period of time as a monk that he was able to read the scriptures and later wrote the "Wenxin Carved Dragon". Liu Xun lived a poor and lonely life, but he wrote a stunning literary theory, as long as we taste his unique feelings about the mountains and rivers, the sun and the moon, and the incisive exposition of various styles, we cannot but be impressed by him.
From the form and appearance, Liu Xun is lonely. But in fact, he is not only not lonely, but also has a spiritual world that is difficult for ordinary people to reach.
Loneliness is a kind of wisdom and a state of life, just depending on what attitude and method you use to treat it. In the face of loneliness, adjust your mentality, you can also explode in obscurity. In real life, there are also many people who can withstand loneliness, they can focus on their work from the heart, they can love their careers from the heart, and become the most powerful people in their fields.
Zhu Yanfeng, general manager of FAW Group, is an entrepreneur who lives a very low-key life and can withstand loneliness. He said: "I myself said that I can endure loneliness for 20 years, but that is not to say, it is to be patient, not to be in a hurry." ”
For the automotive industry he is engaged in, Zhu Yanfeng does not preach anything, but only says: "I like cars, I am a chemical engineering student, I just want to do cars, just like." There are so many opportunities to go here, where to go, or to go abroad for further study, think about it or work in the car. I really like cars, I can say very clearly about cars, this is my sense of professionalism, and there is absolutely a love for cars in my blood. ”
Loneliness has different feelings for different people, and what seems to us to be very lonely may be a love for the cause of others.
True loneliness is by no means a pessimistic and negative attitude towards life, nor is it a posture of pretentious and clear-mindedness and no one in sight, let alone isolation from the world. The so-called ability to endure loneliness is a rejection of utilitarianism and impetuosity, and a state of life that is silently cultivated in indifference and tranquility. Because of this, people who are not in a hurry and can withstand loneliness will have a pure and broad inner world, will have strong self-esteem and self-confidence, and will not be easily swayed by the opinions of others.
"Thousands of miles of sorrow and autumn are often guests, and more than a hundred years of illness have been on the stage alone", Du Fu wrote such a unique song for eternity in the midst of turbulence and displacement, which is the best annotation of his indifferent state of mind; "Picking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence, leisurely seeing the South Mountain", Tao Yuanming lived in seclusion in the South Mountain, worked at sunrise, returned with the moon, and enjoyed the pastoral taste that ordinary people could not enjoy in loneliness. In life, no one can avoid loneliness, can not be hurt by loneliness, but in the loneliness to regulate life to taste, that must be a person of great wisdom. That's why we say that in life, there is a great wisdom, which is called enduring loneliness.