There is a popular saying on the Internet: There is a hurdle in a woman's life, called the first two years of giving birth to a child. After entering the marriage, we who are new mothers always seem flustered, looking at the newborn little people ecstatic, but there is no way to start. But this is only the beginning, and the next unfinished housework, endless nights, and endless diapers are the real test.
Some people say that couples who love each other have 100 thoughts of divorce and 50 times of the urge to strangle each other in their lives. If that's the case, I think at least half of these thoughts and impulses occur in the first two years of having a child.
After the first two years of having a child, you will truly understand how important it is to have a reliable husband, and you will truly know how ugly and messy you are.
What kind of situation will it be after surviving these two years? Of course, it is extremely happy and joyful! When your little person holds your face and says he loves you, your heart will melt, and no matter how much suffering and great grievances are worth it.
Child is a warm word that can make you stomp your feet and move you to tears. Raising children is actually a process of crossing one's own, discovering one's own problems in one's children, and accompanying one's children to grow up slowly.
Recently read a book called "Silly Cute You", the author of this book Isely. Dawski is from the United States and is a mom of two. She has created many books for children, each of which is written with a smile, each of which can bring joy to children, and this book is no exception.
From the perspective of a mother, this book tells the daily life of a mother and a child, which is simply a reproduction of real life, too real.
The cover of the book is a little girl with open arms, she looks silly, but she is so cute that people can't help but raise the corners of their mouths, want to hug her, kiss her, like a little person in the family.
When I opened the book, the first words that came into my eyes were: Before you came, I didn't think of it at all...
It's so real! When my daughter was still in her stomach, I fantasized countless times about the beautiful scene after her birth, and what came to my mind was the appearance of the quiet years, but the reality snapped in the face.
Ever since my daughter was born, I've known that our house can be so messy, so noisy, and the toys thrown around everywhere make me scream miserably, and the sudden screams always make my heart beat faster.
But I never thought I would be so happy, when we take a shower we would splash water in the bathroom, I would touch my daughter, she would giggle, I also seemed to be back in childhood, the exhaustion of the day also disappeared.
Although my daughter always loses her temper, always jumps and jumps, always makes herself smelly and dirty, and always kicks the quilt when she sleeps, this does not affect my love for her at all, I love her so much.
Raising a child is a painful and happy process, and the child can always make you itch your teeth, but it can also always make you laugh. The time with the child is the purest and most free, and it is enough to love with the heart and laugh wildly.
When I first got the book, I was fascinated by the colors in it, from warm yellows to idyllic blues, the layers are comfortable and healing. The catchy language, more like a mother's letter to her child, is warm and intimate.
I told my daughter about the book, and when I said that the house was very messy and full of blocks, my daughter laughed embarrassedly; when I said that I didn't expect you to jump so high, my daughter got up and started bouncing on the bed; when my mother was too tired to fall asleep on the sofa, my daughter suddenly came over and kissed me and said seriously: "Mom, I love you, Mom, you're hard." ”
At that moment, I cried uncontrollably, and my heart was full of emotions, feeling that all the hard work before was not worth mentioning. My daughter is only 4 years old this year, we have not told her about this topic before, I did not expect her to see the mother in the story so hard to have such a reaction, so I took the opportunity to tell her some small stories of gratitude.
Originally thought that the child would forget after listening, but she did not expect that from that day on, when she said goodbye to the teacher in kindergarten, she would always bow and seriously say: "Teacher, you have worked hard." When he saw the security guard at the door, he would always take the initiative to greet him: "Grandpa is hard, goodbye!" ”
I think the biggest charm of picture books lies in this, through vivid and interesting pictures, catchy small stories, planting a seed of love in the hearts of children, so that children can slowly learn to be grateful, learn to love, and establish a sense of rules in the process of growing up.
I am also an author of children's literature, I have adapted four famous books for children, and Written various short stories, so I will be more critical in choosing picture books. In addition to the high requirements in the illustrations, I hope that the simple words in the book can convey some of the children's life philosophy, and hope that the children will gain something in the process of reading.
This book meets my requirements in all aspects, makes me very satisfied, and I believe that you will have a great gain after reading it. Raising children is not easy, but it is definitely worth it, and may you reap more happiness and satisfaction from it.