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Speaking of which, we all know that life is like a game, we grow up in this game, we will encounter a variety of challenges, and if we want to win, we must constantly upgrade and fight monsters, gain experience to overcome difficulties.
Similarly, a woman's "October pregnancy, the pain of childbirth" is also a small game, and in this game, what difficulties do women have to experience? Men might as well check it out!
Women giving birth to babies are like upgrading and fighting monsters, pushing into the delivery room is to see the boss, and men are very remorseful after watching
Level 1: Changes in body appearance
We all know that after a woman becomes pregnant, her body may become bloated and her skin color will become dull, and at this time we cannot rush to use cosmetics, hormones may affect the fetus.
So, all a woman can do is stay active and try to control her diet as much as possible, and there are no shortcuts too good.
To deal with this level, women can only maintain self-confidence, cheer up, and believe that they can reshape their youth, so that their mentality will become better, thereby reducing external changes.
Second level: fetal heart rate risk in the first trimester
In the third part of "Huan Zhu Ge Ge", we know that Xiao Yanzi miscarried twice, both of which were caused by his own hair.
In the first trimester, women also encounter two dangers.
One is that women do not know that they are pregnant, and if they do not pay attention to their actions, they may cause miscarriage.
Second, that is, after a woman becomes pregnant, the fetus has not had a fetal heart, or has a fetal heart but shows a state of cessation of development, which is commonly known as stillbirth.
To avoid this state, women also have to fight monsters to upgrade their abilities!
Putting aside the uncontrollable factor of genes, we must also avoid bad living habits, smoke and drink coffee must be stopped, but also pay attention to the living environment, do not exist chemical elements, but also pay attention to their emotions, do not get too excited.
Level 3: Fight alone or reinforcements on eight sides
In the process of playing the game, we all hope that npcs can help themselves, just like when we played the predecessors of "Hollow Knight", the wasp woman would risk her life to help herself, which also greatly reduced our difficulty and led to a perfect ending.
In the process of pregnancy, if a woman can only fight alone, take care of herself, the husband does not pay attention to this, and even uses his hands and feet on his pregnant wife, and the in-laws and in-laws also ask themselves pervertedly, then the difficulty of this level is indeed a bit over the standard.
Frankly speaking, the difficulty of this level will not cause physical harm to the fetus and the woman, but mental pressure may crush the woman, thus indirectly harming the fetus and even affecting the postpartum two weeks of vision.
Level 4: The Long Road to Upgrade
In October, the road to pregnancy is long, in this process, pregnant women should go to the archive point (obstetric examination) in time to check their physical condition, but also go to the mall (pharmacy) to buy folic acid to protect themselves and the fetus.
In the second and third trimesters, in addition to paying attention to the previous levels, women can also give prenatal education to the fetus, pay attention to avoid premature birth, water breakage and other situations.
Although these precautions are clichés, every day will live in the depths of the water, and we cannot let our guard down.
Fifth Level: The Arrival of yama in the delivery room
We all know that even in the modern era when medical technology is so developed, the success rate of women's childbirth cannot reach 100%, and promoting the delivery room is to experience a ghost door, and whether it can break out depends on whether it can hit the final boss - Yan Wangye.
Normally speaking, as long as the previous upgrades and monsters are done, the experience equipment is saved, and it is very simple to fight Yan Wangye, and you can give birth to a child safely in tens of minutes.
But if the front is not done well, then the difficulty of childbirth will increase sharply, increasing the risk chances.
Moreover, the delivery room is also a mirror that can help women see the true face of their husbands.
Seeing this, many men will cry tears and feel that their wives are too difficult! But in fact, this is just the beginning, and women still have to face the challenge of two weeks!
After giving birth, women also have to start confinement, and some women may have postpartum depressive symptoms, and they have to take care of their children after they have confinement.
Especially in widowed families, these mothers' challenges are one after another, never stopping until death.
A woman from pregnancy to childbirth, this is a small game, but the game will not be interrupted, which is the origin of the purpose of two weeks.
In this regard, we hope that men take good care of their wives and be able to give them support and encouragement!
I am Xiaoxuan's father, actively learning to take a baby "daughter slave", sharing the thoughts and feelings of the parenting process every day, if you like my articles, please pay attention to, forward, comment, your like is the biggest motivation for my writing!
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