Babies are the heart of the parents, a heart is all poured on it, can be described as careful care, afraid that there is something not done well, affecting the growth and development of the baby, it is really pitiful parents in the world.
A friend of mine is a typical example, let's call her Little A for the time being. When I was single, I belonged to the kind that didn't pay attention to the tune, did things with a big grin, and always liked to lose everything. Later, she met her current husband, in her words, "met true love", only been together for less than half a year, and one day she called all of us in the group like crazy, saying that there was big good news to announce. Looking at her excited look, we guessed that we were getting married. On the Eleventh National Day of that year, she became his wife as she wished. Not long after getting married, she had a baby, and the person who was completely unrelated to the careful and virtuous before did not expect that one day she would also become a good wife and mother because of love. In the blink of an eye, her children were almost a year old. The circle of friends is full of children's photos, and because she is busy with the family, we contact her less often. She was happy with her countless appointments at friend gatherings, and last weekend she was finally asked out. We joked with her that now her status is different, and she can't make an appointment in advance.
Children are like this, they are welcome everywhere, everyone hugs and competes for teasing. But the baby doesn't seem to be very happy, how to make fun of it, sometimes before laughing out, it instantly becomes a crying face. My friend saw that the baby was crying, and the heart was very painful, so he took it back and coaxed it, but the more he coaxed, the more he cried. Little A's voice gradually also had a crying voice, we were all frightened, asked her what was wrong, she said: "Since having a baby, I haven't slept a good night, whenever the baby cries, I'm afraid he's uncomfortable, I can't understand him, since last night the baby hasn't drunk much milk, and always crying, and there is no fever, there is nothing unusual in the mouth, I really don't know what's wrong." "The more I talk, the more I cry. The girl who used to have a big grin has now become so fragile that we all look at it with pain.
Although I am not very proficient in pediatrics, but I have studied pediatrics when I was in college before, my intuition tells me that the baby should be uncomfortable in the mouth, I asked her to help me open the baby's mouth, a look scared to death, the baby's entire mouth is covered with white crumbs, the throat is all, with that little bit of pediatric knowledge learned in class, I think the baby should have thrush. Quickly accompanied her to take the baby to the hospital.
Sure enough, the doctor diagnosed thrush after examination, the doctor blamed her baby's mouth to grow like this, when the mother did not notice at all, she only cared about crying, the doctor said to be hospitalized for observation, I quickly went to the hospitalization procedures.
We all know that she is a new mom with basically zero medical knowledge, and it is really good to do so. Later, she kept telling me that she thought that the baby was naughty, and she didn't want to swallow it these two days, so it accumulated in her mouth, she thought it was milk that coagulated into a lump, she didn't expect that this was also a disease. I can only try to comfort her, it doesn't matter, it's good to find out, the treatment will be fine for a few days, don't blame yourself excessively.
The baby was discharged after a week in the hospital. I told her to pay attention to it in the future, and when I had time, I would buy some books about pediatric diseases and read them, so that I wouldn't understand anything. In case you don't understand, running to the hospital twice is better than thinking that nothing happened.
In fact, not only her, many novice mothers are like this, do not understand anything, as long as the baby has a time to cry, we must be vigilant, if necessary, must go to the hospital for examination.
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