Many people have worked hard all their lives, worked hard all their lives, and still live at the bottom of society?
I once saw a sentence in a video about life, "Supporting yourself with pure strength is not trying to change the future, but at most you can only bear the fruits of your past."
"Bearing" means accepting the consequences of the past, while staying at this stage.
Take a rural child with zero family background as an example. From the moment he was born, he had to bear the family atmosphere he was in now, only the parent-child relationship between his parents and the level of parents' awareness of society, which was far less than that of children in the city.
In today's era of 4G and 5G for the whole people, do you know? There are still many rural areas in the 2G signal, my hometown used to be in the 2G signal, and occasionally I can receive a 3G signal.
When rural children enter kindergartens during the school age, just to have a qualification to attend primary school, they need to accept the allocation of educational resources after entering primary school, that is, to bear this situation - uneven distribution of education.
Can you imagine that urban children have begun to learn English in primary schools, while rural children are still correcting typos in articles?
In addition, this educational resource does not refer only to books and the like, but to morality, intelligence, physical fitness and beauty.
If you don't believe it, you can think of the school when you were a child, or go to see the schools in many small towns, even the most basic wall to protect personal safety, most of which are tofu projects. Regardless of the football field, music classroom, painting room, handicraft room, sports equipment.
Impossible, not at all.
After reaching junior high school, this rural child went to school at an age when he could not take care of himself at all. In recent years, due to the large-scale reduction in the number of children, a large number of small-town schools have begun to merge, and the result is that the distance between school and home has widened several times, so the school has established dormitories for children to live in.
However, this phenomenon of prematurely leaving the family and living alone, many rural parents not only do not realize the harm, but raise their hands in favor. The reason for this is that they have more time to worry about making money.
But a child who is not sensible at all, has a weak heart at school, but leaves the family prematurely, do you think that the child's personality development and academic performance will become better The probability of getting better will become larger or smaller?
This situation will not even make the child have a character defect.
After junior high school is high school, which is the most important watershed in the life of this rural child, general high school, secondary school or key high school. If everyone comes out of the countryside, you can understand that the difference between these three is very big.
After this watershed, the child through his own efforts to at least one university above the second, life can be regarded as a glimmer of light. If you don't get into college, then with the background of this rural child, see if you can read a five-year college.
And after this time, his most important fate dividing line appeared.
He walked out of college and into society to at least have a job that wouldn't starve himself to death with a little more dignity than at the lower levels. And if he hadn't gone to college, without any family background, he would have had little choice but to work at the low end of the labor force.
As the Internet says, "To live is to do your best", not to mention what is detached.
A living person, a person who is not right or wrong, from the moment he falls to the bottom of society, most of the time, the only thing he can do is to clasp his hands tightly on a small bulge in this fast-moving society, and it is good to ensure that he is not thrown too far.
But what I really want to do, please admire, those who are out of the bottom through hard work, but also must not despise those who are bowing their heads and bearing.
Even if you can see through their future at a glance, please don't beat them with the stick of inactivity, because a person, when he has paid the price of poverty for what he has done in the past, he no longer owes anything to this society.