These days, as long as you look at your mobile phone, it is a variety of photos of friends, there are holidays to drive away, there are children to play, there are weddings, there are family dinners, there are back to their hometowns.
There is also a wife who is about to give birth to a second child, and is admitted to the hospital, basking in the environment of the VIP ward.
There is also a family that bought a house in the high-end area and posted the purchase contract.
There are also 200,000 people who bought a new car and took photos of themselves with the car.
Seeing so much information, I originally wanted to take a photo of myself and send it out, brushing the sense of existence.
But I was not satisfied with taking a few photos, and finally gave up the idea of sending photos out, and quietly looked at other people's lives.
I feel that after working in the past few years, my appearance has changed a lot.
Take out the previous photo comparison, obviously the nose is still that nose, the eye is still that eye, but both the spirit and the skin state are a lot worse.
The whole person presents a haggard feeling like dry grass being sucked dry, without the vitality of youth, looking very sluggish, like a working face.
To sum up, it is: not the face that should be had at this age.
In terms of culprits, work injuries after work account for a large part.
Take my own job, for example, because of the long working hours.
I went to work at 9 o'clock in the morning, stayed in the restaurant all day, and didn't leave work until 9 o'clock in the evening.
I can't see the sun for a long time, and I often forget to drink water when I am busy, and then stay up late to look at my mobile phone after returning home from work.
The skin is becoming increasingly yellowish and has no radiance.
There is another reason for this: the mental stress of work.
This pressure is multifaceted, there is the pressure of the work itself, as well as the pressure of interpersonal relationships, and the unpleasantness that comes to oneself by the thoughts in one's own mind.
Like we do catering services, it is very hard when the business is good.
When there are many customers entering the store, they are shouting at the waiter everywhere.
When you've been slow in the past, or haven't responded in time, you've been blamed by customers.
Not only the contradictions with the customers, but also the contradictions between the waiters.
They all feel that they have done more and others have done less.
When they are tired, they also speak very badly with each other, and there are often conflicts and quarrels.
People who do more, while doing it, scold those who do less, and even wrestle and beat to express their anger.
People who are perceived to be doing less think they have done things too, and they are not doing less.
They are often accused of looking at each other, feeling uncomfortable, and unhappy.
In the end, he only went to the boss and said that he resigned, and this job could not be done.
Restaurants are not good at recruiting new employees because the catering industry has long working hours, low wages, and hard work.
The boss wants to leave these people who want to resign, and many meetings are held to make everyone friendly and help each other when working.
But the results are very small, and people are the least likely to change.
In addition, the restaurant also has an unwritten strange image, that is, the management is very temperamental, yelling at the waiter at every turn, and acting like he is the boss.
More excessively, it is to scold the waiter in front of the customer.
Every day you hear different demands, this saying this, that saying that, and having to do it, or you will be criticized.
There are too many people in charge, and the requirements are not uniform, and everyone cannot meet the requirements of all people.
Do as this person says, another person is still scolded, and the person who does it is very tired.
A month of that little money, but also tired every day to die.
This class is also very sad, and it is really not easy to make some money.
There are also contradictions between management, which really responds to that sentence: where there are people, there are rivers and lakes.
There is no easy word in the adult world, because life is not easy, there are difficult responsibilities to face, and they suffer a lot.
Everyone who comes out to work is commendable, and they use their labor to support themselves and their families.
Compared with them, there are too many people who pick fat and thin, feel that the work is hard, feel that the part-time work has no face, feel that they are suspicious, and the most disliked is yourself.
As long as you are willing to do the work down-to-earth, there is no shame in being willing to do it.
People have no money, no ability, no career, and nothing, which is the most humiliating.
Want to cheer up, think better, no one will stand in your way, in fact, the biggest obstacle to success is yourself.
In 2021, only love allows us to have it all.