"I'm usually busy, I probably don't pay much attention to you" "You won't like me anyway, or I'll leave the light and try it"... Tonight (December 5th) "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", in the face of the female guest Liang Xinyue's slightly "high cold" confession, I did not expect the male guest to read it instantly! Another male guest hopes that the other half can establish a reward and punishment mechanism with himself in love, which has received the support of many girls.
People with connections always have a heart to heart, and the male guests instantly read the female guests' "high cold" confession
Male guest Wang Yulong opened a furniture company by himself, and when it comes to mate selection standards, he hopes that the other half is not with him, "I hope to get some inspiration from other industries to help me improve in the furniture industry." In addition, the two sides have different circles, which will be more interesting and fresh for two people. "Get up at 5:30, play Muay Thai running at 7 o'clock, eat breakfast at 8 o'clock, go to work at 9 o'clock, read a book or play the piano at home at night, go to bed at 10 o'clock on time, this is Wang Yulong's lifestyle, in the future, while running a furniture company, he also wants to open a coffee shop and open a music club with friends, "I hope to find a simple and self-disciplined other half, there is no confusion and unnecessary interpersonal relationships, and two people simply live together." ”
Female guest Liang Xinyue said to the male guest: "I feel that you should like the kind of girl who has a lot of temperament, I may not be the type you like, anyway, you will not like me, or I will leave the light to try it, either hold hands or pull down, I am such a straight-talking person." In the final link, the male guest asked the candidate girl: "If I am usually busy and the reply information is not timely, can you accept it?" Unexpectedly, Liang Xinyue responded directly: "I am usually busy, and I may not pay much attention to you." In the face of the girl's "high cold" and "strong", I did not expect the male guest to say: "Maybe her first side will make people feel very difficult to contact, in fact, such a person will be better contacted later, I do not like the kind of person who makes people feel that anyone can contact at the beginning." Liang Xinyue, who was read by the male guest, looked happy, "I am a person who looks relatively cold, some people will not like it, will say that your attitude is so cold, I will say that it has always been so; if I meet someone I like, I will open a small gap for him, if he can seize this gap into my heart, I will find that I am actually very good to get along with." The crowd couldn't help but sigh: People who are related to each other are always in touch with each other! In the end, can two people successfully hold hands?
Can a reward and punishment mechanism be established in love? A certain sense of boundaries will make getting along more harmoniously
Male guest Gao Tian hopes that the other half can establish a reward and punishment mechanism with himself in love, "This mechanism is mutual, if the other half can make me better, can help me get rid of some small problems, I am very happy and happy." "Can a reward and punishment mechanism be established in love? Triggered a hot discussion on the spot, many female guests expressed their support for this, "good love should pursue a balanced state, not one side is too strong or too weak, the reward and punishment mechanism proposed by the male guests is conducive to achieving this balance state." This way of reward and punishment can make the feelings of two people relaxed and moderate, and avoid one party blindly giving or blindly demanding. ”
For the reward and punishment mechanism in love, the three teachers also expressed their own views: appropriate rewards and punishments can make two people adhere to their own principles in their feelings, and if one party does something wrong, they cannot blindly tolerate it. In the process of getting along, giving each other appropriate rewards or punishments is equivalent to defining a framework for two people, letting each other know the range they can tolerate, letting each other know which things will make you happy and which things will make you sad, and a certain sense of boundaries will actually make getting along more harmoniously. The three teachers also suggested that the reward and punishment mechanism is not established arbitrarily, and that a consensus must be reached after two people communicate, and it should be within the acceptance range of the other half, such as rewarding you for watching a movie, punishing you to buy a cup of milk tea, and most importantly, allowing two people to better coexist and maintain a stable and long-term romantic relationship.
Talking about the criteria for choosing a mate, Gao Tian said: "I used to pay special attention to the appearance of the other half, and after getting along, I found that whether the living habits and hobbies of the two people are in tune is the most important. "Can he meet his other half on stage who is in tune with himself?"
Watch tips: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged tonight (Saturday, December 5) at 20:30, so stay tuned!