For most of us, it is easier to meet love, express love is not satisfactory, and declare that love always feels like a wall. Especially the gay community, facing their close relatives. Today we are going to tell a story, gay couples rely on the familiar "Truth or Dare" game, to start a journey like life or life like a drama.
The story begins with the pair of transnational lovers. After college years, Matthia (Josafat vagni) from Italy and Eduardo (Jose Dammert) from Spain intend to write the final chapter of their feelings as students. Next, is the life of chai rice oil and salt, can it still be successfully cultivated like when I was a student?
I don't know! Then go back to the prototype of life and try it. So, the two men decided to live in Madrid. Edward, who is accustomed to thinking of everything beautifully, believes that the relationship between two people will be blessed by all family members, including Mattia's family. Just as Edward and Mattia were planning the scenes and details of the future meeting with their family, Matthias panicked.
What should he do? He never seems to have open sex with his family, and has always played the role of a good child. Is it to pluck up enough courage to come out with the family, or to explain it like a boyfriend? Matthia was more entangled than ever.
Directed by Ivan Silvestrini, the film was released in Italy in 2012 and narrated in native Italian, with genres set to comedy plus love. The positioning of comedy is probably an allusion to the use of "Truth or Dare" game attitude and game methods to deal with the unspeakable opening of cabinet doors between the same sex. Fortunately, the happy ending, compared to the cool real life, can bring some comfort and hope.
Or, same-sex love is a drama. Some people write with bitter melodrama, some people use absurdity to develop, some people use cold humor to conduct, and it just so happens that the director and screenwriter of this film present a comedy.
In most people, they like to preset some scenes, mostly from the yy in their own minds, and lack the test of real life. In the field of clinical psychotherapy, it is not difficult to find that many times, the beginning of the problem begins with the ability to test reality.
If Matthia in the film had been able to bravely explain to her family and publicly explain to her family in a realistic relationship at the beginning, there would have been no such a series of oolongs. However, a work of art is ultimately a work of art, and there must always be some exaggerated and deformed components. Come to think of it, without these magnifying glasses, we might not be able to observe our own lives.
Fortunately, brave as Mattia, with a strategic mind, step by step with his family. Whether of the same sex or the opposite sex, it seems that most boys are closer to their mothers, and there is no denying that there is a natural Oedipal complex at work. So for Matthia, the first to none is naturally to choose to be open to his mother first.
However, the surprise came unexpectedly. "You know what? I watched a TV show this morning and there was a psychologist who said, 'Some moms don't understand what their kids are doing, and some moms don't know where their kids are and what they're thinking.' But I always know what you're thinking! This response of his mother undoubtedly gave Matthia great encouragement, encouragement and strength, and gave him the courage to continue to speak at the family gathering.
At a family dinner where the cups were changed, Matthia struggled and finally confided: "Do you know what I'm thinking inside me now?" I'm proud I did! I don't know what you guys think, but I think you should, be happy for me! "
Who admits that the father who thinks that he cannot accept this piece the most, after a moment of silence, takes the lead in saying, "Can I say something?" You are very brave tonight! But the next time you join you want us to know something, don't let's wait another 25 years. "How could you think that the father of a straight man of steel will also have a tender side of an iron man." The feelings of the world are full of beauty, and nothing can resist the kind of family affection.
Believe it or not, listen to what your elderly grandmother had to say: a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, ending with a harmonious family dinner. The negative emotions of the original fantasy of blocking, resisting, resisting, and resisting did not appear, and all of them were annihilated in a country called "love".
Except that the kings and queens there are like mom and dad...