At some point, we will always recall the green years of the past, full of infinite fantasies about the future, in the present and three or five confidants giggle and haha, shoulder to shoulder, talk and laugh, even walking feels unfinished.
These days gradually decrease with age, so that the trivialities of work, family and daily life are filled with life.
Whether it is people's mentality or encounters, it also begins to change slowly.
At the beginning, they did not think that one day in the future they would become the most famous directors in China.
Gu Changwei, Feng Xiaogang and Jiang Wen, the three men, took this photo together.
At that time, their hair had not yet appeared gray, and they even looked a little shy when shooting at the camera.
The three mischievously revealed only one head, and covered the part of the body below the neck with a white cloth.
The three people in front of me look difficult to match with the title of a well-known domestic director.
But the big director is nothing more than an ordinary person in private, and he also hides a child's heart in his heart, and he also has a naughty and playful side.
These three men all have a common interest, that is, the obsession with movies, and even have the same "aesthetic", that is, heroes are sad to be beautiful.
Jiang Wen ran around for liu Xiaoqing's affairs for several years at any cost, and Feng Xiaogang abandoned his ex-wife Zhang Di for the beautiful Xu Fan.
In contrast, at this time, Gu Changwei's story is relatively simple, and when he saw Jiang Wenli, he vowed to marry her.
In addition to His achievements in the film, Gu Changwei's most successful is to marry Jiang Wenli, a beautiful and intelligent woman.
Gu Changwei was 8 years old, and in 1988, when Gu Changwei won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Cinematography with Zhang Yimou's film "Red Sorghum", Jiang Wenli was immersed in the joy of being admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
Young Jiang Wenli looked at the radiant Gu Changwei on the TV set, and he looked calm under his thick eyebrows.
He is not good at verbal expression, and he seems to have a different feeling from ordinary people, perhaps this is the difference between artists and ordinary people.
At this time, Jiang Wenli did not think that she would have a lifelong intersection with this top photographer in China after that.
But she seemed to have forgotten a detail, that the man on TV was also a graduate of the Beijing Film Academy. According to the generational calculation, he is still a master brother who is 10 levels older than himself.
Coincidentally, in just one year, Gu Changwei has begun to slowly approach Jiang Wenli's life.
A year after Jiang Wenli entered the North Shadow study, Gu Changwei held a personal 32nd birthday party, saying that it was a birthday party, everyone was pulling friends to celebrate his birthday, some of these people are still Gu Changwei does not know, Jiang Wenli is one of them.
23-year-old Jiang Wenli is young and beautiful, with a pair of pearl-like translucent eyes, coupled with thick eyelashes that blink like a doll, which is unforgettable at first sight.
Gu Changwei, who came from painting, himself has a more persistent pursuit of beauty than ordinary people, he found at a glance that Jiang Wenli's beauty was different, and those charming big eyes fascinated his soul, so Gu Changwei could no longer look at other women.
Jiang Wenli did not lack suitors around at that time, and Gu Changwei was not outstanding in terms of age and appearance in addition to his talent and advantages.
But the reason why Gu Changwei was able to take down Jiang Wenli was that he had patience and perseverance.
Young people are greedy for freshness and are prone to greed for the new and tired of the old, but Gu Changwei insists on chasing Jiang Wenli to the hand.
Jiang Wenli is a smart woman, she understands that Gu Changwei is sincere to her, and when she marries someone, she will marry a man who loves herself.
Speaking of Jiang Wenli is still a woman with a "Wangfu" physique, the year they got married, Chen Kaige directed, Gu Changwei as a photographer of "Farewell to the King" swept many awards at home and abroad.
Gu Changwei's fame is getting bigger and bigger, and the number of awards has also increased, and since then, Gu Changwei has slowly transformed from a photographer to a director, all of which are inseparable from Kennechi's help to Jiang Wenli.
Gu Changwei is the director, and Jiang Wenli is an actor, both of which are recognized by the industry, the husband sings with the woman, the strong join forces, and naturally defeats the invincible hand in the world.
On the surface, they are extremely affectionate, always unable to hide their love in front of the camera, Gu Changwei said that he did not understand romance, but he said romantically to the camera that he wanted to surprise Jiang Wenli and send gifts.
Someone once asked Gu Changwei what shortcomings Jiang Wenli had, her personality was straight, but Gu Changwei, who spoke very slowly, deliberately thought about it in front of the camera, paused, and said that it was all very good and could not fault it.
Gu Changwei's upright appearance caused everyone to laugh, but he held his virtuous wife to the sky. Everyone knew that Gu Changwei had married a good wife.
When Jiang Wenli talked about her husband Gu Changwei, she always showed a happy smile on her face, so that everyone present could feel her happy life.
But in the future, it was not expected by everyone.
I don't know why, in 2009, the famous Beijing Hutong incident occurred in Gu Changwei's body, and as soon as the incident came out, it shocked everyone at the time.
But it seems that all the tangled points are not in Gu Changwei, everyone sits in a row, staring all eyes at Jiang Wenli, waiting to eat the big melon.
Supposedly, a thousand calls should come out, but when the neck was long, in the end nothing was waited.
Jiang Wenli's silence was waiting, there was neither divorce, nor dog-blooded insults, nor did she hold a press conference to clarify the facts, yes, she did nothing.
Twelve years after the incident, the couple continues to live together as if nothing had happened.
This is where Jiang Wenli's cleverness makes people look at, for her husband, he did not leave,
Now that 12 years have passed since this incident, 12 years later, the clever Jiang Wenli is still inseparable.
In fact, after that incident, Jiang Wenli could leave Gu Changwei, but the clever Jiang Wenli did not do so, and the clever Jiang Wenli's approach was also impressive.
No matter which woman stalled such a thing, the mood was almost broken, or the anger was extreme, Nezha wanted to spew out the true fire of Samadhi, but Jiang Wenli did not want to abandon Gu Changwei.
When Ms. Jiang attended an interview a long time ago, she said that she felt alone when she was wandering in Beijing and was very eager to have a home.
And Gu Changwei is the warm man who built her home, and it was he who gave Jiang Wenli a solid and warm home when she needed it most, so that her wandering heart was stabilized.
This love, Jiang Wenli has always remembered, and she still remembers it.
Jiang Wenli's concept of "home" comes from her own family, her own parents.
The love between Jiang Wenli's parents is very simple and simple, a letter with few words directly binds the hearts of the two people together from then on.
In that era, which was not very rich, the two worked together to maintain a common home, raise children together, and went from young to old, to "golden marriage", to the present with gray hair and old eyes.
Jiang Wenli chose Gu Changwei because she wanted to be like her parents and had the determination to go down with him.
After that incident, the clever Jiang Wenli began to realize that the two people had been together for a long time, and their lives were relatively plain.
Men actually appreciate attractive women, and Jiang Wenli's beauty in the first half of her life made Gu Changwei fall for it, but everyone inevitably ages, and Jiang Wenli also knows this.
So like Gu Changwei, she began to approach the director, did not understand the advice of Gu Changwei, the two gradually increased the topicality, directed the movie "We See You in Heaven" quite successful, the first time directing won the award.
The talented Jiang Wenli successfully attracted Gu Changwei.
During that time, they were like you chasing after me in their careers, Jiang Wenli starred in "Happiness Comes Knocking" became famous, and Gu Changwei won the best director award again with "The Favorite", no one let anyone, full of firepower.
In fact, the relationship between the two of them became close again, and the clever Jiang Wenli made Gu Changwei realize that even without Gu Changwei, she could be economically independent and life was not a problem.
And if the two continue to be together, Jiang Wenli, in addition to being able to teach her husband and children, can also help her husband in her career, and the common strength of the two people is always stronger than that of one person.
In the 12 years since that incident, there have been a lot less scandals about Gu Changwei, which shows that Jiang Wenli's marriage defense war has been successful.
The clever Jiang Wenli made people look at her with astonishment, did not make noise, and dragged Gu Changwei to her side again, but what she was most clever about was not the person who tied Gu Changwei, but the heart of Gu Changwei.
Gu Changwei's heart was most nervous about the child.
Gu Changwei and Jiang Wenli were married for 8 years before giving birth to a son, when the son was born, Gu Changwei was already 44 years old, and naturally loved this child.
Unlike Xie Xian and Deborah, who let their son Xie Tingfeng live under the camera since childhood, Gu Changwei and Jiang Wenli protected their son very well, and rarely exposed him to the camera.
Gu Changwei has been shooting movies outside for many years, and Jiang Wenli can only sacrifice her own time, take less work, and focus on her children.
From the initial feeding to education, Jiang Wenli has done it herself, and her son has been educated by Jiang Wenli since he was a child, and he has hardly let the husband and wife worry about it.
Although Gu Changwei is usually busy at work, he will accompany his son only when he has time.
His son loves to play skateboarding, and Gu Changwei, who is a father, also plays with his son.
The son stepped into adolescence, as a father, Gu Changwei, in order to have a better way of communicating with his son, crossed the boundaries of age, regarded his son as a friend, and filmed a youth film of almost the same age as his son.
The son is Gu Changwei's heart meat.
The son inherited the talent of his parents, was interested in shooting, and especially liked to shoot small videos for his family to record the small beauty of life, and Gu Changwei and Jiang Wenli, as parents, "lowered their status" and cooperated with the performance without remuneration.
Jiang Wenli has played the role of wife and mother well in this family, and everything in the family is handled in an orderly manner.
The clever Jiang Wenli made Gu Changwei aware of her irreplaceability, which can be described in four words, that is, "impeccable".
Ask such a wife, what man does not like it?
Jiang Wenli's ingenuity has made many people look at her with admiration, and she is not a beautiful actress who can only shoot scenes.
Her kindness and her calm way of doing things have defended the family marriage, and at the same time, the people around her have admired her.
Gu Changwei once said that Jiang Wenli has many advantages in her, and these advantages have become Jiang Wenli's unique charm.