Children of unfortunate families of origin need to spend their whole lives to heal their childhood when they grow up. And that mr.right, after meeting you, will heal you with his warmth.
Sun Li and Deng Chao are a pair of star model couples who heal each other, achieve each other, and nourish each other.
(Photo by Sun Li and Deng Chao)
Looking back at Sun Li's childhood, all I saw was the quarrel between her parents. One day in late September 1982, in an ordinary worker's home in Shanghai, a little girl with big eyes fell to the ground.
She is Sun Li.
It is said that children are the reconciler of parental relationships, and every child is born with the ability to heal, to heal the emotional rifts that have long existed between parents. However, the arrival of Sun Li did not improve the original tense relationship between the parents, but as Sun Li grew older and more sensible, the quarrels between the parents became more and more frequent.
(Sun Li and his mother)
The child's heart is sensitive. Maybe parents always think that their children are still young and don't understand anything. But in a safe and stable family, children will also gain sufficient security because of this atmosphere.
And Sun Li witnessed countless cold eyes between parents at such a young age. Such a scene buried a terrifying thought in her young heart: Women, don't fall in love with people. To fall in love is to hate each other.
Even though Sun Li tried so hard to make her parents happy, in the end her parents divorced. It was the morbid pattern of getting along between her parents that made her fear of marriage at a young age.
She looked at her crying mother and silently vowed, "In this life, I will not get married." ”
In her eyes, love and marriage bring only disaster and pain, only endless quarrels and disgust. Sun Li never felt that she would fall in love with anyone. I don't think anyone will attract me. In her life plan, it was just her and her mother.
At that time, Sun Li did not understand that the magic of the world was because it would always bring you unexpected surprises.
2005 came slowly with the melting of winter snow. Sun Li's life also began to be a little different.
This year, Sun Li took over the TV series "Happiness Like a Flower".
Before joining the group, she thought it was the same shooting process as usual. How do you know, this shooting not only allowed her to gain the opportunity to be the lead singer at the end of the film, but also let her harvest an unexpected "friendship".
The person who brought her special friendship was Deng Chao.
(Happiness like a flower still)
This handsome and attractive boy, always with frequent golden strips, cheerful laughter and enthusiastic personality, not only became the funny responsibility of the crew, but also successfully attracted the attention of Sun Li.
Deng Chao's deepest impression on Sun Li was kindness.
At that time, someone in the crew had a car accident, which was life-threatening. Everyone is organizing donations. Deng Chao did not say anything and left only 100 yuan of taxi fare, and donated all the money on his body. This incident made Sun Li very touched.
What people did not expect was that Deng Chao was also attracted by this simple and frank girl.
Say what kind of person you are, and fate will bring you what kind of partner. Two kind and warm people are attracted to each other and slowly fall in love.
A year later, the two men's relationship was exposed. They fell in love desperately.
Sun Li, who has never expected love, opened her heart because of Deng Chao's appearance, and her heart began to become soft. In the face of the heartthrob, she gave Deng Chao a chance, and also gave herself a chance.
Many years later, Sun Li said as she recalled the days of that relationship:
"Maybe I also have a chance to be happy, how can I know without trying?"
Yes, each of us has a chance to be happy, how do we know without trying?
Maybe we've all been hurt in the past. Like a trapped beast, he did not dare to rely on others, only dared to hide in the dark and lick his wounds. But we need to believe that sunlight illuminates every corner of the world. We will also eventually meet the one who can heal us. Even now he's still on the way.
Before we meet that person, we all have to believe from the bottom of our hearts that I can be happy too.
Sun Li Deng Chao family portrait
In the blink of an eye, Sun Li and Deng Chao have already celebrated their 11th wedding anniversary.
Sun Li had counted every difference between himself and Deng Chao.
He loves to stay up late, likes to eat heavily, has a lively personality, is afraid of heat...
I like regular work and rest, light diet, calm personality, afraid of cold...
You see, the two of them are so different, but they are deeply in love. They were all filled with fear and disappointment in love. But they also used their own actions to confirm the preciousness and beauty of love.
It is precisely because they give each other a chance to fall in love.