Many people think that money can prevent old age, friends can prevent old age, in fact, in the end they found that the only thing that can prevent old age is family affection.
The 65-year-old Uncle Qin said that he used to have a lot of friends, usually did not have time to stay at home, most of the time was with friends, he was also a man with a career when he was young, a man with a career, the most important thing is friends, he has a bunch of friends, there are also some brothers and brothers who have better relations.
Uncle Qin also thought about the pension problem, he believes that as long as he can make a lot of money, plus such a group of brothers and friends, there is no problem at all in the pension. Uncle Qin believes that money can prevent old age, in order to earn money, Uncle Qin sacrificed his own physical health, for the sake of brothers and friends, Uncle Qin simply did not have time to get along with his family.
Uncle Qin is a man with a very heavy sense of enterprise, he puts earning money to put his brothers and brothers in the first place, he regards family affection very lightly, and he does not have deep feelings for his wife and children. Uncle Qin believes that men are working hard, men must spend more time outside the family, if a man spends most of his time on the family, then this man is a man who can't make money, how to retire after making money.
For money, Uncle Qin spent most of his time on career and socializing, gave most of his time to his work, gave it to his brothers and brothers, his family concept was weak, and many times in order to accompany his brothers and brothers, there was no time to go home to eat with his wife and children. Uncle Qin has always thought that he is a man with great spirits, thinking that sudden illness is very far away from him, Uncle Qin has had a special moment of scenery, when he was surrounded by a lot of brothers and brothers, he made a lot of money at that time, and at that time he did not worry about his old age.
Uncle Qin has been working hard all his life, and in his old age he was reluctant to rest, once he fainted in the company because he was too tired, he was sent to the hospital, he was originally a man who was full of spirits on the job, lying on the bed, only to find that he was just a mortal. Before this serious illness, Uncle Qin was surrounded by many brothers and brothers, and now after lying on the hospital bed, many brothers and brothers did come to see Uncle Qin, but they only came to visit once or twice and went home.
These brothers and brothers, they don't know how to take care of Uncle Qin, they know that Uncle Qin is sick now, but as friends they can't afford this heavy responsibility, those brothers and brothers, no matter how well they usually get along with Uncle Qin, when Uncle Qin is sick, they can only come to visit for a while and go home, it is impossible to accompany Uncle Qin 24 hours a day. Uncle Qin was hospitalized, three meals a day in the hospital, he had no way to get out of bed to buy, so eating three meals a day had to rely on his family to send him food, Uncle Qin lived alone in the hospital, and someone had to stay in the hospital at night, it was Uncle Qin's children who chose to take turns to guard, each guarding for one night.
During the time he was lying on the hospital bed, Uncle Qin wanted to understand a lot of things, before he always thought that as long as he had money, he could prevent old age, and his brothers and brothers had such a good relationship, and in the future, these brothers and brothers would definitely help themselves. But when he really stayed in the hospital, he knew that only family affection can prevent old age, other things are floating clouds, only relatives will send him three meals a day when he is hospitalized, and only relatives will stay in the hospital every night.
This hospitalization made Uncle Qin understand that in fact, sacrificing his physical health to make money is to lose watermelons and pick up sesame seeds, and a person has no need to sacrifice his physical health to make money. When I was young, in order to make money, I spent so much time going out to socialize, spending so much time on my brothers and brothers, but I only ignored the wife and children at home, and when I was sick, I knew that only family affection could prevent old age, and wives and children were the most important. This illness made Uncle Qin, who had always been reluctant to leave his job, finally realize that he should put his time on his family and children, and he did not care well for his family and children when he was young, and now he should make up for them.
People always have to wait until they are old and sick to know, in addition to relatives, there will be no one else to take more care of a sick old man, in addition to relatives there will be no one to do their duty to a sick old man every day, so the prevention of old age still depends on family affection, and others are really unreliable.