Author: Uncle Nanshan
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In the afternoon, I sat with my grandfather in the courtyard of the country and watched the soap pod trees in the courtyard bear fruit again. Grandpa said contentedly, you see, although our current life is only rough tea and light rice, I am very satisfied. Ancients Yun: "The heart is stable, the sex is fixed and the roots are fragrant; the world is quiet, and the human feelings are weak and long." Among them, "sexual determination of the root fragrance" is regarded by many people as a classic sentence in the world. Children, our lives are not very rich now, but you must remember: "sex is fixed in the root of the root", only those who are at ease with their hearts can rest assured in a simple and quiet life, and can fully enjoy the peace and simplicity of the dashing and calm. When people are poor, they will do their best to deal with these few family affairs. So, what did my grandfather mean when he said that we could do the family work that we could do our best?
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The first "housework": home cleanliness.
Grandpa said that when people are poor, they must understand the importance of family. As the saying goes: "People are not poor", when a person is poor, he must first know not to be looked down upon by outsiders. At this time, we must know not to give up on ourselves, not to fall into a sloppy and lazy attitude to life. When people are poor, we must strive to maintain our mental stability, even if we live a hard life, but strive to make our home environment clean and tidy, the ancients said well: "The long thatched eaves are swept clean and moss-free, and the flowers and trees are planted by hand." "A clean and tidy home environment that will make our family, even guests, close neighbors around us, feel good about us and they are happy to help us when we are in trouble. And the family in the warm and clean home environment, will also be willing to return home, when the family work together to tide over the difficulties, will be able to successfully survive the difficulties, so as to be willing to come.
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The second "family affair": family harmony.
Grandpa said that when people are poor, if they want to avoid being bullied, the unity and harmony of their families are important. It is said that "the family has a heart, the loess becomes gold", when people are poor, our family must understand the importance of unity and harmony. Yes, around us, there are always some people who will "pick and pinch soft persimmons", and casually ridicule and even bully us who are soft-spoken. In such an adversity, the family must know how to unite, decisively show our bottom line, and warn and fight back against those who dare to bully us. And those who bully the soft and fear the hard see the unity of our family, and naturally retreat. Therefore, when people are poor, we must maintain the stability of our hearts, even if we live a hard life, but strive to achieve harmony with our families, fight against external pressure together, and work hard together, which is a necessary condition for us to work hard, and we must keep it tightly.
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The third "family affair": husband and wife.
Grandpa said that when people are poor, it is easy to have the phenomenon of husband and wife centrifugation. Ancients: "Poor couples Pepsi lament", yes, when people are poor, our family will inevitably fall into economic difficulties, the pressure of life, the difficulty of dealing with the world, the lack of human resources, will become a mountain, pressed on the husband and wife as the pillar. In such an adversity, if the husband and wife complain to each other, or even attack each other, then, sooner or later, such a family will be scattered and disintegrated, and thus completely decay. On the contrary, when people are poor, if we can maintain the stability of our hearts, even if we live a hard life, we do not panic, but achieve "husband and wife with one heart", then we can achieve "its profit and break the gold". Relying on the joint efforts of husband and wife, their own family will inevitably slowly prosper and develop, and at that time, our family will naturally be bitter.
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The fourth "family affair": the children growing up.
Grandpa said that if a family wants to maintain long-term prosperity, the education of children is very important. Ordinary people often say: "The pond is out of the loach, the family is out of the woolly monkey", a family, if it does not educate its children well, then, once such a family has a contrarian like the "woolly monkey", then, such a family, will inevitably fly chickens and dogs jump, and the family will not have a good life. On the contrary, if we always maintain the stability of our hearts when people are poor, even if we live a hard life, we do not give up the education of our children, and strive to cultivate our children to know how to be human, and even obtain a good academic foundation. Then, relying on the growth of our children, and even the talents, then our family will inevitably get out of the predicament of poverty and usher in the day when we are bitterly willing.
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Friends, do you think the analysis of the "sexual root flavor" made by my grandfather makes sense? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area, wonderful comments, I will put the top to encourage Oh.