i) "From 20 to 40, I still have a lot to lose"
Hu Ge is an actor I like very much, a mature man with super-burning charm.
Maturity is a very vague concept, which can only be understood as ineffable.
Age is not necessarily mature, some people are forty or fifty years old, but it gives people a sense of impetuousness in their 20s.
There are also people who are old, well-dressed, sleek, and their words and deeds are routines, which we call this:
The greasy of a mature man
"The temperament of a mature man" is very rare, and Hu Ge just has this temperament.
Recently, when Hu Ge was interviewed, the host asked if he would like to go back to 20 years old?
Hu Ge thought about it a little and then answered:
I still don't want to go back.
Why?
Hu Ge gave two reasons:
If I go back to my 20s, from 20 to 40, I still have a lot to lose.
Back in my 20s, I can't meet these friends now.
The interview was casual and there was no pretentious choreography.
However, Hu Ge's answer made people break through the defense in an instant.
A lot of people are thinking about going back to 20 years old, life can start all over again, I'll get a lot,
I'm going to be in love 10 times and pursue every girl I like
I'm going to practice eight-pack abs
I want to re-plan my work and stop wasting time
I want to listen to my parents and spend more time with them
......
Few people think that back at the age of 20, life starts all over again, and they will still lose a lot.
The perfect life exists only in the imagination.
The real world is never perfect, and how many times it is imperfect, realize this, in order to live thoroughly.
b) Hoarding something is the most secure
The hottest topic these days is "What's good to hoard?" ”
Weibo, Circle of Friends, Douyin, and Little Red Book all have various gods recommending various survival materials and wild survival skills.
It was as if the unpopular genre of "survivalism" had been revived overnight, and everywhere they were shouting.
Xiao Xiaozhang and I came back from work and had a good discussion.
She thinks that we are strong and strong, if something really happens, take the necessities of life and run to the countryside, as the saying goes, "small chaos to avoid the city and chaos to avoid the countryside", running to the countryside is definitely not wrong.
I don't think like her, I think we should give up running and stick to the city, after all, it cost so much money to buy a house, say run?
As for survival supplies, hoarding beef and hoarding mineral water, completely abandoning the wild to survive. Concentrate resources and try to keep a little bit.
Having said all that, what exactly do you want to buy?
"Why don't you start with some compressed cookies?"
"I just paid the final payment of Double Eleven, and this year's budget has been used up and I can't afford it."
emmm......
Well, it is still important to double eleven, there is no such shop after this village, cheaper than the sky.
If I cross back into the present in the future, will I slap me twice, blame me for not taking precautions and preparing early?
I don't think so.
I will not choose to cross back, just as Hu Ge will not choose to go back to 20 years old.
Living in the present and not doing unfounded things is the insight I summed up in the year of my establishment.
If something really happens, it may not be something that can be solved by hoarding some materials, or pray that the wind and rain will be smooth and the country and the people will be safe.
Iii) There is no training and foreign trade
2020 was a bad year, with the epidemic lockdown and a depression.
2021 is still good for people doing foreign trade, although the soaring freight has brought some trouble, but overall it is against the trend, and the days can barely survive.
Entering the fourth quarter, the resumes of foreign trade salesmen have soared, and the number of people interviewed every day has grown in a long line, and the grand event is unprecedented.
The owner told us:
They came out of the training institution and used to teach English.
No, God has closed a door for you, he will open a window for you, unemployed, as long as you have a skill, you will have a bowl of rice to eat everywhere you go.
The flood in the training industry can be said to be sudden, without a trace of defense, without a little warning, and hit everyone by surprise.
For Yu Minhong, he did not expect to one day encounter a "double reduction policy".
Before that, he may have made some preparations, but when the flood really came, he could only panic and save himself.
If you can go back to the past, will Yu Minhong give up founding New Oriental?
I don't think so. Just like Hu Ge would not choose to go back to 20 years old.
Live in the present, let the past be sealed in the depths of memory, and when you are old, find a sunny afternoon, and then take it out to drink.
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