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If he hadn't gone astray at a critical moment in his life, people might never have been able to gain insight into Hu Ge's deep and introverted sincere filial piety to his mother.
At a dawn in 2019, the sun shines on the earth, bringing warmth and light, but there is a deep oppressive atmosphere everywhere. In front of the hospital bed, Hu Ge clenched his mother's slightly trembling hands, his eyes were melancholy and confused, as if he had been crushed by the heavy blow of fate.
At this moment, the mother's vitality gradually dissipated, and she used her last strength to say affectionately to her son: "Child, I'm sorry, I can't witness the moment you enter the marriage hall and spend the rest of your life with a woman who is suitable for you."
This is the mother's last wish for her son, and it is also her constant and ardent anti-hope for many years. Hu Ge lost his father when he was a child, and it was his mother who raised him with hard work.
She has high hopes for her son, hoping that he can find a virtuous and kind partner to create a better future together.
However, Hu Ge's emotional journey is full of twists and turns. He had scandals with two well-known actresses, Xue Jianing and Jiang Shuying, but they all failed due to his mother's strong opposition.
Mother firmly believes that people in the entertainment industry are too flashy to be qualified for the role of a good wife and mother.
Whenever she recalls that her son's love road is full of twists and turns, the mother will always have endless regret in her heart. Is she being too her son? Should he be given more freedom to find his own happiness? These questions haunted her like a nightmare, day after day.
It is precisely for this reason that at the last moment of her life, she expressed her regrets to her son with such remorse.
Although Hu Ge lost his mother when he was five years old, his mother's influence on him was deeply rooted in his bone marrow and accompanied him throughout his life. His mother devoted all her efforts to his education, and she longed for her son to become a brave and responsible man who could provide moral support to others.
"My mother always taught me that as a man, we have to have the courage to take responsibility and be a spiritual pillar for others." Hu Ge recalled his mother's teachings, his eyes were firm and persistent.
The mother's unreserved trust and expectation in her son became a powerful motivation for him to keep moving forward.
Under the careful care and careful cultivation of his mother, Hu Ge has shown unusual tenacity and tenacity since he was a child. He was studious, mild-mannered, and academically excellent, making him a role model for teachers and families.
However, this heavy maternal love sometimes made Hu Ge feel pressured, and even a little out of breath.
"If my mother doesn't say yes, then I can't!" This is not only a symbol of his endless respect for his mother, but also his supreme belief in the world of feelings. When his mother made it clear that he was against it, no matter who the other party was, he would cut off the relationship without hesitation.
The first victim was Hu Ge's beloved girlfriend, Ms. Xue Jianing. This beautiful, generous, gentle and kind woman resolutely gave up her career and devoted herself to taking care of his life when Hu Ge suffered a serious car accident and his career hit rock bottom.
However, unfortunately, in the end, due to her mother's resolute opposition, she was ruthlessly abandoned by Hu Ge.
"She's too beautiful, too good for me to match her." Hu Ge explained the reason for the breakup afterwards, and his words were full of deep guilt. Immediately afterwards, his relationship with the famous actress Jiang Shuying was exposed, which was also strongly opposed by his mother.
The mother always believed that her son needed a scientist as a companion, not a "play".
In the face of his mother's severe criticism, Hu Ge always behaved extremely filial and submissive. Despite his deep torment, he chose to suppress his emotions. On the road of love, he was repeatedly hindered by his mother, but he never had the slightest decision to disobey his mother.
In January 2023, four years after the death of Hu Ge's mother, a shocking news spread quickly on the Internet like a thunderbolt from the sky - Hu Ge has entered the palace of marriage and won a daughter!
"I have been elevated to fatherhood, and mother and daughter are safe." This concise and bright social media dynamic undoubtedly pushed Hu Ge to the focus of public opinion. The popular idol who was once known as the "Fairy Sword Orphan" has now become a husband and a father, and this huge change is really jaw-dropping.
Before this, almost no one could have predicted that Hu Ge, who had always remained single, would suddenly announce the good news of marriage and childbirth. This sudden and astonishing change immediately attracted heated discussions among the majority of netizens.
Soon after, the family background of Hu Ge's wife Huang Xining gradually surfaced.
Netizens booed one after another, questioning whether Huang Xining took advantage of his position to deliberately approach and get pregnant in order to achieve the purpose of long-term binding with Hu Ge. There are even rumors that Huang Xining and Hu Ge have received a marriage certificate as early as September 2022, so her pregnancy obviously belongs to the category of "marrying a child".
In the face of such fierce public criticism, many fans were furious and heartbroken at Hu Ge's decision to choose the ordinary Ms. Huang Xining as their lifelong partner! They were originally looking forward to seeing Hu Ge marry a celebrity beauty with a lot of money, outstanding appearance, and a noble background, rather than a rookie in the workplace with an ordinary family background.
A large number of skeptics have thrown themselves into this controversy, and they are puzzled to ask, whether Hu Ge is really in love with Huang Xining, or is he forced to do it because of various practical pressures and weighing the pros and cons? The outbreak of public opinion spread wildly in the online world like a violent storm, and the beautiful married life of Hu Ge and Huang Xining instantly put themselves on the cusp of the crowd's onlookers and suspicions.
After years of mother's restraint and suppression on emotional issues, Hu Ge has always been difficult to overcome this insurmountable spiritual confinement. However, with the death of his mother, the heavy shackles also disappeared, and Hu Ge was finally able to enjoy the right to love freely.
So, Hu Ge began to take a serious look at everyone around him. As his agent for many years, Huang Xining's understanding of him can be said to be deep in the bone marrow. The two have been together for many years, so that she knows Hu Ge's personality, temperament, living habits and work conditions well.
This incomparable tacit understanding is precisely the cornerstone of the heart-to-heart between her daughter-in-law and her son, which the mother expects.
What's more critical is that Huang Xining is not a figure in the entertainment industry, which fully meets all the expectations of her mother for her ideal daughter-in-law. My mother has always been steadfast in her belief that people in showbiz are too secular to take on the role of virtuous and virtuous wives.
Considering various complex factors, Hu Ge finally made this seemingly "rational" decision: to marry this amateur woman, so as to hand in a satisfactory answer to his mother.
He seems to have finally succeeded in overcoming his mother's obstacles over the years.
Soon after marriage, Huang Xining came with the good news that she was successfully pregnant and gave birth to Lin'er, which made Hu Ge ecstatic, as if she had finally fulfilled her mother's long-cherished wish. However, in the eyes of the general public, Hu Ge's series of decisions were too rash and abrupt.
People can't help but wonder if Hu Ge is genuinely in love with Huang Xining, or is he just reluctantly compromised to fulfill his mother's last wish? Some netizens even bluntly pointed out on the Internet that Huang Xining took advantage of his position to deliberately approach and get pregnant in order to achieve the purpose of tying up Hu Ge.
Recently, a series of eye-catching photos have gone viral on the Internet, showing the little-known romantic and sweet moments since Hu Ge and Huang Xining got married. In the photo, they are enjoying a leisurely vacation on the beautiful Sanya beach, Hu Ge hugs his wife Huang Xining's slender waist tightly, and his face is full of happy smiles like sunshine.
From his gentle eyes, people can deeply feel that he has left all his fatigue and troubles behind, and only has a deep love and attachment to his family.
Such a rare relaxed and happy state makes it almost impossible to connect him with the lonely actor who was once known as the "Fairy Sword Orphan". Today's Hu Ge has completely entered a new chapter in his life - a husband and a father.
When we saw these precious moments of life, many netizens couldn't help but be amazed. Recalling that at the beginning, they were full of various speculations and comments about Hu Ge and Huang Xining's marriage, and some people even maliciously speculated that Huang Xining deliberately seduced and used Hu Ge.
However, what is presented to us now is a loving couple, and there is no sign of "being used" at all.
The power of public opinion is like a double-edged sword, and excessive interference and questioning will bring great pressure to the lives of public figures. As a fan, it's okay to care about idols, but if you are too subjective, it may hurt the artist's heart.
Hu Ge's decision to choose Huang Xining, an ordinary woman, as his wife undoubtedly surprised everyone. However, in addition to his status as an artist, he is also an independent individual who has the right to make independent choices about his life, and the public has no right to interfere too much in this.