1. Emotional stability
Why is emotional stability important? Because emotional stability means you're an energetic person who can control everything. Anyone who can control this field occupies a high position and has a high emotional value
When you're emotionally stable, if you don't like things and don't feel sorry for yourself, the other person will think I can't eat and I have to give more. The reason why this girl is emotionally stable is because she is full of confidence in her heart
A woman whose mood fluctuates easily is most likely to be decided. Your worries about gains and losses, flammable and explosive bad tempers can easily lower your emotional aura, let men eat you, see through you. For girls who are unhappy or not angry and emotionally stable, men need to figure it out carefully. The other person will think that I can't decide. The reason why a girl is emotionally stable is because she is full of confidence in her heart
Those girls who are emotionally stable and live happily ever after
✔️ Neither modest nor arrogant, speaking softly, doing cruel things, being tough-mouthed ✔️ They do not consider men's ideas, but stick to their own principles of love (deception is unforgivable, confession should be made public by officials, mistakes come at a price). According to their own standards of love, if they are right, they will be rewarded, and if they are wrong, they will be punished. If you know what you want, ✔️ you'll consider whether the person can satisfy yourself and then consider whether you're in love with the person. ✔️ Only build long-term relationships with people who love and respect themselves
✔️ When you meet a little scumbag, you don't care about virgins, don't take risks, stop the loss in time and eliminate it ✔️ as soon as possible Spiritual independence, don't use men as all their energy sources, have their own love and goals ✔️ Behavior dependence, dare to ask men for help, dare to show off, dare to make demands, dare to express their self-feelings, and be able to accept each other's rejection
✔️ Know that in a relationship, how good you are is more important ✔️ than how good you are to him, they will put their own needs in front and express their dissatisfaction in time. Whether they are happy in a relationship is the most important thing. Gentle and windy, can boast and cajole
Lively and gentle people are actually very powerful. What kind of person is gentle? This must be a woman with a very strong heart
These women are emotionally gentle, tough, tough-talking lovers. They usually have soft bodies and sweet mouths. They "cajole" a man into giving him an excellent emotional experience
When a man needs to worry about something: "Honey, you have to do it. I can't do it without you."
When a man helps: "Honey, only you can do it. Oh, and I really feel safe with you. ”
When a man needs to be sure: "Honey, you must be all right. I'm sure my vision can't go wrong. ”
But they have always adhered to one principle: [verbal coaxing, but do not sabotage in action]
The mouth can boast and cajole, and the heart always maintains its own framework and principles. When a person behaves badly, he should be punished and will never tolerate it. When he breaks up, he should never delay. He should stop the loss in time and eliminate it as soon as possible.
The mouth can be sweet, the heart can be cruel. Go all out to follow this principle
We've also said before that women will compliment others in a relationship, which is very advantageous. However, there is a way to praise men. All you have to do is praise him for being handsome and good. These praises are [praises centered on him] that are sure to make him more and more erratic
The right way to praise is to praise others with yourself as the center", praise yourself less, praise yourself more for your actions
Don't just brag "Baby, you're so handsome, charming, and so nice to me". After listening, he will only think that he is really strong, but what does this have to do with you
The right compliment should be: "Baby, you look handsome when you're trying to cook for me." Baby, you look charming when you take the initiative to do housework. Baby, you know, when you hurt me, I think I'm the happiest woman. ”
In this way, he will strive to be a handsome and attractive man and make you the happiest woman
You see, just a little sweet mouth and some "sweet talk" can make you feel very sweet and you can get practical benefits. This is not a loss at all ~ men have a sense of accomplishment and love you more. You can get some benefits all at once
When I share dry goods with you in my circle of friends, I say that the fact is that the people who [provide emotional value], or in general, those who can "coax" each other to be happy, are the ones who are really [occupying a high position] in the relationship. Because only the giver has the right to take it back at any time, and whether it is offered or withdrawn depends on whether the other half is satisfied with his performance
That is to say, what kind of love experience a man can get is the ultimate decision precisely because the other party needs the emotional value you provide to him. Such a person is the real controller of the rhythm in this relationship
3。 I said in my sweet abuse class that in a relationship, just being sweet or abusive is not enough. Only giving sweetness will spoil a man, and you can easily be a party in the relationship; only abuse can scare off a man and make him feel the beauty of love
I used to teach a girl to pick up the little male god, that is, every night before going to bed, continue to send messages to her little male god, but talk about some light and humorous topics, chat about five or six sentences, taste it, and say goodnight (pull). Every day is basically fixed at the same point in time, so that the male god slowly gets used to saying goodnight to him every night. After a week, it suddenly stopped saying goodnight every day, became once every other day, and then became every few days, and finally simply stopped (pushed).
Just like that, within a few days, her little male god was particularly unaccustomed to it, couldn't hold back, and took the initiative to ask her how she was doing recently. The situation was reversed, and the girl got the main control.
Of course, these are the most elementary sweet abuse push and pull skills, more upgraded versions of the small moves can go to listen to my sweet abuse lesson Ha! In the class, I have to talk in detail about how high-ranking women (love players) provide emotional value, how to make him cry for you, make him laugh for you, make him tangled, and make him feel that he is loved by you, a variety of ultimate experiences~
Because in a relationship, if you can only make a person happy and happy, he may like you, but only if he is sad, sad, entangled, and suffering for you, he will really fall in love with you.
3 core technologies: emotional stability + petite compromise + a little playful desire to refuse to return the welcome