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At first, in the East Courtyard, Zhou Ying always had her heart set on leaving.
Even after marrying Wu Ping, Zhou Ying still had the idea of leaving.
Why?
Just because she hates being tied up in learning all kinds of etiquette rules.
However, after a long time, Zhou Ying slowly adapted to the life of the East Courtyard.
In other words, why would Zhou Ying, who has always indulged in uninhibited love of freedom, be willing to stay in the East Courtyard for the rest of her life?
In addition to being good to her because Wu Ping was good to her, there was also a point that Zhou Ying felt a sense of home security in the East Courtyard.
Zhou Ying has been following Zhou Laosi to the rivers and lakes since she was a child, and Zhou Laosi is good at gambling, and every time she loses a bet and has no money to repay her gambling debts, she will sell Zhou Ying to others for money to repay debts.
And Zhou Ying arrived at the buyer's house and tried her best to escape.
It can be said that Zhou Ying grew up in a constant escape from being sold.
Like rootless duckweed, homeless.
Therefore, she grew up in this situation, in fact, in her bones, she longs to have a secure home than anyone else.
And Wu Ping's tolerance and warmth just gave Zhou Ying's lack of security, so that Zhou Ying gradually regarded the Wu Family East Courtyard as her home.
Why is Zhou Ying still willing to stay in the Wu Family East Courtyard after Wu Ping's death?
It is because Zhou Ying has already regarded the Wu Family East Courtyard as her home, and she stayed to protect her and Wu Ping's common home.
For a person who has been wandering for half a lifetime, it is not easy to have a home, but it is not good to cherish it.
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Shen Xingqiao once said to Zhou Ying, as long as I am here, you can always stay in our Shen family.
At that time, Zhou Ying listened to what Shen Xingqiao said, and she was moved.
It can be seen that she, who looks indulgent on the surface, actually wants stability more than anyone.
However, Shen Xingqiao still failed to give her the sense of security she wanted after all.
In order to help his mother out of anger, Shen Xing took the whip and smoked Zhou Ying.
After Shen Xingqian finished beating Zhou Ying, Zhou Ying resolutely begged Wu Ping to take her away from the Shen family.
Why did Zhou Ying leave the Shen family?
In the final analysis, it was because she realized that Shen Xingqian did not regard herself as a family member, but only as a amusing squirrel, rewarding food and drink when she was happy, and punching and kicking when she was unhappy.
In such a selfish and indifferent Shen family, Zhou Ying could not feel a sense of family security at all.
Can you say she can't escape?
Compared with Shen Xingqiao, Wu Ping's tolerance and acceptance allow Zhou Ying to enjoy the disaster and play in the East Courtyard.
What kind of place can make people completely unload their defenses, do whatever they want, cry when they want, laugh when they want, isn't it home?
I think that Zhou Ying probably felt a sense of home-like security from Wu Ping's tolerance, and was willing to stay in the East Courtyard for the rest of her life.
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Zhou Ying's original childhood can be summarized in two states: first: wandering around; second: constantly being sold.
Although the wandering life has made her cold and indifferent to the world and has seen all kinds of human feelings, at the same time, this floating state will also make her insecure.
Just like children who were raised by their parents to their grandparents from an early age, they often grow up to be insecure.
Maybe being left behind is forced by the pressure of livelihood and helplessness, but in the child's heart, there will be a feeling of abandonment.
And Zhou Ying was sold to others by Zhou Laosi several times and three times, and she could not imagine what kind of mood and situation she would be when she was still young.
The long-term duckweed-like wandering life should have been tired of Zhou Ying for a long time, but she couldn't find a home that could give her a sense of security at that time.
Later, after meeting Wu Ping, Zhou Ying was slowly moved by the kindness and sincerity of Wu Ping, and she found a sense of security that she had always lacked from Wu Ping, and the place where Wu Ping was there was her home.
Zhou Ying and Shen Xingqian also said that the Wu family was a grace for her to recreate.
This grace of reconstruction, in private opinion, not only refers to the stage that gave her to vigorously display her business talents, but also refers to giving her a safe home.
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