"Your boyfriend and I are true love, you let it go."
"But you have a family and children, you already have a husband!"
"Then it has nothing to do with you, anyway, I want to be with him, and no one can stop me."
—————— [Crying Silently]
I never dreamed that such a dog-blooded thing would fall on my head. A married woman called today and asked me to let go because my boyfriend of three years was her favorite.
My boyfriend is three years older than me, tall and handsome, and is a music teacher at a key local primary school.
The married woman who hangs out with him is two years older than him, teaches at the same school as my boyfriend, and is a dance teacher. Her child is 8 years old, and her husband is an, giving her only money but asking her whereabouts.
The woman called my unit and said straight to the point: "xx (my boyfriend Daimyo) looks very similar to my first love, I have been with him for half a year, each of them feel very suitable, we want to get married, can you leave him?" ”
I was thunderstruck and stupidly holding the phone, not knowing how to answer her.
She said, "You should already know who I am, right?" The last time xx and I went on a trip, I deliberately stuffed two high-speed rail tickets into his pants pocket just so that you could find out. ”
I confessed that I was completely dumbfounded, and muttered, "But you have a family with children, he-"
"He doesn't hate me." Because I am prettier than you and look younger, we are a natural couple together, one playing the piano and the other dancing, how good. He's boring with you, don't you know? ”
I......
My head was dizzy, I felt like I was dreaming, but everyone in the office heard the call, and they didn't make a sound, and they looked at me in shock.
I hung up the phone, didn't say a word, and walked out. I felt like I should go to my boyfriend and ask him in person what was going on.
When I got to their school, I realized that there was a bigger ray waiting for me.
The boyfriend hooked up with two female teachers at the school at the same time, one was this dancer, and the other was in charge of logistics, the niece of the principal.
What about me? What do I do?
Despite my repeated questioning, my boyfriend still refuses to admit these facts: yes, he does not admit to both women, but instead complains that I do not trust him, and is simple and rude to him, not as gentle as other women.
I smashed his face with something in his hand, and he dodged a few times, and actually fought back, smashing me with an ashtray. I was so enraged that I grabbed his face and arms all over his blood.
He slammed the door and left.
I looked for him all night, and in the early hours of the next morning, I finally blocked him at the school gate, along with the married dance teacher.
Their colleagues secretly told me that these two G men and women had been renting a house outside for a long time, and they loved each other fiercely, and everyone in the unit was well known, and I was the last to know.
This kind of deliberate deception by the closest people, I tasted it for the first time, deeply felt the humiliation, so I pointed at the woman's nose and scolded: "You are born a cousin, there is no one to cultivate in life, there is a family and a room and a man who runs out to rob others, your mother educated you like this?" ”
The woman pretended to be pitiful, and ran away crying.
My boyfriend was afraid that I was making trouble at their school, and dragged me away with a drag.
In the face of the ironclad facts, this cargo is actually still arguing, one will say that it has nothing to do with this woman, and the other will say that she is better than me and very good to him. At the end, he said, "Don't think about it, we are going to get married after all, buy a house, and do things together." ”
I could only answer him with angry scolding and fists.
When I was kicking and crying, tired and calm, he said, "Just when nothing happens, let's start over, okay?" ”
I sneered and turned away.
Back in my single dorm room, I cried for days, feeling that the whole world had lost its attraction and that life was meaningless. In the past few years, I have been thinking that we will fight each other for a long time, but I did not expect this to end up.
Next, my boyfriend and I began a two-month tug-of-war. Under his apology and repentance, we tangled, entangled, repeatedly broke up, compounded, broken up again, and reunited, and never went back to the past.
His betrayal drew an unfathomable abyss between us, and I understood that we could never reconcile again.
In the second week of the third month, my annual leave application was approved and I could rest for half a month. I booked my ticket that night and planned to travel to Beijing.
Before leaving, I left the phone I had contacted with my boyfriend at home and set off with another phone.
The journey was longer than I expected, more than 20 days. I met several new friends, and one of them showed great interest and enthusiasm for me. His name is Tao, and his figure and personality resemble his boyfriend.
I don't want to start a new relationship as soon as possible, but he is a lifesaver for me at the moment.
While traveling outside, I was still depressed and uninterested in anything. I came out only to avoid my boyfriend and the city that left me and him with too many memories.
Tao seemed to sense that I was in a state of emotional crisis, but he didn't ask anything, but constantly encouraged and praised me.
He said: "You are so good, temperamental, independent and strong, and very smart, you deserve everything better." ”
I was in tears.
For so many years, my boyfriend has never praised me once, he is always critical of me, demeaning me, scorning me, and any growth progress or achievements of mine are not worth mentioning in his opinion.
I used to think he was doing this to spur me on to do better.
Now compared with Tao Yi, I understand: he doesn't love me at all, so he is always critical of me and doesn't accept everything about me.
After understanding this truth, I was relieved and no longer in pain.
After I came back from vacation, my colleagues said that I was like a changed person, confident and happy.
The day after I got home, I opened the phone I was on with my boyfriend, and the messages and calls he sent frantically blew my phone to death like a bomb. For more than 20 days, he had to call me several times a day, and I remember that before, I called him, and he never took the initiative to contact me.
My colleague said that he had come to the unit to find me, and he looked very remorseful.
As he spoke, he came to them again. I stopped him outside his office and talked to him in public in the courtyard.
He looked at me and said, "You look very good."
I don't speak.
He said again: I regret it, I shouldn't be blind, you come back, let's start over, I must be good to you.
I looked at him and smiled, not sad at all, without waves.
He grumbled: "That woman is so bad, loves to play, loves to spend money, loves to play mahjong, does not do housework, is lazy and hungry, and can't compare to you." ”
I interrupted him: "Today is the last time you will see me." In the future, if you dare to come again, I will call the police. ”
He was stunned.
I said: You go, we're really over. After two minutes, if you're still standing here and not leaving, I'm going to call the police.
At this moment, his mobile phone rang, and it was the woman, her voice sharp and dry, almost screaming threateningly: "Are you with her?" I warn you, if you dare to reconcile with her, I will find someone to unload her leg! “
I sneered and walked back to the office without turning my head around.
Soon, I won a place to work abroad, far away from the land of right and wrong.
Half a year later, I learned from a friend that the woman had successfully divorced and lived with him for four months, fighting every day until the last time he broke her, and the two finally separated.
The woman wanted to go back and remarry her husband, only to learn that her husband had already raised a young woman outside, and the children were five years old. As soon as she left the divorce, her husband straightened out the outer room.