Author: Yu Yi
The cold west wind, the flying yellow leaves, as if the news from my hometown, asked me when I can go back?
I bowed my head and said nothing.
The geese flew over the sky covered with autumn leaves, and they roared for a long time, and they were drunk in the felt house outside the plug, and they vaguely heard in their dreams that the autumn rain of Chang'an was gently hitting the eaves, and the sound was endless.
In the vast world, the red dust world, everyone lives not easy.
With a courage that never goes out, and an open-minded and wise mentality, face the difficulties head-on, without any timidity.
Change what you want to change, and accept what you can't change.
First do it with the situation, and then do whatever you want.
Two thousand years ago, Wang Zhaojun used her experience to tell us that there are two kinds of so-called red faces.
One is that one's own life is not good, and even others have a bad life, which is a disaster.
One is that one lives peacefully and makes others live too peacefully, which is legendary.
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Han Dynasty, Jiangxia, a village, rich forests, surrounded by fragrant streams.
There was a village woman Jingshi who dreamed that a bright moon fell into her arms before she was about to go to the basin. That night, when the moon was getting dark, she gave birth to a child. The child's face is as soft and beautiful as the moon.
The husband of the Jing family was surnamed Wang, and they named the child Wang Yan, which was the later Wang Zhaojun.
At the age of 16, Wang Zhaojun was born with bright eyes and bright teeth and natural beauty.
In that year, the Han Yuan Emperor ordered the selection of women to enter the palace. Wang Zhaojun's name is impressive.
Golden canola flowers spread all over the mountains. She boarded the official boat on the bank of the Xiangxi River, and went down the river, into the Yangtze River, against the Han River, across the Qinling Mountains, with a ride in the wind and a ride in the rain.
Three months later, Wang Zhaojun finally arrived at the magnificent and majestic Chang'an City.
After entering the Han Palace, Wang Zhaojun's identity was to be ordered by the court. "Waiting for the edict" means waiting, waiting for the emperor to summon him.
In the long wait, five years had passed, and Wang Zhaojun had never even seen the shadow of the emperor.
In order to let his flower appearance be seen by the emperor and get more opportunities to be favored, many court members went to bribe the painter Mao Yanshou to ask him to paint his portrait more beautifully.
Wang Zhaojun did not care about it.
She is not overly decorative, nor is she high-profile, and she does not want to please anyone, let alone bend to anyone. For such an arrogant "cold beauty", Mao Yanshou was angry and depraved, and he used a little pen and ink on her portrait, and there was an extra "tear mole" under her eyes.
When the emperor saw such a face, he was immediately disinterested.
At this time, Wang Zhaojun chose silence.
The world is impermanent, there is no need to go along with it, do not go against it, keep the peace of mind, keep your own heart, not be disturbed, is free.
In this game of life, we are just pawns in the game, and every step we take, we need to make serious choices, because this will determine our fate and ending.
And the gears of fate are in your own hands, treat yourself well, and there is hope for the future.
God closes a door for everyone, but it also opens a window for you.
Soon, Wang Zhaojun ushered in the first major decision in her life.
History has proven that she made the right choice.
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The majestic Han Palace, the nations come to the ceremony.
The Southern Xiongnu called out to Han Evil Shan Yu to see Emperor Yuan of Han and ask for "peace and affection". Emperor Yuan of Han "gave it to 5 palace women", which meant that he wanted to choose several palace women to give him.
When they heard that they were going to the distant desert of the Huns, they all went into hiding.
Wang Zhaojun stood up.
Han Palace, Ye Ting, stay here for a long time, she is just a caged bird, a fish in the pond, she is not willing to be a white-headed palace girl.
So she resolutely asked for her life and went to the Xiongnu.
Before leaving, Emperor Yuan of Han finally saw Wang Zhaojun's appearance of pouring down the country, which made him depressed.
However, Jun did not joke, and had no choice, he named Wang Zhaojun "Ning Hu Fu Clan", and personally sent out Chang'an for more than 10 miles. Looking at the felt cart carrying the beauty and the camel caravan disappearing into the sunset of the long river, the Han Yuan Emperor was stunned.
And the Xiongnu leader Who grew up in the grassland, Hu Han Evil Shan Yu, thought that at the age of forty, he could still marry such a glorious and beautiful Central Plains woman, and he couldn't help but change from admiration to pity for Wang Zhaojun, and gave birth to a strong sense of care.
For Wang Zhaojun, this life was more like a gamble, she rushed out of the cage of the Han Palace, but she did not know what kind of way the Xiongnu who was about to go and the desert that was about to spend the second half of her life would greet her.
Spring in the Central Plains is full of warm flowers and streams, but outside the plug is cold and windy, and wild grasses are in the sky.
On the way back to the Court of the Xiongnu King, Hu Han evil took full care of Wang Zhaojun and was extremely gentle.
In such a favor, Wang Zhaojun still maintains a sober mind, does not hold a pampering and pampering, but goes into the countryside and follows the customs, and the husband sings and the woman follows.
She eats beef, drinks goat's milk, sleeps in felt tents, and integrates herself into the life of the Hu people.
She studied the Xiongnu language assiduously and took the initiative to interact with the Hu people enthusiastically.
She and Hu Han Xiandan rode horses to shoot arrows on the grasslands, and raised their horses and whips.
She improved the Xiongnu costumes, made beautiful and warm "Zhaojun hats", improved their rough eating habits, and made delicious and exquisite "Zhaojun ducks".
She changes what she can change, accepts what she can't change, and creates what she likes more.
With her optimism and wisdom, she painted her ordinary life with colors and turned the boring Saiwai into Jiangnan.
For a long time after Zhaojun's departure, the Han and xiongnu "closed border cities, cattle and horses, the third generation of dog-barking police, Li Shu forgot to go to the Battle of Gange", and both countries showed a thriving scene of peace.
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Wang Zhaojun's life could have gone on happily forever. However, all this came to an abrupt end with the death of Hu Han Evil Shan Yu.
The Huns had a custom: the father died, the wife and the stepmother. That is, when the father dies, the eldest son can marry the father's stepmother.
This custom can be imagined as a blow to Wang Zhaojun, who was deeply influenced by Han culture. Wang Zhaojun immediately gave the emperor of the Han Dynasty a "begging" stamp and asked to go home.
At that time, Emperor Yuan of Han was dead, and it was his son Emperor Cheng of Han who reigned.
After receiving Wang Zhaojun's request, Emperor Hancheng's reply had only three words: from Hu Customs.
In desperation, she walked into the new house carefully arranged by Fu Zhu Tired.
The young Fu Zhu tired and was more fond of the flower-like Wang Zhaojun, and her titular son became her real husband.
The world kisses me with pain, and I want to repay it with a song.
Fate divides the cards in our hands for good and bad, and the key depends on how you play them.
Fate will give you a chance, but whether you can achieve it or not depends on yourself.
After marrying and reincarnating, Wang Zhaojun, who never bowed her head, once again showed her extraordinary courage and wisdom, and if she came, she was safe, and she once again took on the responsibility of her wife.
She advised her husband to legislate, to practice good governance, and to recommend meritocracy.
She taught the people to plant mulberry hemp, spin yarn and weave cloth, plant trees and flowers, and breed six animals.
Together, they have governed the country in an orderly manner and are loved by the people.
After years of war and turmoil, the Xiongnu have rarely seen a peaceful situation, and the herders who once lived by water and grass have shed their barbaric and backward habits and can live and work in peace and contentment and enjoy the world.
Wang Anshi wrote in the "Ming Concubine Song": "Han En is shallow and self-deep, and life is happy in knowing each other. ”
In the days when he was tired of being alone with the compound plant, Wang Zhaojun should be happy.
Eleven years later, Fu Shan Yu also died.
This time, no one forced Wang Zhaojun to remarry. The Han court seemed to have forgotten about her and did not issue new directives.
Wang Zhaojun remained widowed for another year and also left for the west.
She was only 33 years old.
This legendary woman of extraordinary beauty boldly chose her own destiny, rooted in the vast desert grassland, like a drought-tolerant and thriving poplar, tenaciously survived.
Twelve years, boundless years.
At the foot of the green mountains, cool breeze and cold moon.
Only one side of the green tomb is deep in the desert, looking at the southern homeland.
Life is not easy, fate is unfair. Maybe pain is the background of life.
In the face of pain, some people choose to escape, fleeing in a thousand holes, and finally failing.
The same pain, but some people embrace it, face it, defeat it, and finally gain happiness and become legendary.
May you also be strong in your heart and live your most abundant self.