Now there are many children, when they look at pictures and write words or write small essays, they are anxious, their heads are blank, and they usually gush endlessly, and they are silent at this time. My son is 7 years old and often encounters things like this:
"Spring planting, long summer, autumn harvest, winter hiding... Mom, can you explain to me what these words mean? ”
"Spring is the season when all things rise, and the peasant uncle wants to plant seeds; summer is the season when all things grow, and plants absorb enough sunshine and rain and dew in this season..." The child seemed to understand and looked at me endlessly, at this time I realized that maybe I was just instilling the knowledge of the child, in fact he could not understand what is spring seeding, long summer, autumn harvest, winter hiding? At this time, I gave up explaining, but on the Internet how the seeds germinate - turn the field flat and then sprinkle the germination seeds - planting seedlings - fertilizing - weeding - harvesting - threshing - drying - rice and other a series of processes to show the children, while watching and explaining, talking about solving the change in temperature, how much rain, color changes, etc., and then linked to our human body is a small nature, a small universe ...
Today's children, even farmers, most of them follow their parents to earn a living outside, and the wind cannot blow or the rain cannot rain. Although it is hard, the opportunities to contact nature are very few, resulting in our parents often instilling things in our children, and children cannot truly experience and touch these things on their own. So that the child looks at the picture to write words, the small composition out of the things are lifeless, there is no real emotion in it.
If you encounter a strong parent, you will treat the child as an empty bottle, and try to pour something into it, destroying the child's feelings. In fact, we should allow the child to use his five senses to recognize the world and explore the unknown secrets of the world. When his sense of sight, taste, smell, touch and hearing can connect with the world, the child's mind will become wonderful and his impression will be very deep. That point, that moment will accompany the child for the rest of his life, even if he can't express it in words, it's because his vocabulary accumulation is not enough, and when one day, when his language is rich, it will be time for the water to come to fruition.
Children's learning must first be felt in order to learn, with the feeling of learning is the real learning, this is what everyone knows a sentence: reading thousands of books, it is better to travel thousands of miles! Perception is important!
The original appearance of the world is the appearance of parents, and perhaps many parents do not realize that for the child, they are the whole world of the child, and how the parents treat him, the world is how to him. Parents recognize the child, encourage the child, discover the child's advantages, and give him the care of having a light in the dark and an umbrella in the rain. Such a world is safe for children, please remember that at any time, parents can not abandon their children at will, whether in words or actions, we need to control our emotions and channel their children's emotions!
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