In a performance of "Brother With Thorns and Thorns", Cai Shaofen said that "vividly" was "far away from the vibration" (harmonic sound), the audience was confused, Cai Shaofen was embarrassed, let Ying Cai'er give the translator, Ying Cai'er took the microphone to imitate cai Shaofen's way of speaking, let the audience watch the subtitles, and then interpreted Cai Shaofen's words perfectly, laughing on the scene.
Ying Cai'er and Yuan Yongyi wore printed clothes to cheer their husbands, but everyone found that the name of the team was printed on the clothes wrong, and Ying Cai'er used a humorous way to perfectly resolve the embarrassment with a sentence of "printed wrong".
The whole program should be happy to take charge, hold up half a field, and steadily earn a batch of popularity.
When Sabine hosted "Let's Talk", someone on the scene asked Zhang Xinzhe how he thought of being called a "past singer". As soon as this question came out, the atmosphere at the scene was somewhat awkward, and Zhang Xinzhe's face appeared a little helpless.
At this time, Sabine said, just like you now have to let Jordan go back to the basketball court, to fight with the current twenty-something boy to fight the NBA championship, not scientific, but this will not affect him in the slightest is still the NBA god. A few words of great wisdom, for Zhang Xinzhe to break the siege and warm his heart, so that the atmosphere of the scene immediately enlivened.
This is the charm of social people, no matter what the occasion can be handled freely, easily resolve embarrassment.
Here to popularize a little, the word social, social, also called social ceiling, is the opposite of social phobia of the internet new word, the topic and popularity has been continuous.
The so-called social refers to the fact that no matter what occasion or in front of unfamiliar people, I can send and receive freely, without baggage and unscrupulously let go of myself, often used in one sentence to describe: As long as I am not embarrassed, the embarrassment is others.
The deeper "social cow" does not sensationalize, knows how to score inches, exudes the personality charm of the self, and is a truly pleasing high emotional intelligence crowd, the so-called ceiling in social interaction.
Social ceiling, this kind of crowd, whether it is family or career is the wind and water, they often show us the sunny side, bringing people unlimited joy.
Many people want to get this kind of "social cow" disease, so how to become a social ceiling? It's not going to happen overnight, but we can work in that direction and make ourselves more perfect. Here are a few suggestions for you.
1. Let go of the baggage and be brave to be yourself
Many people have too much psychological baggage, in front of strangers, or in the occasion of many people are unwilling to speak, because of the lack of courage to express, fear that they can't say well, especially the opinions and evaluations of others on themselves.
Not everyone will like you, just as you won't like everyone, put aside distractions and be brave to be yourself.
2. Enrich knowledge reserves and enhance self-confidence
Knowledgeable people, most of them are full of self-confidence, strong aura, they have super high emotional intelligence, super reaction ability, logical ability and language skills, no matter what kind of topics are thrown to them, he can talk and cope with it freely.
If you want to have such an ability, you must continue to learn, broaden your knowledge, and have the power of knowledge, which is the weight of your self-confidence.
3. Get more contact and practice your guts
If you want to change, you must take the initiative to do it yourself, create opportunities for communication, you can go out to communicate with strangers in your free time, and gain courage and practice courage from continuous exercise.