In June this year, I paid a down payment for the house, followed by the new crown epidemic in Nanjing in July, until the National Day, there were two serious quarrels with my husband in the middle, and I still feel hurt when I think about it.
After the National Day, the husband said that the bank should check the source of the down payment, afraid of borrowing from the private sector, and there is no ability to pay in the future. Fortunately, the loan should be repaid, and the rest of the relatives are slowly repaid.
Last week the bank said that it was necessary to sign some documents, and then the bank sister asked us to write the names of several people on the property deed, and then looked at the documents and said that it was only my husband who could write. I was shocked that when we bought the house, we said that we wrote the names of the husband and wife. I asked the bank sister what was going on, and she said that we only needed my husband's on the purchase contract, so I could only write about him alone.
I didn't say anything in front of outsiders, and the more I thought about it, the more I wondered. Later, I met a mother in the community, she said that she had done real estate sales for more than ten years, and she had doubts with her. She said that there are two general situations, one is that the property sales are wrong, you can let him re-file; the second situation is that my husband is ghostly, in front of my face and the sales said that I wrote the names of two people, behind the scenes and the sales said to write his, with my personality should not be troublesome.
Hearing her say this, I was momentarily confused. Although we had quarrels between us and had a divorce in our mouths, I did not think that I would be separated in my heart, and I was not defensive against him. If it's the second case, it's terrible.
To this day, I dare not ask him, I dare not think about what the situation is, and I do not know how to deal with it.