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Chen Daoming
Chen Daoming is a well-known performing artist who has won more than a dozen international and domestic performing arts awards. Chen Daoming on the screen is elegant and handsome, and he is low-key and peaceful in life. Three years ago, his wife Du Xian retired home and was once unaccustomed to this life. Chen Daoming ingeniously implemented the "0.6 slow life", the couple gained happiness in the trivial and ordinary life, and their small family was more warm and harmonious...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > wife retired lonely, and the "antidote" of the emperor's husband was short-lived</h1>
In September 2010, the 56-year-old Du Xian left Hong Kong's Phoenix TV and officially retired to return to his family. Bidding farewell to nearly 30 years of hosting career, Du Xian was somewhat disappointed. On the day of completing the resignation procedures, Chen Daoming and his daughter Chen Ge specially took Du Xian home and congratulated her on starting a new life.
The father and daughter talked and laughed, and Du Xian rarely spoke. Chen Daoming enlightened his wife: "Everyone has this day, and the ordinary heart is the most important. Now you have nothing to do, you can enjoy life as you want, beauty, fitness, travel, visit relatives and friends... All good choices. I wish you 56 years old with a 26 year old mentality! Chen Gechong's mother grimaced: "Mom, now you have time, I hope you and your father have another love affair!" ”
The good intentions of her husband and daughter dispelled Du Xian's reluctance, and she had a smile on her face: "These years of busyness and busyness, I have not cooked you a few meals, this is my dereliction of duty as a wife and mother." From now on, I want to be a top home cook and let your father and daughter enjoy the happiness on the tip of your tongue. The expected purpose was achieved, and Chen Daoming and his daughter looked at each other and smiled.
Du Xian
Mr. and Mrs. Chen Daoming with their daughter
Previously, Du Xian would only cook the simplest home cooking. In November of this year, she officially studied under Shen Xing, the chef of Phoenix Satellite TV's "Beauty Private Room Dish". In just two months, Du Xian will make more than 20 classic beauty and health dishes such as hibiscus fish steak, sesame hand torn chicken, and bergamot cabbage.
In February 2011, Chen Daoming was filming in Huairou on the outskirts of Beijing, and after the play, Du Xian called her husband back home. At this time, Chen Ge also returned from a business trip from abroad, and Du Xian was frying and frying alone in the kitchen, and in less than an hour, he made a table of delicacies. She proudly gave her husband and daughter a dish: "Is it fresh to taste squirrel fish?" "How do you grasp the heat of plucking a banana?" "Does the fried lamb with green onions have a smell?" Chen Daoming was very happy: "The craftsmanship is not lost to the chef of the star-rated hotel." Chen Ge skillfully praised his mother: "Mom, I really hate that I was born 25 years earlier." "Family warmth swept over his face, and Du Xian's heart overflowed with happiness...
This kind of warm scene has lasted for more than 20 days. In March 2011, Chen Daoming moved to Hengdian, Zhejiang with the crew, and Chen Ge was also very busy at work, often unable to go home for dinner. Du Xian made a table of dishes, often for several days. With a good hand of cooking, du xian gradually lost his enthusiasm for cooking. Retirement life is not lacking in time, tourism, beauty, visiting relatives and friends can only be done occasionally, most of the time Du Xian is alone at home. Gradually, loneliness struck like a tidal wave.
In order to pass the loneliness, Du Xian taught the Persian cats in the family to identify the numbers; used an discarded toothbrush dipped in dish soap to clean the gaps between the floor tiles as smooth as new; the family's cotton bedding, husband and daughter's down jackets, were also turned over and dried by Du Xian over and over again... Sometimes busy, Du Xian's mood will suddenly become very bad, and then tell her husband on the phone about the bitterness of being alone at home. Under Chen Daoming's patient comfort, Du Xian's bad mood eased somewhat; but after a few days, she became annoyed again.
Chen Daoming and his wife
In mid-April 2011, the TV series "Changping Elegy" was completed, and Chen Daoming went home to rest. Du Xian moved the family globe to her husband, and Chen Daoming found dozens of red dots marked on it, and asked incomprehensibly: "What do these red dots mean?" Du Xian sighed: "This is the place I went when I hosted the "We Only Have One Earth" and "Crossing the Wind and Sand Line" column on Phoenix SATELLITE TV. At that time, life was free and easy, even if I stayed at home all day now, my heart was going to be moldy! Chen Daoming replied casually: "Then find yourself some happiness." ”
The husband could not understand his own meaning, Du Xian simply pointed out the words: "When we were young, we were all very busy, and more than 20 years of marriage were spent in gathering less and leaving more. Now that we are getting older day by day, can you shoot fewer scenes and take more time to spend with me at home? Chen Daoming is a well-known "movie emperor" at home and abroad, more than 200 days a year 365 days a year to shoot outside, busy has become his living habits, how can he pause? In the face of the difficult problems thrown by his wife, Chen Daoming replied bluntly: "Men are different from women, and being in his 50s is the most mature time for a male actor's psychology and acting skills..." Du Xian no longer talked, and his eyes revealed a deep loneliness...
Busyness is the antidote to loneliness. One day in May, Chen Daoming looked at his wife: "You have to exercise, look at the body is fat." "It's hard to buy old and thin. Du Xian was also afraid of physical blessings. So Chen Daoming accompanied his wife to get a gold card at the fitness center, and Du Xian went there three times a week to practice yoga. More than a month later, a publishing house in Beijing asked Du Xian to write a public welfare and environmental protection book. During the conversation, Du Xian learned that it was Chen Daoming who recommended her to the publishing house. The husband is looking for something for himself to do.
Since then, fitness and writing books have become the main contents of Du Xian's home life. But a woman's life can not be limited to these, Du Xian needs the care of her husband, the nourishment of family affection, and it is inseparable from the edification of ordinary fireworks... After a long time, the lonely antidote that Chen Daoming prescribed to Du Xian had failed!
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="40" > number of ginkgo trees refract the paleness of life, and the husband decided to slow down the pace of his career</h1>
In July of that year, Du Xian's manuscript was nearing completion. One day, she went to the National Library to check the materials, and was touched by the picture of a couple in their 70s who were soaking each other: the old man held a large stack of copy materials in his left hand, and pushed his wife in a wheelchair with his right hand. When going down the steps, the old man put the information on the ground, and then helped his wife to move down the steps step by step. Settling her down on a cement stool, he turned back to move his wheelchair. Du Xian's eyes were moist, and he quickly stepped forward to take the handle: "The wheelchair is not light, it is really not easy for you." The old man smiled, "Get used to it." She was in a wheelchair in her 40s and I took her everywhere I went. When the old man spoke, his wife looked at her with a happy face. What is a couple in distress? What is the meaning of mutual foam? The elderly couple's every move is the best interpretation!
That night, Du Xian asked her husband on the phone: "As soon as a woman passes fifty, various diseases begin to get on the body. If one day I have limited mobility and become a wheelchair, are you willing to give up your career to take care of me at home? Chen Daoming could fully guess Du Xian's motives for saying these words, "How can you say such a headless and brainless thing?" Du Xian did not spare: "I just want you to answer yes or no." "How did the wife get older and more arrogant?" Chen Daoming, on the pretext of being busy filming, dropped the phone. A trace of sadness spread in Du Xian's heart...
Chen Daoming's "Legend of Chu Han" poster
Soon, the TV series "The Legend of Chu Han" was closed, and Chen Daoming ushered in a vacation. On the day her husband returned home, Du Xian stood at the door of the community as usual to pick him up. Chen Daoming looked at his wife and asked, "Your face seems to be abnormal, is it uncomfortable?" Du Xian dragged her husband's suitcase and replied, "I've been cold for several days, and I burned to 40 degrees the night before." Chen Daoming complained, "Why don't you let me know?" "Does it work to tell you?" Can you rush back to take care of me? Chen Daoming sighed: "Man, sometimes I am really helpless!" ”
In those days, Chen Daoming did not go out, should not be paid, and was bent on guarding his wife at home. He drove Du Xian to the hospital to get drips, brought her water and medicine, and massaged her sore arm. Du Xian was on fire, his mouth was light and tasteless, Chen Daoming mixed fresh fruits and vegetables such as apples, pears, carrots, etc., and then squeezed them into juice and brought them to his wife. He proudly announced: "This is my original 'Chen's Compound Juice', which tastes different, you can taste it." Du Xian took a sip and praised: "The taste is really different, it is delicious!" "Finish a drink."
Under the careful care of Chen Daoming, Du Xian recovered three days later. Not only did she not show joy, but she was a little sad. Chen Daoming sensed it and asked incomprehensibly, "Which one are you singing?" Du Xian's answer greatly surprised him: "I have enjoyed the treatment of an empress in the past few days, and I am really happy." Unfortunately, the time is short. ”
Without waiting for Chen Daoming to answer, Du Xian confided in his heart: "I am 57 years old, you are also 56 years old, if we can all live to 80 years old, the time that belongs to us is only twenty-two or three years, can we have more time to stay together?" Chen Daoming enjoys the full happiness of busyness, where can he stop? In the evening, when his daughter came home from work, Chen Daoming quietly communicated with Chen Ge: "Daddy can't stop now, Gege, you accompany my mother more on my behalf, okay?" Chen Ge, 26, replied to his father: "Dad, I have no problem with my mother, but between my mother and us, there are two completely different feelings." Even if I am kind to her, I can't replace you. ”
Then, Chen Ge opened his own QQ space on the computer and let his father browse the netizen posts he forwarded. Several of them were written by Du Xian: "Retirement is like a glass of boiled water, dull and tasteless. "When I was young, I was busy at work, I didn't think my husband and family were very important, and after I retired at home, I felt that these two were my two legs." A few days ago, a social news was reported on tv: several elderly people who have just retired, some because they can't find the focus of life, some because their families are estranged, and several elderly people suffer from depression. I wouldn't have this day too, would I? Reading and reading, Chen Daoming's eyes were moist.
At night, Chen Daoming and Du Xian lay in bed and talked about their wives' spiritual monologues in the space. Du Xian told him sadly: "You have something to do, and you can't feel my feelings at all." Every morning when I saw the bright sunlight coming in from the window, I didn't know what to do, and often walked around the yard alone, counting the ginkgo trees in the neighborhood. There are a total of 208 ginkgo trees in our community, of which 103 are male trees that are fruitless. I'm afraid even the staff of the property don't know. ”
Chen Daoming felt a pang of pity and sincerely apologized to his wife: "I have always felt that I am an excellent husband, playing with dozens of actresses every year, and have never made a scandal; every time I get a film, I give it all to you." Now understand that I ignored your emotional and psychological needs in retirement! This is the highest level of a woman's desire. From now on, I will slow down my career and give you more time. Du Xian humorously replied to her husband: "Then I will be an empress and a princess in the second half of my life, so happy!" Chen Daoming was amused...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="41" > respect healthy life, loving couples enjoy "0.6 slow life"</h1>
In January 2012, the beginning of the new year, Chen Daoming drastically adjusted his life plan: one or two plays were filmed every year and enjoyed a "0.6 slow life". If the whole time and energy of a person is regarded as 1, Chen Daoming will put 0.6 points on the family and wife, and the remaining 0.4 points for careers. In this way, he began to transform into an "otaku" in a busy way.
Since then, for most of the year, Chen Daoming and his wife have enjoyed the "0.6 slow life" at home: the couple slept until they woke up naturally, washed up, drank a cup of fresh honey to moisturize their lungs, and then sat face to face at the table and slowly tasted a nutritious and delicious breakfast. If the daughter was at home, Chen Daoming and Du Xian would spend two hours cooking a pot of beautiful soup, and then the family of three would drink happily. Chen Daoming sighed with emotion: "In the past, I always felt that work could bring happiness, but I didn't expect that trivial home life also had its own scenery. Du Xian advised her husband to drink another bowl of soup: "In this life, people cannot be crowded with work, but also know how to regulate life." ”
Chen Daoming and Gong Li, Zhang Yimou, Zhang Huiwen
The world's slow life originated in Italy and began to prevail in 2009 among some white-collar workers in metropolises such as Beijing and Shanghai. On March 15, 2012, the annual "World Slow Life Day" approached, Chen Daoming was invited by the relevant departments to visit some elites who had fallen ill due to overwork. Du Xian accompanied her husband. When communicating with the boss of a state-owned enterprise, the other party wept bitterly: "I lived for more than 50 years to understand that a person has lost his health and life, what about career and happiness?" I used to know only work, busy fifteen or sixteen hours a day, with very little time to spend with my family. Decades of healthy physical exhaustion led to liver cancer haunting me. Even if I only live for one day after I am discharged from the hospital, I will live a comfortable and leisurely slow life with my family. ”
The other party appeared and said, which shocked Chen Daoming again. On the way home, his emotions were somewhat depressed: "Those white-collar elites in the hospital are really heart-wrenching." Alas, I have stepped into the misunderstanding of life over the years, but fortunately I braked in time. If you are as busy as before, I really don't know what will happen to your body! Du Xian put his arm around her husband: "If you can understand this." To be honest, as long as you are healthy and mentally full, what kind of house you live in, what grade of car you drive, I don't care. "The hearts of this loving couple are as tacit as when they were in love...
On April 3, Chen Daoming led his wife and daughter to the hospital, and the family of three underwent more than 30 full body examinations. After returning home, Chen Daoming bought three exquisite notebooks and made a health file for each person according to the physical examination report. Since then, every once in a while, Chen Daoming has accompanied his wife and daughter to routine physical examinations, and then registered the physiological indicators such as blood pressure, blood sugar, heartbeat, and bone density of each family member in detail on the health file. Watching her husband wear glasses and meticulously search the Internet for strange medical terms, Du Xian asked him: "Aren't you irritable about doing such a trivial thing?" Chen Daoming smiled: "Before I thought this was a waste of time, now I think it is the most meaningful thing, why bother?" In this way, I can understand the physical condition of everyone in the family. Any slight changes in our bodies are clear from a glance at the health files. ”
Chen Daoming is a member of the Star Golf Team and has achieved impressive results at the Cultural and Sports Star Competition held at the Beijing Aoyuan Golf Course. As soon as he had free time, he carried the club on his back and took his wife and daughter to the golf course to show off their skills. The course is green with grass and the sky is transparent and clear, and the family of three wears white sportswear, pedals golf shoes, and swings and hits the ball. Chen Daoming sometimes also acts as a caddy for his wife and daughter, picking up balls for them before and after running. The family enjoys a casual, calm, and leisurely leisure life. Golfers affectionately call their family a handsome and beautiful team.
Usually at home, Chen Daoming also advocates slow eating, slow travel, and slow reading, so that the pace of life is half a beat slower than the tense urban pace. Scenes such are often staged at home: Chen Daoming wears loose and comfortable pajamas and splashes ink in the study; Du Xian raises his hair in a bun and plays the piano in the living room; Chen Ge sits on the balcony, stitching and stitching cross stitches... Warmth and harmony permeate every inch of space.
"0.6 slow life" not only brought joy and happiness to the Chen Daoming family that they had never had before, but also made their physical and mental health go to a higher level. Chen Daoming slept well, his face was rosy, and his emotions were full. Du Xian's heart is quiet, his forehead is smooth, and his face wrinkles are obviously less than those of his peers. Benefiting from a slow life, in April 2013, Du Xian gave Chen Daoming an idle medallion engraved with the words "Otaku does not know that the old man is coming." Chen Daoming loved it so much that every time he wrote or painted, he had to stamp this chapter on the inscription.
Du Xian with daughter son-in-law and baby
In the past two years, although Chen Daoming has filmed less, all of them are fine products. In early May, Chen Daoming took over the film "Return" by the famous director Feng Xiaogang, in which he will play the male number one and traditional literati Lu Yanzhi. Talking about the past two years of life, Chen Daoming said frankly: "My new life began after Du Xian retired, thanking her for letting me understand how to live. Work is not the whole content of life, people must learn to enjoy life, learn to find happiness with their families in trivial and ordinary. Only in good health and peace of mind can we create more products in our career! ”
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