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Many parents attach great importance to all aspects of their children's education, but they often ignore their children's parenting. This aspect is not just a matter of the child's courtesy, but also many aspects of the child's grooming.
If the child lacks parenting, not only does it look like there is no tutor in the eyes of others, this will not only affect the image of the child but also the image of the parent.
As an actor, Das is deeply liked by everyone, and everyone pays more attention not only to the heroine of the summer of bubbles, but also to the identity of the mother outside the work.
Big S often shares his daughter on the Internet, and a recent photo went viral. In the photo, Xiao Yue'er sits in the bathroom doorway, her legs together to present a "princess sitting".
Although Xiao Yue'er is still down, her behavior is not inferior to that of other adults. In the photo, Xiao Yue'er holds a toy blowing bubble machine in one hand and covers her mouth with the other hand and smiles, which is very elegant.
Netizens have also praised the education of the big s, raising children, and sure enough, they still have to start from the details. Some netizens praised: "If there is a mother, there must be a daughter."
In fact, these are all problems of family education, and many parents will ignore the description of their children's manners, which causes many children to sit and stand.
But in fact, it is not that parents do not have a sense of parenting, but these parents often ignore the details. The details in education are very important to children, and educating children must start from the details.
1. Details determine success or failure
There is a saying that from the details to see the truth. Many people are careless in their work, and they can't see the details of things, so they often can't impress others.
The details in education are all the essence, and they are all the gaps between children and other children. These gaps make whether the child is different or not, and where the difference is.
Therefore, the sentence that the details determine success or failure is not an exaggeration, but a real statement that deserves everyone's consideration and attention.
2. Details are often overlooked
Why details are rare in education, it is because of scarcity that they are valuable, that is, because they are difficult to be noticed, they are more powerful.
The details are often ignored by many people, many people do things, including educating children are large strips, in the education of children are rough education, there is no details of education.
3. Details affect habits
Raising children does not succeed in a day, it all starts little by little. So the details affect not only the superficial things, but also the deep level.
This deep-seated thing is habit, and when a person's habits are familiar with the mode of parenting, the person will be more comfortable learning and functioning.
1. Affect the child's personality
It is said that parents are a mirror of children and a teacher of children's lives. Therefore, if parents do not lead by example and ignore the details, the biggest impact on the growth of children is the child's personality.
Parents often ignore the details, children will not pay attention to the details, slowly treat things are careless, but the heart, but not the brain.
This causes children to be very slow to deal with things, become more dependent on others in terms of personality, and often behave irresponsibly.
2. Influence children's values
First of all, the details are not only the child's behavior, but also the child's thinking. Parenting is not just a superficial, but also a deep-seated concept.
Therefore, parents' neglect of detailed education is equivalent to ignoring the child's spiritual level, and the same child's values will be affected.
The habit of detail brings different thinking to children, but children who do not receive attention to detail will be more one-sided in thinking about problems.
3. Affect the child's future
There is a saying that the details determine success or failure, and although the words are a bit extreme, the truth remains unchanged. Although the details cannot determine success or failure, they can affect the future of the child.
To a certain extent, the child's future direction is related to the details, in the child's growth process, many parents are ignoring the details, the child will not notice in the future life. This is not only the influence of personality, but also the influence of future life.
Therefore, the details determine success or failure is not an empty word, but a very practical and meaningful sentence, parents must pay attention.
1. Cultivate from daily life
Parents give their children's education from life, and they get along with their children more in daily life. Therefore, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of details, and they must start from the details of daily life.
In the details of daily life to cultivate the details of children, children will be more experienced, in the contextualized education will make children more aware of what the details of education is.
The details of turning off the lights and closing the door are all good scenarios for the details of the neighbor's interactions. The details in taking the child to the supermarket can also allow the child to learn more parenting.
2. In the form of a story
If adults continue to use the adult thinking mode, children may not understand for a while and a half, and it is difficult for children to understand. But if parents use the way of stories, they will look at the problem with their children's thinking more understanding.
Usually parents can use storytelling, you can use virtual characters, you can also use real characters, as long as the dialogue with the child is on the same channel, the child can understand more.
In addition to the story, you can also use the song method, in short, use the child's language mode to communicate with the child.
3. From what the child does
You explain something that the child has not done, and the child's understanding of the context and understanding of the matter is not very deep. However, using the things the child has done to explain the details of things, the child can better understand.
This is to discover the things that children ignore in life, let children continue to grow and move forward in the things that children have done, and when children do the same thing the next time, they will understand and understand more.
There are many aspects of the child that need to be paid attention to in the process of educating children, but the details that are often overlooked are often the most detailed problems.
It is necessary to be clear that the child is growing, rather than forcing the child to grow, it is better to correctly guide the child to grow. At this stage, parents need to pay more attention to details.
Here is a reminder that when educating children, we must have patience, cultivate children's details, and first of all, we must pay attention to details.
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