Wang Xiaofei and Ma Xiaomei's recent campus trip has caused a lot of waves. It stands to reason that a father's desire to see his children is human. However, when this scene is staged at school and becomes an open family dispute, this display of fatherly love takes on a somewhat complicated color.
Let's take a look at the impact of this emotional drama in front of school on Wang Xiyue.
First of all, Wang Xiyue definitely doesn't want to be a laughing stock in front of her classmates. When Wang Xiaofei staged a scene of "eager to see the child" at the school gate, the children's psychological bottom line was undoubtedly touched. Divorce is a child's heart knot, and now it is unacceptable for the father to publicly show it in front of his classmates.
Moreover, Wang Xiyue naturally does not want to be forced to "stand in line" in front of everyone. Children need a peaceful environment to grow up, not to be caught up in adult emotional disputes. At present, this situation not only does not give the child a sense of security, but inadvertently increases the child's psychological burden.
Let's talk about Wang Xiyue's attitude towards Wang Xiaofei. In the past, the relationship between the two may have maintained a certain degree of closeness, but now, with Wang Xiaofei's actions this time, the relationship between their father and daughter may change. Children have high self-esteem, and they are more likely to choose to stay away from their fathers or even become defensive.
Children receive warmth and care from their mothers, while fathers may face public verbal abuse and embarrassment as conversation points among peers. From this point of view, Wang Xiyue may be more alienated from Wang Xiaofei in the future, no longer easily used, and protect her privacy.
If the love for the father really exists, then it should be reflected in the actual care for the child, not just the financial support. If this can be done, Big S may not support the children and their fathers. And what Wang Xiaofei is doing now is obviously far from this sincerity.
In the end, we can see that although Wang Xiaofei may be out of longing for her children, the way her family ugliness is publicized may not be able to get the understanding and support of her children. In the eyes of adolescent children, face may be more important than anything else, and if this point is ignored, then the rift in family relationship may become wider and wider.
In short, as a father, love for your child should take into account your child's feelings and avoid letting your child become a school joke because of family problems. The expression of feelings needs to be moderate and considerate. I hope that Wang Xiyue can get a more healthy and harmonious growth environment in the future.