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Compared with the "official announcement of love" that is announced to the world, many celebrities choose to marry and have children in a low-key manner, such as issuing a wedding photo or marriage certificate when getting married, and issuing a "mother and child safety" when giving birth to a baby.
For these star parents, they probably hope that they can have a child quietly and quietly, without too much attention, Xu Jiaying is a good example, from pregnancy to childbirth, almost all of them are "quietly Mimi"!
The name Xu Jiaying may not be familiar to you, but you must have heard her songs, such as the popular "Riding a White Horse" and "Lost Sandbank".
Xu Jiaying's appearance is cute and sweet, from a nurse to a singer, and now she is 36 years old and still looks like a little girl.
The 36-year-old Xu Jiaying "officially announced" one of her life events on social platforms: a picture of a baby's feet with a simple text "I just ... Having a child", it seems to be easy to say, but in fact, it is not easy.
People who pay attention to Xu Jiaying also know that Xu Jiaying's husband Bill Jia is 11 years older than her, and she is also very spoiled on weekdays, and now 47-year-old Bill Jia has "old and has children", and the original two-person world has added new members.
Netizens have sent their blessings, hoping that the baby will grow up healthily, and some netizens have initiated the "name" for Xu Jiaying's baby.
Bao Mom fans are also distressed by her while sending blessings, 36-year-old children really need a lot of courage, after all, there is a certain danger in having children at an advanced age, and this happiness is not easy to come by.
However, fortunately, her husband knows how to hurt her and takes good care of her body when she is pregnant, which is also the reason why Xu Jiaying chose to have children at an advanced age, with a strong backing.
How difficult is it to have children at an advanced age? Hear what people have to say!
Ms. Liao: In order to get pregnant and have a baby, I have suffered a lot
In fact, I have children, the first birth is a daughter, but the family has always wanted a son, but at that time the second child has not been opened, my husband and I are both working in the unit, how can we say that we are born?
Daughter 13 years old two child policy liberalization, but I am 37 years old, in order to get pregnant, all kinds of conditioning supplements, people are getting thinner and thinner, it is not easy to get pregnant, pregnancy is a variety of difficulties, heavy bleeding during childbirth, half a life is almost gone, feel a lifetime of suffering in that time to eat!
Mina: Having children became the biggest obstacle to my promotion
My husband and I are notoriously workaholic, we got married late and never wanted to have kids, but the family was pushy. At 40 o'clock my husband and I decided to prepare for pregnancy, the age came up, pregnancy is not so easy, but did not expect that at the most critical moment of promotion, I was more than 3 months pregnant, it is impossible not to have children, after all, it is not easy to get pregnant! You can only give up the opportunity to be promoted.
Now that I think about it, it is really a pity, for the sake of the child, I really sacrificed too much!
Mr. Pang: The pressure on my shoulders has become heavier
It is not easy for women to have children at an old age, in fact, it is difficult for us men.
My wife was unexpectedly pregnant at the age of 38, and the family discussed and decided to give birth to this child, but in fact, our conditions were very average, and there was only one son in the family before.
Later, I gave birth to a second child, and my wife had to quit her job in order to raise a baby, and the pressure was all on me.
When the daughter was born, she did not reach full term, she was born into the incubator, and the wife encountered difficult childbirth and needed postpartum conditioning, at that time, the savings were all gone.
To be honest, if you are not financially prepared, you really don't want to have a second child!
In general, it really takes a lot of courage to have a baby at an advanced age, but everyone has the right to choose when to have a baby, have a baby later, and why not be a happiness if the sweet two-person world is too long after marriage?
The first is to be prepared to have a baby, especially economic preparations, the risk of having a baby at an advanced age is large, and now the cost of raising a baby is getting higher and higher, if there is no economic support, the future pregnancy and baby will be very painful, as the saying goes, "the economic foundation determines the superstructure", so there is not enough savings, and raising a baby still needs to think twice.
The second is to raise the body, whether it is before pregnancy, pregnancy or post-pregnancy, women should pay attention to their own bodies.
The risk of having a baby at an advanced age is large, if your physical fitness is not enough, do not force it in order to want a child. After giving birth, we should pay more attention to conditioning, pay attention to confinement, and ensure that the body recovers well.
Finally, it is necessary to consider the problem of raising and educating children, as soon as people's age comes up, their energy is not as strong as before, who will take care of them after the birth of the child? This is a problem that needs to be considered in advance, and it is best not to put the pressure of the baby on the mother.
There is also the issue of children's education, are they ready enough to accompany their children to grow up?
Giving birth to a child at an advanced age is actually not a very scary thing, but the premise is to make sufficient preparations, and it does not matter much if the baby comes early or late, parents are ready to meet it!
Today's Interactive Topic: Will You Choose to Have Children at An Advanced Age? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area!
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