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Preface
What is it like to be friends first and then husband and wife?
How did their love go through?
What is the secret of the ultimate attainment?
Origin: A seemingly ordinary first meeting
In 1998, 17-year-old Li Xiaoran met Xu Jianing for the first time in the crew of "The Case of Shuangfeng".
Although the two play a couple in the play, the first meeting in reality seems a little awkward.
In order to familiarize the actors, the crew specially arranged a dinner.
However, the meal was spent in a delicate atmosphere.
Li Xiaoran, a girl who looks sweet and cute, unexpectedly shows an amazing appetite.
She was immersed in binge eating, completely immersed in the world of food, and didn't notice Xu Jianing opposite.
Xu Jianing wanted to talk, but she didn't know where to start.
He could only silently look at this "edible" girl, leaving a deep impression in his heart.
Who would have thought that this seemingly ordinary first meeting was actually a foreshadowing carefully arranged by fate.
Although neither of them felt the spark of love at the time, this encounter planted the seeds for their future relationship.
Dream chasing: struggle separately and pay attention silently
Li Xiaoran has shown a unique personality since he was a child.
She is straightforward, lively and cheerful, far from the image of "everyone's ladies" in her mother's mind.
In order to train her daughter, her mother sent her to a dance training class.
With his extraordinary talent, Li Xiaoran finally entered the Beijing Dance Academy.
After graduation, Li Xiaoran entered the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe and became a professional dancer.
However, her deep yearning for the performing arts has never been extinguished.
With Xu Jianing's encouragement, Li Xiaoran decided to give up his stable job and embark on the unknown road of being an actor.
At first, Li Xiaoran could only start as a group performance.
Because of her non-professional background, her acting skills have been questioned.
But Xu Jianing has always paid attention to her development, giving support and encouragement in her most difficult times.
Finally, the opportunity came.
Li Xiaoran starred in "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind", which successfully opened the door to his acting career.
Since then, Li Xiaoran's career has been on the right track.
And Xu Jianing is also groping forward in the entertainment industry, gradually transforming from an actor to a director and producer.
Despite their respective busyness, they have always kept in touch and encouraged each other to get through the toughest times together.
Lost in Love: An Unforgettable Love Experience
Li Xiaoran, who has a successful career, has a confused love life.
In 2005, she fell in love with Sun Donghai.
At first, Sun Donghai touched Li Xiaoran's heart with his romantic pursuit.
However, as time passed, Sun Donghai's desire for control was gradually exposed.
He interfered in Li Xiaoran's life, checked her communication records, and even punched up her parents.
Li Xiaoran, who couldn't bear it, proposed to break up, but was threatened and intimidated by Sun Donghai.
This relationship left a deep shadow on Li Xiaoran.
In order to escape, she had to film in other places for a long time and rarely returned to Beijing.
In 2008, Li Xiaoran fell in love with director Yan Po.
Two emotionally wounded people seem to have found solace in each other.
However, fate played a joke again.
Yan Po was beaten by several people and seriously injured.
Li Xiaoran waited in front of the hospital bed day and night, and the relationship between the two also warmed up.
Once upon a time, the outside world was looking forward to their marriage.
But in the end, the relationship ended without a hitch.
People have different opinions about the reasons for the breakup, but the parties chose to remain silent.
This unforgettable emotional experience made Li Xiaoran suffer a lot.
She begins to wonder if there really is a love worthy of life.
And Xu Jianing is still silently waiting by her side and becoming her most solid backing.
True Love Comes: 16 Years of Friendship Finally Became a Family
In 2014, "Too Late to Say I Love You" once again let Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianing cooperate.
16 years of friendship experience has brought the tacit understanding between the two to a new height.
Xu Jianing was keenly aware of Li Xiaoran's inner trauma and carefully accompanied her out of the haze.
In the long time together, the two hearts slowly approached.
Xu Jianing finally mustered up the courage to confess his heart to Li Xiaoran.
They omitted the process of falling in love and went straight to the palace of marriage.
In 2015, Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianing held a romantic wedding in Brussels.
Xu Jianing knelt down in public and said the moving oath: "Marry me, give you 500 million, let you make it."
This sentence is full of the deep affection that he has been waiting silently for 16 years.
Happiness after marriage: a double harvest of love and career
After marriage, Li Xiaoran, under the care of Xu Jianing, found a balance between career and family.
She continued to star in excellent works and gained the love of the audience.
And Xu Jianing is also moving forward on the road of director and producer.
The two supported each other, made progress together, and became an enviable model couple in the circle.
They are not only partners in life, but also confidants in their careers.
In family life, Xu Jianing used meticulous care to create a warm harbor for Li Xiaoran.
He takes care of the flowers and plants in the house and treats his wife's taste buds with delicious food.
And Li Xiaoran also took a break from his busy work and learned to enjoy the beauty of life.
In Xu Jianing's love, Li Xiaoran became more and more homely.
She is no longer like before, and she rushes into the crew whenever she is free.
She began to understand that there are some things in life that are more precious than career.
16 years of friendship has created a beautiful love.
Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianing used their own experience to interpret the true meaning of "being friends first and then being husband and wife".
Their stories make us believe that true love not only requires courage and perseverance, but also needs time and companionship for each other.
epilogue
The love story of Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianing is like a clear stream, washing our hearts that are coerced by fast-food love.
In this era of constant confessions and frequent breakups, they spent 16 years interpreting what it means to truly know each other.
This love that spans time has gone through too many tests.
From the initial incomprehension and embarrassment, to the later mutual support; From their respective emotional setbacks, to the final hand in hand into the marriage hall.
They use their own experiences to tell us that love is not a momentary passion, but a beauty that needs to be managed with heart.
Friendship is perhaps the strongest foundation for love.
Just like Li Xiaoran and Xu Jianing, before they became lovers, they were first and foremost each other's most trusted friends.
It is this deep friendship that gives them the courage to move forward and also lays an unbreakable foundation for their love.