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As the saying goes, rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out.
The existence of friends is of great significance to our lives.
When we are sad and drooling, friends will give us warm comfort; when we face difficulties and obstacles, friends will fight with us; when we achieve life achievements, friends will share the happiness of the moment with us, and people's lives are always inseparable from the company of friends.
As you get older, I don't know if you have found that the friends who used to always laugh and play together have gradually lost contact, and in the past they were busy and did not disturb each other, but once they have difficulties, just talk to them, they will surely accompany you again and give you timely help.
Let me ask, there is such a group of friends in life, why should the husband ask for it?
A while ago, I suddenly received a WeChat message from a friend of mine, saying that I happened to be outside and couldn't use the computer, asking if I was at home and wanting me to do me a favor.
As a friend, I naturally agreed, on the one hand, it was really just a show of hands, on the other hand, because we have always been a very good friend, but everyone needs to be busy with work on weekdays, and there is no contact.
But for me, if my friends need my help, I will still be obliged.
In my opinion, the best friends do not need to be in touch from time to time, and true friends are able to lend you a helping hand when you need help, and they pay attention to the communication of the heart, rather than relying on material maintenance.
Rachel and Monica in "Friends" are good friends, although after graduation, the two people's contact has gradually become less, but it has not affected their feelings in the slightest.
When Rachel's life is not satisfactory and she chooses to run away from marriage, the first friend she thinks of is Monica, because she knows that in the big New York City, it is her good friend who can rely on her.
This is the best appearance of friends, do not disturb each other on weekdays, do not interfere in each other's lives, but always give each other love and warmth when the other party is in difficulty.
My cousin was helpful when she was young, so she was always surrounded by a group of good friends, and thanks to my status as a "younger brother", I was able to blend in and play with a group of older siblings.
The scenes of everyone laughing and joking back then are still vividly remembered, but as they grow older, cousins and friends have little contact.
I still remember last year, in a conversation with my cousin, my cousin said that one of the sisters in the group of friends had recently been living on a tight budget, so she came to her to borrow money to circulate, and the cousin, who had always been charitable, naturally lent the money out.
For this reason, I couldn't help but ask, "Haven't you been out of touch for a long time?" Aren't you afraid that she won't pay it back when she borrows money? ”
My cousin's reply to me was: "Friends have difficulties, I naturally want to help, not to mention that the two of us have known each other since childhood, I know her as a person, if I want to come up with evidence to prove, I can't take it out, I just follow my own heart, I believe in her from the bottom of my heart." ”
As her cousin said, her trust was reciprocated by her friend, who soon returned the money.
This is also one of the reasons why I admire my cousin, in this situation, she can still choose to trust a childhood friend who has little contact, which is really admirable, and the friendship between them is also extremely envious.
The best friendship is probably like this, no matter how long it takes, no matter whether we are often in contact, we always believe in each other's personality, as long as the other party has difficulties, I will help each other.
Chen Peisi and Zhu Shimao, the fairy partner, have always been loved by the audience and friends, and their sketch "Eating Noodles" has impressed people even more, and the shooting case is amazing.
Since they bid farewell to the Spring Festival Gala stage, Chen Peisi has been active on the drama stage, and Zhu Shimao is keen on film and television production, and the former immortal partners have separated and are busy.
Many years later, in order to make a comedy movie "Quit Smoking and Not Drinking", Zhu Shimao found his long-time friend Chen Peisi as a cameo, and Chen Peisi did not say a word, and agreed to it in one bite.
The best friendship is like this, we support each other through a period of time, maybe in the end, we need to separate, you have your life, I have my life, we have less and less intersection, but once you need help, I must be by your side.
Time flies, the years are like shuttles, the passage of time must not take away our deep friendship with each other, our friendship is definitely not limited to eating, drinking and having fun on weekdays, but also in helping each other in times of difficulty.
This is the friend, usually, busy with each other, do not disturb each other, in difficult times, on call, no two words, between each other, spiritual communication, no need for too many words.
The only thing that can be left is perhaps only one sentence: "Remember to find me when something happens!" ”
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| Author: Shui Sanban, emotional writer, focusing on the true feelings of the world and telling the emotional life.