Around 2005, a love quiz was popular. The content is this: give you a few things, the house, the tiger, the rabbit, yourself. Then let you use your imagination to make up a little story with these terms. In short, netizens have a lot of opinions, and I will first say a few of the things I have sorted out below.
Story 1: In the forest, I saw a tiger chasing a rabbit, I quickly opened the door, let the rabbit run in and hide, and then drove the tiger away...
Story two: I was walking on the road, saw a fierce tigress, learned the hero Wu Song to fight the tiger, three times five divided by two to kill it. When I got home, I opened the door and saw that there was a room full of rabbits.
Story Three: I went to the forest to catch rabbits, and I saw the tiger chasing the rabbit, so I beat the tiger to death, then grabbed the rabbit and took the rabbit back to the house.
The house in this story represents your family, the tiger represents your husband or wife, the rabbit represents your lover, and you yourself are yourself. If you explain it this way, you will find that the above story is very funny, but I don't know if you have found one thing, these three stories have one thing in common. That is, in each story, the rabbit is a better ending, and the tiger's ending is more tragic. So why? The tiger represents the husband or wife, the rabbit represents the lover, although this is just a story, but your story will reflect your psychology. You will feel the ferocious image of the tiger, while the rabbit is a cute, gentle image. For example, just as many people may think that the husband or wife in the family is incomprehensible, and even sometimes feel that the husband or wife is like a tiger. And for the lover, the lover understands you and is gentle. So you will feel that the lover will be very good, and the husband or wife will not be good for the lover.
Stories belong to stories, but reality is reality. But as far as the matter is concerned, do we sometimes think of our other half as a tiger, or we ourselves unconsciously become a tiger in the eyes of the other half. So that you or your partner start looking for the empathetic and gentle rabbit. Think about it, why do we want to be a tiger, why should we treat our other half as a tiger? As long as we don't do that terrible big tiger ourselves, naturally the other half will not go looking for rabbits. But how to keep yourself from being that tiger, this is the problem involving two people.
In the love of two people, you must try not to let the other half think of yourself as a tiger, be more considerate and tolerant of the other half, let the other half feel warm from you, care more about the other half, let the other half feel that you are an empathetic person. The love between two people will slowly fade with the passage of time. No matter how vigorous the original love was, it will eventually be worn down in oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea and trivial things. That how to keep the freshness and warmth of love. This requires mutual love between two people, creating extraordinary love in ordinary life. If two people keep doing this, then there is something about rabbits. You can't blame others for liking rabbits and not like tigers, the average person will like rabbits, tigers many people don't like, so why do you want to be that tiger. Who is better than the rabbit or the tiger, the question given by the title, I think many people already know the answer. You can post the story you made up in this love test question in the comments, or you can test your other half or friends, just for entertainment, don't take it seriously.