Fire Boy, do you understand Auntie's tears?

This is the story of a brave teenager Akiko defeating the demon to retrieve the tinder, and finally the hero sacrifices the curtain and causes many people to be sad. After watching the animation, there is not much fresh understanding of the details of his brave fight against the demon all the way forward, singing the hero is the main theme of this animation, but the hero's last sentence please take me to Ama's side makes me very heartbroken, A-Ma lost her husband fifteen years ago, and lost her only son, maybe yesterday I did not feel her pain and greatness, and today as a person who has just been promoted to mother, put myself in the position, my heart is like a knife.

The fire boy hugged his aunt

"What does it mean for a woman to lose her husband"

In the past years, widowed women generally end from one to the end, will not marry again, Mingzi's aunt is like this, her husband for the happiness of the same people, to take the fire to lose his life, Ama raised Mingzi to grow up, from the story can guess, Ama mainly rely on weaving for a living, while taking children while making a living, all the difficulties encountered need to be done by one person, I think these details have been done by mothers can feel, even in our material abundance of modern times, with children is still a very tiring thing, When the child is young, he has to change diapers, feed night milk, hold the child, and since then he has said goodbye to the whole sleep; the child has grown up to educate him to read and read, understand the personnel and know the reason, eat and drink Lasa cold and warm greetings, meticulous, now there are many full-time mothers who do not want to fight for their careers, sometimes it is indeed the lack of manpower in the family and the last resort, for the sake of the family and the child to give in, the mother's dedication and love for Akiko We can imagine, so much so deep.

"What does it mean to lose a son to Auntie"

Akiko insisted on retrieving the fire, Ama blocked, I have lost your Abba, can not lose you again, Akiko insisted on finding Abba, take the fire, and finally Ama chose between righteousness and small love, endure the pain in her heart, weave a bag for Akiko to travel far, and pray that he would be safe all the way.

Akiko to Ama, is more than nine months of pregnancy, a day of heart-rending production, fifteen years of hard work and hard pulling the big heart meat, is her hope, her pillar, now Akiko sacrificed, the house is empty only she is alone, so heartache so cruel, accompany her only memories, the saddest thing in the world is the middle-aged loss of a son, the white-haired people send black-haired people, A-Ma's whole family sacrifices for the happiness of the same people, while the same people celebrate the re-acquisition of the fire to live a happy life, I hope that there will be well-meaning people to take care of the second half of A-Ma's life.

"Pregnancy, women endure too much"

Widely publicized, pregnancy is the most beautiful practice, in a broad sense, pregnant with the next generation is indeed happy to be the most beautiful, without pregnancy there is no reproduction, the race can not continue, the details of pregnancy also contains too much anxiety and heart-wrenching, accompanied by morning sickness reaction, swollen hands and feet, insomnia again and again, sleep can only lie on the side, can not sit and stand for too long, this kind of hardship without experiencing it can not be fully experienced.

In the process of pregnancy testing, there is not a single time that is not worrying, is the fetal heart rate normal? Has Tang Siev ever been? Is there a problem with large diagenesis? Is there an abnormality in fetal heart rate monitoring? Since the pregnancy test ran to the hospital more than a dozen times, I didn't know how many tubes of blood were drawn, how many times did I see the b ultrasound, how many times the fetal heart monitoring belt was tied, and every time I was more or less worried about the indicators, was the baby okay? Will it have any effect on your baby? I have seen a mother because tang sieve did not go to do amniocentesis, I have also seen many mothers because of glucose tolerance has not been seven times a day to control blood sugar, and I have also seen a mother with allergies and pimples and finally can not wait for natural delivery to pre-caesarean section, and I have also seen twin mothers before childbirth to prevent daily blood transfusion to prevent heavy bleeding.

Some mothers may say that this is still a better situation, if you can't get pregnant naturally, there are still more sins to suffer, during the hospitalization, I met a mother, in order to be able to make IVF, I have been stabbed 11 times in 3 years, physically and mentally are great tests and injuries, in order to be a mother, she has paid too much.

"Production is a game of psychology, physical strength and endurance"

Some people say that the delivery room is the place where the door of life is opened, and one after another small life embarks on the journey of life from here, and I would like to say that under this mighty light, this is also a place like hell, because the pain of childbirth is enduring countless mothers or enduring, or howling, or crying, or struggling to tell themselves not to give up, the air will condense. I am a normal birth mother who was artificially induced, first artificially broke the water and then has been lying in the delivery room, eating and drinking Lasa all have to lie down, eat and drink must use straws, Lasa must use urinals, there is no one around to help, an aunt basically has to take care of a room of maternity, basically can only help you change the mat, send the urinary basin, with chocolate and Red Bull have not moved, one is inconvenient, the second is that the vomiting brought by uterine contractions is too strong, and the subsequent labor process leads to a strong sense of defecation due to the improper fetal position brought about by pelvic stenosis. Trembling can not help themselves, while the fetal heart monitoring is not ideal resulting in painless and not on, pulled to the production room to force two hours to get the child out, the whole process is very long and heart-wrenching, there is no strong psychological physical strength and endurance can not succeed at all, some mothers in the normal delivery process encountered high fever, uterine mouth does not open fingers, etc. Difficulties, after suffering from suffering was pulled to caesarean section to give birth, suffered two stubble crimes, now the medical technology is more developed basically can ensure the safety of mother and child, think about the conditions at that time in ancient times, It is not uncommon for mothers to lose their lives when they give birth, and giving birth to a child is a fight for a woman.

"Your Birthday, Mother's Good Friday"

The biggest happy day of the year for children should be their birthdays, there are big cakes, there are endless delicacies, and parties arranged by the family, for others, it is the day when they greet the little life, for the mother, it is a day of sorrow and joy, they work hard to get the birth of the small life, when the birthday we should all say thank you to the mother, thank you for taking me to this beautiful world, thank you for illuminating my life with a brilliant self.

Behind the hero there must be a great mother~