A few days ago, my friend asked me if I had any good drama recommendations, and I reported it in 1959. So my friend was surprised and said that your taste is the same as my father's? I said: I'm different from your dad. Your father is a housekeeper, I am a man.
Considering that the various types of men in the play may play a reference role for girls in the choice of marriage and love, I would like to briefly explain my understanding... However, because girls of the right age may not like to watch this kind of dusty, frosty mature male drama, so everything will follow the fate.
First of all, let's talk about the husband's best candidate, Ye Lisan. Some people say that Ye Lisan is a straight-forward science and engineering man, some people say that he is a bully and arrogant man, and I think Ye Lisan is a pure and dedicated person. Innocent people can concentrate their energy on one thing, and perseverance will definitely make a difference. He was originally a student of electricity, and later he has been contributing to the light bulb factory, and after he has a new goal, the whole person is cheered up, which is called "leye".
Note: Only those who are happy to work can live in peace. Because this kind of person focuses his main energy on his career and does not idle his mind about those miscellaneous things, it is almost impossible to play betrayal and engage in leg splitting. On the contrary, if a person is not concerned about his main business, and every day he is obsessed with video and thinks about eating, drinking and having fun, then this kind of talent is mediocre and unreliable.
The avenue is simple, the sky is clear, and the earth is peaceful. The more innocent and dedicated the talent, the more worthy of lifelong trust. Ye Lisan's type of people may not be so fancy, but girls who are willing to get married must focus on this type of person.
You can ask him what he thinks about his career during the inspection, and if he loves it, then you can continue to have contact with him, otherwise you don't have to waste time.
In fact, I don't like Ye Lisan who is painfully desperate for the loss of the white rose, nor do I like Ye Lisan who smiles like a good baby under the inspiration of the red rose. I liked Ye Lisan who could calm down in the chaos and read the newspaper indifferently in the reading room, even if other people were fighting and fighting. At that moment, he was the most unworldly and immortal, and he was a real "immortal brother", more than the "Shangxian" immortals in the xianxia drama who were wearing their heads and playing with their sleeves and playing with swords.
Let's talk about the lover's top match, Zhou Yanghao. Zhou Yanghao was the most transparent person in the GongdeLin. Because of transparency, he is not an active person who jumps up and down, and he knows that the performance is also a white performance. In horizontal comparison, Shen Drunk would take the initiative to curry favor with those generals, and Xu Yuanju would do his best to find old Wei to cover up information in order to prove himself. However, on the list of people who went to receive Mrs. Chen Ruizhang, there was no Xu Yuanju who had made meritorious achievements, nor was there any drunkenness that accompanied him all day long! The environment is like this, no matter how hard you try, it is futile, Zhou Yanghao saw through it, so he didn't toss it.
It is reasonable to say that the more transparent people live, the more pessimistic they are, but Zhou Yanghao is not pessimistic, he will find happiness and happiness. Not to mention Xu Yuanju, who was always used as a gun by him, and Shen Was drunk by his spit on his wife and ran away with people, even wang Hu and the two big leaders must be careful to be played by him who is full of knowledge. In the case of temporary safety, instead of breaking the eyebrows and bending the waist, it is better to know the fate of the people.
Zhou Yanghao's bloodiness also came from his transparency. Although he was usually sloppy, once he was directly attacked, he counterattacked without mercy. On martial arts, he can put down Zheng Tingdi; thesis, he can dumb Ye Lisan. Since I don't expect you to give me what I want, I will never allow you to trample on my dignity. Just don't be humble, be a little more relaxed, be nice to yourself. How many people in the past and the present can live as confidently and dashingly as Zhou Yanghao? Don't most people still have a delusional desire to live a better life, and they are bent on meeting the society?
It will be easier to fall in love with a transparent person, he can read your mind, you don't have to bother to please him, and he can even leave when he realizes that you don't love him. But people who are too transparent may even see through marriage, so they will be too lazy to get married and can only fall in love. Everything goes naturally, whether it is marriage or love, you have to be open-minded.
The above is the top marriage partner I define, and the following are "very good" spouse candidates.
Huang Wei, who has a long and upright heart. In fact, a man like Huang Wei should be extinct by now, he is the kind of traditional man who retains the advantages of old morality, like an old-fashioned wuren mooncake with green and red silk. Because Ye Lisan's bed collapsed, the house needed to replace the new furniture, but Huang Wei insisted on repairing the old furniture in order to "make the best use of it". He is the kind of warm caretaker who sings in the song, "Sorrow and joy are separated from the human road, I can sew and mend". A person who treats old objects so much should not be wrong with people, at least he does not like the new and the old. For example, if you have a conflict with someone like Huang Wei, then he will definitely try his best to repair the relationship, rather than cutting you off like a sour-faced cat, so knowing how to repair the relationship is also a very mature performance. But repairing relationships is not stalking, and some people mend old things because of long-term feelings, and some people just because they are poor. These problems should still be distinguished. In addition, the virtues of the old morality are also difficult to pass on, and most of the ones handed down are the stubbornness and dross of machismo, so it is not that traditional men are necessarily good.
Honest men will establish a good family style, live a long life, and have a solid heart. For example, Xu Yuanju frightened Cai Shouyuan, and at that time, people with heads and faces were receiving Lady Chen, and only Huang Wei, who was not welcomed by the director, went to blame Xu Yuanju. Huang Wei took the lead for Cai Shouyuan and what did he want? There is nothing more than a road that is uneven. If there are more people like Huang Wei, then the social environment will be much better. Like a cold-blooded and inhuman Hu Dashu, they all looked at Huang Wei who was sick and saw that he was not saved, saying something like "If you can't save him, you have to bear responsibility", then this society is over. Let people like Hu Dashu be the leaders, let people like Huang Wei be excluded, and it is no wonder that Zhou Yanghao chose to be alone.
Cold mouth warm Kangze. I particularly like Kangze's Cold Russian humor. Zhou Yanghao is who recruited me, who I am afraid of. Kang Ze is who I want to scare whoever I want. He relieves himself of depression and cold humor through intimidation and cold humor. Liu Anguo's mouth was so poisonous that he successively said that Du Yuming, Wang Yaowu, and Chen Ruizhang had collapsed. But Liu Anguo was wept by Kang Ze. Some people say that the person with the mouth of the knife must have an axe heart, nor is it, at least not Kang Ze. Kang Ze also told Wang Yaowu that he would join the group that wrote materials for the volunteer army, which showed that he was also self-motivated. Moreover, when Ye Lisan asked him to do a Russian translator, he was unhappy with his mouth, but his body still accepted the commission very honestly, and he did not even twist it. He is this kind of screwer, like a twist. In any case, people with cold mouths and hot hearts are also stronger than those with snake hearts.
Now people have the illusion that talking is high emotional intelligence, and not being able to speak is low emotional intelligence, as if being able to speak has become a necessary condition for success. I had a friend who found a talking man when he was young, and I only looked at the man's picture to know that he was not a good thing, and her parents also advised her to beat up the child before marriage, but she couldn't stand the man's mouth more than the dog's tail. Later, when the child was in kindergarten, the two divorced again. Although the man is still very good at talking, but the woman's male is incompetent, can't make money, and once the fresh energy on the bed passes, the two people are gone. Although being able to speak is an advantage, it is not all, and the choice of mate should also be calm, listen to his words, and watch his deeds.
Let's talk about the man who "made it up" - Liu Anguo.
Liu Anguo is a half-bottle of vinegar with an unstable stance, and any choice he makes is just to live, this kind of person is the most undesirable, and the marriage of most people is the same - it is blind. For example, most of the men and women who have reached the age of marriage and are urged to marry are mostly because of blind dates, and it seems that the conditions can still live, so they are licensed to marry. This kind of marriage is not based on feelings, it is based on conditions, so it is boring and boring, if you have abundant material conditions, you can completely reject such a marriage, do not have to betray your faith.
But the "make-up" partner may not be Pepsi. Because there is not so much in real marriage. Everything is man-made, as long as you try your best, you can still get happiness in the ordinary. Is it too late to have the best candidate? For example, to resist US aggression and aid Korea, the best candidate for the Northern Dynasty to seek help is not us, the best leader of the great man is not Peng Zong, the best candidate for Peng Zong in the Tieyuan Blockade War is not Fu Chongbi, and Fu Chongbi's soldiers are not in the best state of battle... But so what? Even if there are all kinds of unsatisfactory, in the end, isn't it through hard work to achieve the best results? It is better to fight than to give up.
Finally, a few types of men who need to be "deliberated".
Qiu Xingxiang This person is self-motivated, serious and rigorous, but his mind is too heavy, and a wire will also be put on his heart. Getting along with this kind of person can be tiring, you have to be careful with your words and deeds at all times, and saying the wrong thing may cause unnecessary trouble.
Song Xilian He attaches great importance to the "sense of value" he has. He and Director Wang mentioned that he was a classmate of Chen Geng and thought about his value in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, believing that he could survive because he was valuable... This kind of person is terrible, because with him, you have to keep your value at all times. I have a friend who made friends with a scumbag who was particularly concerned about the sense of value. The man was picky about her low education, not thin enough, not good enough in foreign languages, and saying that being with you would make me feel very devalued. So I advised my friend not to be with the man. She broke up with the man, and the man didn't bother for a long time. But because this friend didn't remember to eat or fight, he always looked for a scumbag who looked good, so I also blocked her. People can't always be immature, right?
Wang Yaowu is exquisite in society, and his energy is placed on effective and ineffective social interaction, so he must rarely take care of his family. Unless you also like to be alone, it is not suitable for social big brothers. For example, in my community, the property manager is a social big brother, the kind who has squatted in prison. He ate and drank with his fox friends all day, one day I passed by the property, saw him and his wife each hand a machine, each brushing their own screen, this marriage exists in name only, if it is not to maintain the face of the society, but it is not enough.
At the end, I think the screenwriter may be too worried about the unmarried and population problems in our country, and even painstakingly added the skill guidance play of women chasing men and men chasing women... In fact, the current girl who does not get married is not a lack of love skills, but there is no father who can call the wind and rain like Liang Dongfang, and without a good father, he has to fight himself, even if there is the leisure of marriage.
All the men mentioned in this article are not historical figures, but characters in the play, above all.