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Not long after the second phase of "Like You and Me" began broadcasting, Dong Haoran returned to the scene.
As a guest, Naza took the lead in breaking the news: he and Liu Qing broke up.
Naza has always liked Dong Haoran, will often go to his Weibo message interaction, always pay attention to his every move, when she suddenly saw Dong Haoran one day after taking Liu Qing, as a girl's intuition told her that there should be a problem between the two people, and sure enough, it did not take long for Dong Haoran to unilaterally announce the news of the breakup.
Immediately after that, Liu Qing replied with a cheers below.
In the first issue of "Like You and Me Too", one of my favorite couples is Dong Haoran and Liu Qing.
At first, Dong Haoran liked Yang Qianqian, and Yang Qianqian was eventually attracted to the fourth boy, and after experiencing emotional setbacks, it was Liu Qian's constant comfort and encouragement that allowed Dong Haoran to see the shining point on her.
In the confessional session of the program, Dong Haoran held up the "Like You" sign and expressed his heart to Liu Qian, and Liu Qian also replied to him with great anticipation " I am too" to him.
A sweet love affair begins.
After the show, I also paid attention to Liu Qing and Dong Haoran, and from time to time I would go over their dynamics, and I was relieved to see them well.
To be honest, after reaching a certain age, I especially like the sweet and sweet love, seeing that the appearance of both men and women matches, the personality is appropriate, and the interaction is loving, I will also feel as if I have tasted a little sweetness.
The breakup between men and women is basically a big fight, and everyone knows it, and there is no decency at all.
As bystanders, we may really be unable to understand: Obviously we once loved deeply, why did we have to make such a stiff fight after separation, and we were eager to wipe away all our love?
In fact, in the relationship, only the person himself understands best how sweet it is when you love, and how painful it will be when you are separated. Those who, after leaving, still carry and do not let go, can not let go, are the happy memories of those who were once together.
The most hurtful part of a relationship is that two people's plans for the future are out of sync, one is premeditated to break up, and the other is completely unaware.
When Zhang Qian and her ex-boyfriend Chen Qiang were separated, they almost wanted to commit suicide. She and Chen Qiang were together in the first year of college, and after graduation, Zhang Qian hoped to marry Chen Qiang, but every time Chen Qiang said that her career was still unstable, let her wait.
In order to save rent, they began to live a cohabitation life like many couples, and every day Zhang Qian came home from work, had to cook, wash clothes and clean up the room, and took good care of Chen Qiang.
Zhang Qian and Chen Qiang are really happy together, Chen Qiang looks handsome, although not very considerate, but the voice is very gentle, during the love, he and Zhang Qian promised to marry her many times, so that Zhang Qian did not think at all, one day Chen Qiang will leave him.
On the night of the breakup, it was raining heavily, Chen Qiang packed up his things, and the moment he walked out of the room, Zhang Qian's heart also died together, before that, every time they quarreled, Zhang Qian took the initiative to ask for peace, but this time, no matter how she begged, Chen Qiang still had an iron heart to leave.
For a long time, Zhang Qian could not get out of the pain of lost love, when a friend around her asked about her and Chen Qiang, she was also like a Xianglin sister-in-law, smearing Chen Qiang over and over again, she thought that through this way, she would forget him more quickly.
In order to hide from him, Chen Qiang changed his contact information and left the original city, and this love made both of them very embarrassed.
Look at the way Dong Haoran and Liu Qing handled the breakup, in fact, it is particularly like their personalities.
A gentle and delicate, every sentence expresses her own shortcomings, and Liu Qian's personality is strong and crisp, in the face of the breakup news sent by Dong Haoran, she only simply replied with a word, clean and neat, especially sassy.
The fate between people, sometimes it is really quite wonderful, through a show can know each other and love each other, and have experienced more than a year together, I believe that after these times together, they must also know each other better, and know more about what they want.
Sometimes, liking does not equal fit, between two people, if there is only the young impulsive like, there is no adult concerns about the matching degree of all aspects, especially the spiritual fit, it is really difficult to go to the end.
Feelings are easy and easy, you can determine the relationship after meeting several times, but at the same time, it is difficult to say that feelings are difficult, and after many years together, it is still a breakup.
There really is no one who can't live without anyone.
Liu Qian said on Weibo: May we all become better selves.
After the breakup, she did achieve "harshness" on herself, losing weight, losing weight, traveling, and becoming a better version of herself. It seems that only by making themselves better can people alleviate the pain brought by the loss of love.
Love, is the beginning of karma, and love, although it is the entanglement of fate, but think about it another way, it is not necessary to do old and dead, if the heart is open, the lovers who have loved can still become friends who can smile at each other.
Adult measurement, try to learn to be generous, because only in this way, it is easy to let go of the past.
People who can't let go of the past can't walk in the future.
Since some things cannot be changed, it is better to smile and say goodbye, which is also a formal farewell to the once young self.
Love is great, it makes us learn to love, to give, to work hard. Old love is also great, ta let us understand what is loved, what is happiness, what is growth.
Every predecessor, although it is regrettable that he cannot go to the end, but the years of walking through a journey are also worth commemorating. So, after separation, be well, and hope you are better than me.
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About author:Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?