Where in the world there are so many heart-to-heart, you blindly pay is just a habitual person who is inching forward. If you think too much about the feelings of others, you are doomed to be uncomfortable. So, ah, the rest of your life is not so long, please be loyal to yourself and live like yourself. Don't be too obedient, you can refuse what you don't want to do, don't force what you can't do, and pretend not to hear if you don't like it. Life is not to please others, but to be kind to yourself.
In this world, there are already many people and things that have disappointed you, and the last thing you should do is to disappoint yourself. It is important to remember: society is cruel, and you have to live with temperature. Give time a little time, let the past pass, let the beginning begin. Something that makes you sad, one day, you will definitely laugh and laugh out. Seeing a sentence that is great: "Loneliness is to give you time to think about yourself, and in a person's day, there is only one thing you have to do, to make yourself excellent." ”
You are smart, some people will say that you are heavy-minded, you will work hard, some people will say that you are lucky, you are naturally optimistic, some people will say that you are hypocritical, sometimes, you are obviously a glass of white water, but you are forced into a carbonated drink with a full stomach. People meet too many people in their lives, as long as their hearts are clear, they will never have to please someone who does not understand you.
Don't always be aggrieved because you accommodate others, there are few people in this world who deserve you to always bend over. Bending over for a long time will only make people get used to your low posture, your unimportant. Life, in the mood and sorrow of the stop-and-go. I don't know what I will meet, I only know that the sunshine is so good, don't live up to today.
One day you will look back at the people and things that have been experienced; no matter how big things were then, they seem to be nothing more than that now. You may even feel that you were too fussy and naïve, that there was nothing that could not be passed, and that no one was inseparable at all. But you also have to admit that it is because of what has happened that you have become what you are now.
When you are not happy, try to talk less and sleep more. Chicken soup is reasonable, after all, it is someone else's summary. No matter how inspirational the story is, it is only the experience of others. Only you can change yourself, not to be very successful, but not to regret. You have to understand: it is always smarter to be angry than to be angry! Who is not hurting and growing at the same time; who is not tearful on the one hand, strong on the other! In the end of life: all kinds of tastes to taste themselves; unspeakable pain to carry their own; falling wind and rain to block their own!
Don't live with the past, because it's gone, don't live with reality, because you still have to live. Don't rely on others for everything, in this world, the person you can rely on the most is yourself, and the person who can save you can only be yourself. If you want to change things, you must first change yourself, and only by changing yourself will you eventually change others. If you can't be the avenue, then be a path, if you can't be the sun, be a star.
If there is anything most important in life, it is probably the courage to live freely. Whether it is down the current or against the wind, you can live according to your own rhythm, with your own heart, and work hard. Don't question your efforts, these will be a kind of accumulation of a precipitation, they will silently pave the way, just to make you a better person.
Life is always full of surprises and losses, there are just the right encounters, there are also heart-rending nostalgia, but time is always forward, there is no trace of pity whether the end of the play or to be continued, may you be able to dream as a horse, live up to this life. To be angry is to punish oneself with the mistakes of others; to be upset is to torture oneself with one's own faults; to regret is to destroy oneself with a helpless past; to be worried is to frighten oneself with virtual risks; to be lonely is to imprison oneself with a self-made cell; to be inferior is to slander oneself with the strengths of others. Get rid of these and you'll have a lot easier!
Bad mood will always pass, be optimistic, be happy, as long as you live, you will definitely meet good things! You have to understand that when you are surrounded by rice, you are very comfortable; when the rice tank reaches the bottom one day, you find that there is nothing you can do to jump out. There is a trap called ease. There is no crisis, it is the biggest crisis. In life, it is easy to mix, but it is too difficult to mix. Don't choose ease at the age when you can bear the hardest, don't choose mediocrity when you should fight the most!
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