In 2011, when Zhang Yimou, 61, and Chen Ting, 30, officially registered their marriage, the woman had already given birth to three children for the man, and the youngest daughter was already three years old.
Just three months after the two registered for marriage, Zhang Yimou and Zhang Weiping were exposed as enemies, and it was rumored that Zhang Yimou had expected that someone would make a fuss about him and Chen Ting, so he preemptively registered the marriage.
In other words, if "Erzhang" did not turn against him, it is difficult to say when Zhang Yimou and Chen Ting would register with the Civil Affairs Bureau. After all, from the age of 18 to give birth to him, until the third was born Zhang Dao did not intend to give them the name of mother and son four.
No way, who called Director Zhang a big director at home and abroad? It's hard to be a woman, and it's even harder to be the woman behind a famous director. When filming auditions that year, she was not selected, but she became the underground lady of the big director by mistake, and perhaps Chen Ting had long been fully prepared for her thoughts.
Then again, although he did not give a name for a while, Zhang Dao treated their mother and son not thinly, gave birth to a child and sent a villa, and lived a life of a well-respected wife, is that not exactly what countless young girls dream of? Therefore, the two words of fame are actually not worth anything at all, as long as the treatment keeps up, who tm still remembers those two innocuous words every day.
More importantly, compared with Zhang Yimou's ex-wife and Gong Li's ex-girlfriends, she is the last one to win, so even if she registered to marry Zhang Yimou at the age of 30, she was extremely proud and proud in her heart.
Moreover, with the passage of time, the growth of children and the gradual aging of husbands, the relationship between the family has become more and more stable, and the probability of interference has been greatly reduced, so Chen Ting has begun to no longer be patient and low-key.
Just in 2021, Chen Ting posted photos of her family at two important time nodes. Once on April 2, on the day of Zhang Yimou's 71st birthday, his wife Zhang Ting posted a photo on the social platform with the text: "Award a labor award, cut the cake and continue to work, happy birthday!" ”。
From the photos, you can see Zhang Yimou and his wife, as well as their eldest son Zhang Yinan and daughter Zhang Yijiao, and the second son who studied abroad celebrates Zhang Yimou's birthday through video telephony.
The other time was september 30, two days ago, which happened to be Chen Ting's 40th birthday. Chen Ting posted a photo of a family of three on the social platform, and the two sons estimated that they could not rush back, and only Zhang Yimou and their daughter were seen in the photo.
Chen Ting said with a text on the platform: "Forty is not confused, firmly believe that as long as there is love in the heart, all encounters will be gentle", which is like an emotion that has experienced the ups and downs of life, and it is like some kind of implicit confession. In a word, Chen Ting could hardly hide the joy in her heart.
Once in a program, Chen Ting told everyone that she began to board at the age of 13 and rarely received the love of others, and it was Zhang Yimou's thoughtfulness that made her feel warm and moved. After she became pregnant, she had seriously thought about whether she wanted to have a career or give birth to a child for Zhang Yimou and silently be a woman behind him? In the end, she chose the latter without hesitation.
From pregnancy and childbirth at the age of 18 to marriage registration at the age of 30, to gentle treatment at the age of 40, Although Chen Ting's experience cannot be copied, it perfectly interprets a woman's firm persistence after making a choice. More than 10 years of stoicism, single-minded husband and son, how many women can do it?
There is no right or wrong and win or lose in the matter of feelings, only the twilight of each other and the joy of two feelings. A lot of times marriage isn't a door-to-door match and age-appropriate, and if what you want is exactly what I want, this may be the best combination.