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Zhang Yimou's emotional choice: 28 years later, we only understand his "strategy"
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In the journey of each of us, there will always be some important crossroads, which makes people dilemma: should we choose to pursue that passionate love, or build a warm home in peace? Zhang Yimou's story just reflects this, to this day, when it comes to Zhang Yimou and Gong Li, the couple who were once regarded as a perfect golden partner, everyone is still discussing, but Zhang Yimou's choice is not impulsive, but the result of careful consideration, today, we will take a look at the director's deep logic in emotional life, especially the emotional experience between him and Gong Li and Chen Ting, what enlightenment can it bring us
The good memories of Zhang Yimou and Gong Li began in the bright "red sorghum" era, which was a period of burning passion, their love was as dramatic as a movie, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li's cooperation can be said to be a perfect match, this movie not only made their respective careers flourish, but also made the love story of the two in full swing, many people were deeply attracted by the tacit understanding and passion between them, Zhang Yimou's introverted and Gong Li's extroversion just formed a strong magnetic field
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The two are like characters in the movie, playing their own symphony of love, that kind of pure passion and persistence in pursuing ideals, it is really emotional, romantic love always faces various practical challenges in life, as time goes by, the relationship between the golden boy and the girl is gradually facing a test, Zhang Yimou began to be busy with various projects, and Gong Li became more and more eager for a stable emotional home, these differences became more and more obvious in the passage of time, and finally evolved into a huge conflict
When the burden of his career became increasingly heavy, Zhang Yimou's goal began to change, originally he was eager to pursue freedom and creation, but he found that the yearning for family in the depths of his heart was quietly breeding, Gong Li, an angry woman, began to yearn for a definition of "home", longing for a real sense of love, and Zhang Yimou seemed to be still on the journey of chasing dreams, just like that, their relationship gradually became precarious, the sound of breaking up began to echo in his ears, and the emotions of the two were like fireworks in full bloom, and finally withered quietly at that moment
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And after the breakup, Zhang Yimou did not give up the pursuit of love, he started a new life journey, turned around and ushered in Chen Ting, this woman's body, Zhang Yimou saw something different, she gave him warmth and a sense of belonging, a woman who is willing to pay for the family and work hard for life, it is the tranquility and firmness that Zhang Yimou longs for in the depths of his heart, their story has turned a new page, yes, Chen Ting brings not only the snuggling of the family, but also Zhang Yimou's re-examination of life
After marrying Chen Ting, Zhang Yimou's life has become more stable, and even the eyes of the outside world no longer seem to pay attention to him and Gong Li's hot past, as the family they formed is becoming richer, Zhang Yimou began to understand that the warmth and security of the family is what he really seeks, in the past he may have paid more attention to the pursuit of his career, but now he has found the realization of self-worth in the family, this re-examination of life, let Zhang Yimou find a real direction in the emotional wind and rain
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During this journey, Zhang Yimou showed us a kind of growth: breaking up with Gong Li is not an isolated choice, but a reflection on himself, the balance between love and career, just like a delicate formula, is not blindly pursuing success, but requires more emotional investment and understanding, he began to understand that the value of life is not only the height of the career, the depth of love is equally important, for Chen Ting, what he found is not only emotional sustenance, but also the warmth in life is really rare
And from Gong Li, he also got the inspiration of growth, her strength and excellence, is the reason why Zhang Yimou was willing to join hands with her, and now it is also the driving force for him to strive for self-improvement, in Zhang Yimou's concept of love, self-achievement and common growth between individuals is indispensable, when he has achieved glory in his career, he gradually realizes what is true happiness, even if it is a brilliant career, it cannot cover up the thirst for love in his heart
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The story allows us to return to human nature itself, everyone will have different understandings and choices when facing different stages of emotional choices, perhaps Zhang Yimou's choice in love is because of the change of values in a specific period, or perhaps it is precisely because of the different experiences that he finally determined this direction, every relationship is a deep exploration, whether it is the passion with Gong Li or the warmth with Chen Ting, there is a deep self-reflection behind it
In this bizarre entertainment industry, Zhang Yimou's story really makes us think deeply, from a gorgeous love to a quiet family, this is a unique emotional journey, perhaps everyone is constantly exploring their own direction in the face of these choices, in this process, we can personally feel that between love and being loved is not the most essential pursuit of human beings?
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For Zhang Yimou, the choice after 28 years has made him truly understand what is the "strategy" of life, which is not only about the success of his career, but more importantly, the wisdom of life, just as every story has its unsolved mysteries behind it, Zhang Yimou uses his own experience to tell us that every choice in life is to better understand himself, and it is these choices that together constitute his colorful inner world and life trajectory
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