Lead:
Faced with a boring marriage, Ms. Zhou chose to betray and go out to find an extramarital affair. Nowadays, divorced people abound, no longer a lifetime of love, only suitable or self-selected marriages. Ms. Zhou said that her husband no longer loved and cared for her, so much so that she had betrayed her husband for five years without being discovered by him.
Self-narrator: Ms. Zhou / 52 years old
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I'm 52 years old and have the same dream as the average woman to have someone who loves and cares about herself. My husband and I have been married for thirty years, and I have a child who has just graduated and come out to work, and my husband will drink and socialize every day for work, so he will rarely live in the same room, after all, my husband will come back too late and will disturb me, so the next six years are divided into rooms.
When I was young, my husband was not like this, although the job at that time was not very stable, but he would also accompany him and care for me. At that time, I felt very happy to marry such a husband, because I was not a person who spent a lot of money, so I didn't care how much money my husband earned.
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I don't care how much income I earn, but my husband can't stand the hardships we suffer with him, especially after having children, my husband goes out to work overtime every day, just to give his children a good future. At that time, I had children and didn't care that my husband often went out to drink and socialize, but just told him not to drink badly.
After the child grew up, the husband's work was getting busier and busier, saying that in the future, every month my husband would give me and my children eight thousand living expenses, and I remember that at that time, the child was already in junior high school. When the children are older, they are often not around, and their work is also a primary school teacher after all, there are many holidays and spare time, but the children are not at home, and the husband often does not go home at night, so I personally have a little complaint about my husband at that time.
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Even sometimes I quarreled with my husband, I said: drinking all day, I don't know how to think that you are an alcoholic, not to socialize, after all, it is impossible to socialize every day. My husband said: Now the business is not easy to do, especially my company just stabilized need a lot of big guys and customers to maintain, so as long as there is time is not called by others to drink, I have to take the initiative to invite them to drink, during the day I have to deal with documents and decisions, so be considerate!
I look at my husband who works so hard, and sometimes I feel that I am married to a self-motivated person, although I don't have much time to spend with myself, but it is also a happy home. It wasn't until a colleague was transferred from another rural primary school to the city that my perspective changed. The student had some problems that we discussed together, and we talked to each other about some dissatisfaction in life, and in this way, the first month he came to school, we were fine.
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He is like her husband when he was very young, and now he is also thirty-five years old, in the face of sweet talk, even if he knows that he is sorry for his husband, he is not willing to be separated from him, and in this way, even if there is no class, he will go to school to go shopping with him, go to the movies and chat together. Only then did I know that what I wanted was a husband who loved him and would walk with him, and he was also a teacher, so he had a lot of time to put on himself.
The children have graduated and worked, but my husband's life and I have little intersection, and I no longer expect my husband to wait for him to take me out when he is free. Now where I want to go, I will be accompanied, I will travel with my lover during the holidays, sometimes my husband will ask me where I go when I don't see me, I only say that the school requires make-up classes, and my husband will not say anything. After five years of extramarital affairs, although I found that my husband was indifferent to him, he would not talk about marriage with him, after all, he had a son, and neither of us mentioned marriage, after all, once married, we must divorce, which is not what we want.
Conclusion:
The husband thought that having money and income would make his wife live a good life, but he did not know that a good life without her husband's company would not last long. Couples may become very busy because of work, but even if they are busy, they must take time to spend with each other, so do husbands and wives. As long as one party ignores the other's feelings for a long time, the marriage is easy to go wrong, and the husband does not know that the wife has betrayed him for five years, because the husband is only interested in work, and the rest is no longer in his heart.