Lead:
I believe that there are many men who like women younger than themselves, especially men who are rich and conditional. Many marriages have failed in reality, and the pressure of reality has made many people breathless, especially when implementing the one-child policy, most of the post-90s are only children. Mr. Liu married an only child, a thirty-two-year-old rural girl.
Self-narrator: Mr. Liu / 45 years old
1
My ex-wife died of cancer two years ago, and I have a 13-year-old son with her, and I have no regrets. But in the first year after the death of my wife, I felt that the days without a lover were very difficult, although I could forget my ex-wife in my busy schedule, but I always unconsciously remembered the bits and pieces with my ex-wife at night. Every time I think about it, it's hard to think about it, and when I ask my friends they say: The best way to forget one love is to start another love over.
After that, I like to socialize, go out and play, and I will go where young people like. The son has gone to junior high school, stayed overnight at school, basically came back from the holiday, and a person has enough time to develop his relationship. Although I often go to play, but there is no gain, I have tried to hear friends say that I can find love, but there is no suitable object for my age.
2
I myself opened a barber shop, before and my wife opened a shop, basically the wife management, invited two apprentices to wash their hair and four cut their hair, the flow of people is very sufficient, busy time seven or eight people have not stopped. After that, there was a little sister who looked average, but could make my eyes shine, and when she learned that she was still single, she wanted to keep her contact information, so she avoided dozens of pieces of hair care this time.
I don't look like the old one, so I can often go out and play after leaving contact information, and then I fall in love. When we were in love, we didn't talk about each other's families, went on dates happily, and then got a marriage license less than two months later. After getting married, she became my wife, and I don't know how the other family was, after all, there was no banquet for the license. Later, she learned that the other party had parents and grandparents, and was still an only child, and her grandparents also gave birth to a son, that is, her father.
3
Later, when I went to my wife's house, my uncle and aunt did not object to us being together, and the bride price did not ask for much, saying that it was casual to me, but my wife said that if I married her, I would have to take care of the family, and I thought about it too much. At the time of the wedding banquet, the wife invited very few people, and her friends there were just enough for one or two tables, and relatives basically did not. Just a week after the banquet, my wife's grandfather fell ill and was hospitalized, and her parents came to me for medical expenses when they did farm work in the countryside and did not have much money to save. My wife's grandfather is also 92 years old, and it is normal to be sick, and I have some money to pay my grandfather's expenses in the hospital anyway.
The wife's monthly income is average, only three or four thousand, but almost a month's salary is given to her parents as living expenses. After all, her grandparents also need living expenses, and grandparents who have no pension and no job have become a big burden on the family. In addition, my own parents themselves have no job and have to live on, so the living expenses of such a family are all earned by me and my wife.
4
There are definitely good and bad business, the income is not very stable, the business income can be more, but it adds up to basically enough for the whole family to spend, and I still have hundreds of thousands of deposits. But less than a month after marriage, Grandpa's medical expenses and hospitalization costs were as high as 20,000 or 30,000, and I felt that no matter how much money was not enough, fortunately, at the end of the second month, Grandpa was discharged. I told my friend that I was under a lot of pressure, and my friend also ridiculed me: how to marry a young person without paying a price, people looking for others of the same age are certainly not willing to bear such a stressful family, but you are different, forty or fifty years old will basically have a little savings cost.
I smiled, didn't talk to my friend, and for half a year, I didn't deposit a penny, and the deposit was almost 100,000. In order to reassure his wife, he said that he still had a lot of savings, (but he still had how much savings he knew), and then in order to expand his strength, he often went shopping with his wife to spend his honeymoon, so that the use of money was undoubtedly faster. Watching their savings getting thinner and thinner, they live every day on the surface, but their hearts are secretly sad, how long this life can live is not clear to themselves, the cost of children to go to college is more, in order to work overtime, just for a little more income, I have a miserable life! But I was reluctant to divorce my wife because of reality.
Conclusion:
Mr. Liu worries about money every day, eats badly and sleeps badly, and does not know whether his wife will choose to end this marriage because Mr. Liu has no money in the future. After all, there are many local tycoons in their forties and fifties, and Mr. Liu does not dare to share his feelings with his wife.
Under such great pressure, will Mr. Liu take the initiative to choose to give up this marriage? Maybe after a while, you can find a way to make money in the future and live happily for a lifetime? No one knows how it ends, but if you want to have it, you have to pay, maybe life is such a way of life.