The appearance of the book "Creation" is tut... Anyway, it is not worth studying carefully by the scholar.
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First of all, the whole book is too small! Too light! The same book of positive discipline system, the same book about the issue of young age, look at the comparison between "Creation" and "Positive Discipline of 0-3 Year Old Children"! The area is only 2/3 of the other person's, and the thickness is not less than 1/2 of the other's!
Then look at the content, oh my God, this kind of typography, is also too environmentally friendly, right? How many words are there on a two-page book? It seems that all the fingers of the body can be counted.
Such a widely sparse typesetting, of course, can be seen very quickly, only need to simply turn over, three minutes later, huh?! Is the second half actually in English? That said, the book shrank in half more than I expected?
When the mother listened to the suggestion and spent more than twenty yuan to buy this book, wouldn't it produce a feeling of "pit mother" when she got it in her hand?!
I began to suspect that Zhang Hongwu's mentor asked us to write a book review in order to sell the book she translated...
But, anyway, I bought it, just don't have time to write a long book review, this short and capable, well, very suitable for me to be lazy, just write it.
So I took my son's badminton class, prepared to get it in half an hour, and went back to work.
Uh-huh, the shortest parenting book in history, the one without a single parenting method, did read it in half an hour in class!
However, it is possible to respond to that sentence:
The Tao gives birth to one, one to two, two to three, and three to all things
Why is it that such a minimalist book makes my brain run wildly and calculate from the moment I read it, rewinding and fast-forwarding, as if it were a little abnormal?
As I watched, I was reminiscing, sighing, wondering, and grateful; just a few words on each page reminded me of the unbearable and painful things that I didn't say easily in my childhood memories; I remembered the good people who "helped me up" in each setback; I remembered how I later repaid the pain of my childhood to my son; and how I did volunteer a little bit, doubling down on my encouragement and support to many people who were ignorant of life.
Then when my son made a hundred treasures on the court as usual, one moment too hot and tired, one moment let me see him praise him, one moment he did not catch the ball and lost his temper, one moment he urinated and drank water and ate snacks, I suddenly changed my usual discussion of things or false connections, but quietly looked at him with curiosity and began to wonder: When did his personality and behavior begin, under whose influence, how did it form little by little?
The wakefulness and dizziness caused by this book, now 48 hours later, are still continuing. And I think that what I can explore from it about my past forty years and the next few years will continue to be affected by it, so that I will always be aware of myself, pay attention to myself, and be aware of the child, pay attention to the child.
This book must have been smeared with invisible psychedelic potions... Definitely.
Well, the content of this book is like this, can't spoil too much, otherwise it will be too sorry for the publisher, huh. But can be eight one eight background of the book.
The author of this book is Professor Bertillu of the United States
She is not well known in China. But if you knew that Ms. Jane Nelson, the founder of positive discipline who has helped millions of families in the United States and around the world solve homeschool problems, would also take the opportunity to attend the courses taught by Bertillu as a precious opportunity, you will immediately have a strong curiosity about her.
Who is Bertilus? She is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and Executive Director of the Adler Research Association, where she has been teaching psychology and counseling family psychology for more than 30 years.
Who is Adler? Alfred Adler, founder of individual psychology, a master of psychology with the same name as Freud, and the founder of the psychological foundations of positive discipline.
Adler believed that the goal of man's pursuit of superiority must always be achieved through various ways of behavior. The so-called style of life refers to the behavior pattern that the individual has stereotyped on the road of early social life. He emphasized that people's style of life has been formed in the family environment around the age of four or five years, and has remained almost unchanged for a lifetime.
Adler also proposed the concept of the "creative self." In his view, the influence of life style on personality is subconscious or passive, while the creative self is a unique style of life constructed according to his own creativity, which is an active and conscious behavior. That is, the personality is directly involved in its own destiny well determines its relationship with the outside world.
Well, I've been talking so much about it just to elicit these words—
Creative self
This is
creative force
The literal translation of the word, and the most "Shindaya" transliteration of the word, is the translation of The name of Dr. Bertillu's book by Rei Mikawa
Creation
And how did the "creative self" create and evolve you? I believe that after reading "Creation", everyone's answer is still different, that is, your own private logic- your creative self- created your own life answer.
In short, at first I thought I had bought a parenting book, but then I found out that it was obviously a picture book of psychology, and in the end, I thought it was like a philosophy book, which gave me a lot of life revelations.
Glad to meet, grateful to have!
This - it is also my creation.