Sun Liang (pseudonym), 65, has had similar dreams countless times in his sleep: in an old house, several strangers communicate with him, although they can't see clearly, but the call is particularly clear. However, when he woke up, he seemed to be in a trance: Who are my biological parents?
Originally, in Sun Liang's childhood, due to family reasons, he was raised and separated from his family, but he did not expect that this time the separation would span a full sixty years.
<b>"You were raised."</b>
There is such a past in Sun Liang's memory, 60 years ago, when he was only 5 years old, he took a black box truck to a villager's home in Zichuan District, Zibo City, Shandong Province, and then he grew up here, married and had children, and now lives a comfortable retirement life. What has always bothered him, though, is that the memory has no beginning.
"I don't know why I got in that van, and in my memory, this is my home." Speaking of this childhood experience, Sun Liang said.
Indeed, as Sun Liang said, after arriving at the villager's home, the family of three lived a peaceful and happy life. However, during school, whenever Sun Liang appeared in front of his classmates or the elderly in the village, he would "enjoy" the strange eyes, and even hear such a sentence: You are raised.
At that time, every time the young and impulsive Sun Liang heard such words, he would always come forward to argue with people, not only that, he also specially sought out his parents to seek an answer to this question, but his parents had never answered positively.
"In my mind's eye, my parents treated me very well, and I didn't believe in the idea of being raised." Recalling the picture at that time, Sun Liang said emphatically.
Perhaps it was the young and ignorant, for the question of whether he was raised, Sun Liang did not pay attention to it at all, at that time he only wanted to study well, and then have a stable job, and have the ability to take care of his parents in the future.
Sun Liang told reporters that after completing his studies, he went to join the army alone in other places, and it was during this period that he met the love of his life. "It was a wedding in Zibo, and we had a son in the same year." Sun Liang said that after starting a family, considering that he was in other places, after careful consideration, he chose to transfer to a mine in Zibo to work, and from this moment on, Sun Liang and his wife and children lived a warm and happy life.
However, the idea that he was being raised still accompanied by Sun Liang.
"This statement never seems to be broken, and I asked my parents when I got married, and they still don't answer. Although there is no clear answer, based on my parents' reactions and memories of my childhood, I have understood that this statement is not out of thin air, but I never wanted to look for it because I was afraid of hurting my parents. Sun Liang said.
<b>"After 60 years, I want to return the fallen leaves to the roots."</b>
With the passage of time, Sun Liang's son gradually grew up and formed his own family, and Sun Liang's parents have long since died. Perhaps because of his age, Sun Liang, after retirement, had the idea of returning to the roots of the fallen leaves, so he began to look for his own biological parents.
"My parents didn't tell me the answer to that question until I died, and as for why I wanted to look for it, I actually wanted to know what the beginning of that memory was like when I was young." Sun Liang told reporters that in the process of searching for relatives, he added a lot of self-organized family search groups through WeChat, and turned the memories of his youth into words to send to the group, but his strength was weak after all.
"It was a needle in a haystack, there was no useful information, until the middle of August this year, when a group of friends told me that a person with the same experience as me had found his family through blood drops, and then I got in touch with the police with the attitude of trying it out and took blood." Sun Liang said.
Sun Liang's memory began at the age of 5, when he decided to return to the roots of the leaves was 65 years old, a span of 60 years, to a certain extent, everything when Sun Liang was born may be human, can he still find his own family? This answer needs someone to answer.
After collecting Sun Liang's blood sample, the Zichuan District Bureau of the Zibo Municipal Public Security Bureau conducted an analysis and judgment based on the clues in his hand, and successfully compared two men in their 30s in Wuxi City, Jiangsu Province.
"Because the time span was relatively long, it was more difficult to find at that time, and after getting two clues, we contacted two men, but according to the two men, there was no situation of being held up at home, and we were selected for a stalemate." Li Lei, commander of the sixth squadron of the criminal investigation brigade of the Zichuan District Bureau of the Zibo City Public Security Bureau, said.
Is this really the case? Could it be because the two young people don't know about the older generation? With such a question, Li Lei and his colleagues decided to go to Wuxi in the order in which the clues appeared.
Perhaps by fate, with the cooperation of the local police, Li Lei found the first family in Bizhong, and he did not expect that when he met an old man in the family, he knew that this family was Sun Liang's real home.
"The old man and Sun Liang are too similar, almost exactly the same, and then we asked, and the old man told him that his sixth brother left home 60 years ago and has not been missing." Finally, we collected the old man's blood sample, and after comparison, we determined that the old man was Sun Liang's family. Li Lei said.
Since the blood sample was collected, Sun Liang has been waiting for the results. In late September this year, when Sun Liang was taking care of his grandson and granddaughter at home, the phone suddenly rang, and it was Li Lei who called.
"I was so excited, I didn't know what to say, and the mood was overflowing." Speaking of this, Sun Liang said with a smile that on the phone, he learned that his biological parents had died, but his brothers and sisters in the family were still alive, not only that, he also knew his name wang min (pseudonym) for the first time after 60 years.
According to the agreement between the two sides, at the end of September, Sun Liang was going to meet with his brothers and sisters, and on this day he got up very early, ate a simple breakfast and went to the Public Security Bureau accompanied by his family. When a white-haired old man pushed open the door, lao Sun was moved, and after 60 years of waiting, his eldest brother, second brother, eldest sister-in-law, eldest sister-in-law and niece finally came to pick him up and go home.
"I remember the first thing my eldest sister said when she saw me was, do you remember pulling grass on my back when I was a child?" Although I don't remember, that feeling can only be explained by blood. Sun Liang said.
Now 65 years old, Sun Liang uses WeChat every day to video with his brothers and sisters in Wuxi, although the answer to why he arrived in Zibo in that truck has been unknown with the death of his biological parents, but Sun Liang knows that these are no longer important, what is important is that family reunion is the most precious.
Before her death, the mother told her that she was not biological
Of course, it is not only Sun Liang who finds his relatives, but also Li Xingmei (pseudonym), who lives in Binzhou.
A few years ago, Li Xingmei's mother told her on her deathbed that she was not her own child, and as for the situation of her biological parents, her mother said that she only knew that they were in the Jiangsu and Zhejiang regions, and I was afraid that she would not be able to find them. The sudden appearance of this news is like a thunderbolt on a sunny day hitting Li Xingmei's heart, in her 36 years of memory, she grew up in Binzhou, with no worries about food and clothing, a happy life, and the most important thing is that she only has one pair of parents.
"I remember my parents passing away, and I was not biological, under the double blow, I calmed down for a while, and it was with the encouragement of my husband that I decided to meet my biological parents and find my roots." Li Xingmei said.
More than thirty years have passed, the information left by her mother is very limited, the elders in the family cannot say the general details, and Li Xingmei does not have much hope for finding relatives. However, in May this year, when she saw that people with the same experience had found their biological parents by taking blood samples, she had the idea of giving it a try. After all, the adoptive parents have passed away, and the biological parents have become Li Xingmei's only spiritual sustenance in this world.
After consulting with her family, Li Xingmei took a blood sample accompanied by her family, and on the same day her blood sample was sent to the relevant system of the public security organs. Unexpectedly, with the issuance of the test results, her search for relatives once again sank into the sea, and it turned out that Li Xingmei's blood sample was no better than anyone else's.
Is hope dashed? The answer is no, because Li Xingmei did not give up, and the police did not give up. By visiting the elders of Li Xingmei's family, the old people only remember that her home should be in the south, probably in the three provinces of Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Fujian. But with their large populations and geographical spans, and more than 30 years on, searching for the only family in a vast sea of people is tantamount to finding a needle in a haystack.
However, some dilemmas always have to be broken.
After that, while the Binzhou police jointly analyzed and judged with the public security organs of the three provinces, the police also sent Li Xingmei's information to various social welfare organizations. Li Xingmei remembered that during that time, as soon as the police found that there was a WeChat group looking for relatives, they took the initiative to join, released their own family search news every day, and as soon as there was a clue to recognize relatives, the police would non-stop to verify and compare. However, as the clues were ruled out one by one, the search for relatives once again had no clue.
Online search can not work, then offline, so in a period of more than ten days, Binzhou police frequently rushed to Fujian, Zhejiang, Jiangsu three provinces, the news of Xiao Li's search for relatives continues to spread, and because of this, Yiwu police sent a message: a 60-year-old couple went to the public security organ to collect blood samples, after comparison, and Li Xingmei has a genetic relationship, at this moment she finally found her biological parents.
"I knew the news for the first time, I looked forward to it for a long time, and the heart that had been hanging for a long time at that moment finally had a landing, and more coincidentally, my father was also surnamed Li." Recalling the scene at that time, Li Xingmei wept with excitement.
The Mid-Autumn Festival is a beautiful festival for family reunion in the hearts of Chinese. On the first day of the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, Li Xingmei and her husband got up early in the morning to embark on a journey to recognize their relatives, and Along the way Li Xingmei was very quiet, perhaps only she herself knew that her heart had already run to Yiwu hundreds of miles away.
"At that time, I was thinking about whether my appearance was more with my father or more with my mother. Later, when I met my parents at home, the question was no longer important. It turned out that when Li Xingmei and her family hugged each other tightly, the similar appearance and the continuous blood relationship made them recognize each other at the first sight in the crowd.
In fact, Li Xingmei and Sun Liang are just a microcosm of many family searches, and the reporter learned that since the reunion operation was launched, the Shandong police have been going all out to solve the backlog, pursue suspects, find missing abducted children, and strive to reunite more separated families. Up to now, the public security organs in the province have announced to the public 185 free blood collection points and the contact information of 201 blood collection policemen. 355 abducted children who have been missing over the years have been recovered and 170 families have been reunited.
Whether it is Sun Liang or Li Xingmei, the moment they recognize their relatives, the reason for their original separation from their families is no longer important, for them, they have found their own spiritual sustenance, because they endure the pain of decades of blood separation, transcending all human feelings, and everything is turned into a hug.
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