The 95-year-old uncle and the 40-year-old nanny got married, and affectionately called each other "bao", for the nanny, the uncle threw his own grandson out of the house, but it wasn't long before the nanny found himself deceived!
Although Uncle Situ is 95 years old, he is tough and healthy. He is a retired teacher, a teacher respected by everyone, but he is married to the nanny who has taken care of him for two months, and the nanny is 53 years younger than the uncle. For the sake of nanny, Uncle Situ also kicked his grandson out of the house, and even snatched the ownership of the house with his grandson!
It turned out that Uncle Situ's wife died a year ago, because the grandson Situ Xing was brought up by them from childhood, the grandfather and grandson relationship is very close, and they also love this grandson very much, so Uncle Situ's wife made a will before his death, leaving their house to his grandson Situ Xing, and uncle Situ has no opinion on this matter.
Since the transfer of this house to the grandson, the family has been like a good discussion, the grandfather's son, daughter, granddaughter will rarely come to visit him, tacitly accepting that the grandson Situ Xing is responsible for the grandfather's old age.
Fortunately, the grandson is very filial piety, considering that the grandfather is now alone, in order to be able to spend more time with the grandfather, he gave up the high-paying job in the big city and chose to stay in his hometown to work, that is, he wanted to accompany the grandfather more.
Grandpa's life is very happy, but Situ Xing is going to work after all, Grandpa is older, in order to take better care of Grandpa, so the family hired a nanny, but since this nanny came, everything has changed!
The nanny, named Liu Ping, is 42 years old and divorced and lives alone with a daughter. Because of his careful work, he usually pays more attention to Uncle Situ, which makes Uncle Situ's peaceful life ripple, and also makes Uncle Situ feel the feeling of heartbeat for the first time, he feels that this is love!
Less than two months after Liu Ping came, Uncle Da felt that he could not leave her, and he wanted to continue to live like this with Liu Ping.
So one day, when Liu Ping was cleaning, Uncle Tai walked over, smiled and shyly said to Liu Ping: "Xiao Ping, I like you, you let me know the feeling of heartbeat for the first time, I want to be with you forever, let's live together!" ”
Liu Ping thought about it and asked the uncle two questions: "First, will your family agree to let us get married together?" Second, you are so old, what guarantee do I have to marry you? As long as these two problems are solved, I promise to be with you! ”
Uncle Situ in love, just like the young people in love, promised Liu Ping with a serious expression: "As long as you promise to marry me, everything about me will be yours in the future, and I will deal with the children's affairs!" ”
Immediately, Uncle Situ happily announced the good news to his children, but he did not expect such a decision, but it was opposed by everyone. The children all felt that the uncle was confused, and they all said that this nanny had ulterior motives and was plotting!
But Uncle Situ did not think so, he just wanted to be with Liu Ping, for fear of long nights and dreams, Uncle Situ quickly and Liu Ping secretly went to get a marriage license.
After the two got married, Liu Ping said that she hoped that the family would be just the three of them, living their own little life, and did not want other people to disturb them often. So Uncle Immediately said that he knew it was time to do this, and he would prove his love for Liu Ping with facts and actions!
So the grandson Situ Xing came to see him later, and the uncle actually closed the door in front of his grandson, and threw out all the gifts that his grandson had brought over, so that he would not come again in the future. This made the grandson very sad and couldn't figure out why!
In this way, Uncle Situ and Liu Ping got along for a while, during this time Uncle was very happy, Liu Ping took good care of him, and Uncle Lived very comfortably. But the good times are not long!
One day Liu Ping accidentally saw the family's real estate deed, after opening a look, Liu Ping was stupid, it was written on it was the name of her grandson Situ Xing, which made her very angry!
She threw the real estate deed in front of the uncle and said angrily: "I thought the house was yours, but I didn't expect that you had already transferred the property to your grandson, didn't you say it was all mine?" I'm going to divorce you liar! "After saying that, I slammed the door and left, leaving an anxious uncle!"
After all, the uncle is old and can't catch up with Liu Ping, so he can only call Liu Ping and beg her not to divorce, saying that he can't live without her. But Liu Ping said: If you don't want a divorce, you can, but you need to ask uncle to have a house and write her name! But until then they can only divorce first!
In this way, Uncle Situ and Nanny Liu Ping flashed away again!
But Uncle Situ still firmly believes that Liu Ping loves himself deeply, and he also loves Liu Ping deeply, and in the love letter written to Liu Ping, Uncle Situ affectionately calls her "Bao"!
Uncle Situ had to go to see Liu Ping every day, because he was afraid of others gossiping, and Uncle Situ could only wait until dark in the evening to turn on the flashlight, just to see Liu Ping. Seeing Liu Ping, uncle is like a shy young man, standing outside the door does not dare to come in, Liu Ping is also very enthusiastic about uncle, the two of you talk happily one by one, you can see that the feelings between the two are good, but it is difficult to say whether it is love!
But when Uncle Situ mentioned remarriage, Liu Ping's attitude suddenly changed, a change of smile, cold face unwilling to speak more, and even bluntly, bought a house and added her name to the real estate certificate, and the two got married.
Liu Ping also said frankly: she herself suffered from cancer, and on the operating table, her ex-husband left her and left. Doctors said she may not live more than ten years, but now that her younger daughter is in kindergarten, she will not be an adult ten years later. In case he left, what would he leave for his young daughter? She bluntly said that she had enough hard life, and married her uncle for the sake of the house, so that her daughter would have basic security in the future!
The uncle who heard this did not give up, and believed from beginning to end that Liu Ping had love for himself, and he loved Liu Ping even more. He said he didn't have any money in his hands now, but he would go all out to take back the house and remarry Liu Ping.
So the uncle and the grandson staged a court of each other, and after 6 appeals, finally the uncle and the grandson each owned half of the property rights.
It was also because this incident broke the heart of the grandson, the grandson Situ Xing took care of the grandparents for so many years, and now the grandfather drove away his own grandson because of a nanny he had known for a long time.
Such a move is not to say that it is a relative, and even the neighbors nearby can't watch it. However, the people around them, including The uncle's relatives, no matter who came to persuade them, what they got was the uncle's scolding, and Uncle Situ said that he also knew that it was not right, but now he was like a young man, that is, he fell in love once!
He couldn't control himself anymore, and Uncle Grandpa's previous marriage was arranged by the family, so there was no emotion. But the arrival of Liu Ping made ripples in the calm life of the uncle, and it was also the appearance of Liu Ping that made the uncle feel the taste of love for the first time.
Therefore, for the sake of Liu Ping, Uncle Situ is willing to abandon all, even the family affection that was once the most valued. In the end, the uncle made a decision, and he would continue to sue his grandson until he got the house back, and the day he got the house back was the day he and Liu Ping remarried.
Later, the nanny Liu Ping wanted to take the uncle to her hometown to buy a house, and the house only wrote her name. Uncle also said yes!
In the face of Uncle Situ's obstinate behavior, many people have also advised, but Uncle Situ insists on doing so. He said: For love, I am willing to give everything I have.
Liu Ping has long admitted that she came to the uncle's house, but even so, the uncle is still willing to go down, which shows that the uncle really has feelings for Liu Ping, and hopes that Liu Ping will not do too much in the end!
Among them, it can be understood that Uncle Situ is afraid of loneliness, and Liu Ping's company makes Uncle Situ experience a feeling that he has never experienced in this life, thinking that it is love, and he is blinded, desperately wanting to be with each other, even if he loses all his relatives!
Therefore, what the elderly are most afraid of, afraid of loneliness, more afraid of encountering the so-called "love" in old age, when the love that sprouts will only make him lose his relatives, lose his stable old age, lose his last dignity, and now he is just a burden!
So I think "What is the biggest taboo for the elderly?" "Yes: when they are old, they meet the people they really love, when they are no longer young and have no conditions, but they still pay for each other without hesitation, and then lead to the loss of all their relatives, pay everything, and finally gain only deception, only hurt, and let their old age be exhausted!
From this incident, it can also be seen that in fact, Uncle Situ's children are also problematic, when the house is given to the grandson, these children rarely come to see the uncle, which is also the reason why the uncle is lonely, after all, the grandson alone does not have so much energy and time, he also has his own family!
Therefore, we should usually go back to see our parents and grandparents, the elderly are most afraid of loneliness, loneliness will make them cherish the kindness of others, and people with hearts will use this to do things to deceive the elderly!
The elderly should be more innocent in their old age, try not to ask for a female nanny, many elderly people have invited a female nanny to appear such a thing as Uncle Situ, resulting in late festival insecurity, so that the family can not live in peace. It is best for the elderly to live with their children, or to enter a good nursing home!
Finally, I want to say: the elderly must have their own persistence, can not stick to a lifetime, to the end of the age of such a problem, can not be the same as young people, desperately pursue the so-called "love", at this time the elderly have no such conditions, energy, to pursue this kind of fruitless things, a stable old age is important!