Wen | Yang Chun Siyue
In times of disappointment, is there a song or a film that will give you the courage to cheer up? I have, the Indian film "Mysterious Superstar", released in 2018, tells the story of an Indian girl, Yin Xiya, who continues to struggle desperately for the dream in her heart when her life is gradually moving towards the abyss. Brushing again still brings me to tears.
The heroine of the film, Yin Xiya, the mother, and the music director Shakti. On the way to chasing his dreams, Kumar faces the lingering breath of life, but he can indulge in burning.
Life, sometimes, is a "bullying soft and afraid of hard" guy.
When you cry and cry and ask to be treated well, what you get is its perseverance; and when you straighten up and face the bar, it will give you everything you want.
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The world is fair, and many people complain about the twists and turns of life, but forget that everyone's lifestyle is created by themselves with multiple choice questions.
Girls who can grow up alive in India must thank their parents for their kindness not to kill. In June 2020, the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) issued a report stating that about 46 million girls had disappeared in India over the past 50 years, and that many Indian parents had chosen abortions after learning that the fetus was a female baby, with as many as 460,000. 2018 British medical journal The Lancet. A sexist study published in Global Health shows that the patriarchal attitude in Indian society kills nearly 240,000 girls under the age of 5 each year.
In India, there is a curse: you will definitely have a daughter. Families with average economic conditions who give birth to daughters are unlucky, so some families know that they are baby girls, either let them stillborn or strangle them in the cradle.
The father of the heroine Yin Xiya in the film, after knowing that he was about to have a daughter, he resolutely did not want it. Her mother insisted on giving birth to the heroine, and after giving birth, she escaped from the hospital. After a long time, her mother returned to her husband with Yin Xiya, who had been born. In india, in order to keep Yin Xiya alive, her mother endured her husband's countdowns and beatings for a long time.
Yin Xiya's mother, Najima, an obscure middle-aged woman, lived an extremely hard life: she was married by her father to a man she did not love, suffered domestic violence for a long time, had no dignity, no right to speak, no right to dispose of property, let alone dreams.
She just forgot to boil the water and was interrupted by her husband.
Forgetting the time of the husband's business trip, delaying the packing of the luggage, he was reprimanded.
Because the food was less salted, the husband overturned his plate...
Najma, for a belief in her heart, allows children to live happily, and has been living a life of humiliation and humility. Although she was illiterate, she still had a powerful force in her heart to fight against life, the courage to protect the life of her child, and she chose to use her own way to do her best to create the necessary conditions for Yin Xiya, even if it was insignificant, but it had exhausted all her thoughts and strength.
Yin Xiya likes music, she secretly took her husband's money to buy guitar, she has no job and no income, in order to make her children happy, she will also steal her husband's money to take her children out to play, in order to let her daughter contact the outside world, she carries her husband and daughter to sell her only valuable jewelry and gold necklace, bought a laptop for her daughter, and finds a way to encourage children to publish works online.
Her love is always silent, but in the silence she can hear thunder. As Yin Xiya sings in the film: she weaves every tear into a beautiful vision; one smile of hers can dispel the haze in my heart.
When she sold her jewelry to buy a computer for Yin Xiya, she said to Yin Xiya: "There are many things I can't give you now, and I can't give you in the future. While encouraging Yin Xiya to wear a burqa to record a video of singing, she said: "I'm not trying to get you to change your goals, but to get you there by a different route." ”
When Yin Xiya offered to divorce her, she said: "If you leave Gudu behind, she will be exactly the same as your father in the future." ”
In the end, in order to realize her daughter's dream, she bravely stood up and wrote her own destiny. She took out the divorce agreement that her daughter had given him, signed her name, warned her husband, and then threw the divorce agreement to him and left with her two children.
Her mother was indeed a genius, a warrior. Instead of giving up the faith in her heart because of the extraordinary hardships of life, she went on strongly and became a brave and strong female warrior.
To know that life will not be desperate, in adversity, it depends on whether you will be brave enough to continue to walk. When you become strong, you will find that the whole world becomes gentle, and the people and things that used to dance with their teeth and claws will become paper tigers, and they will fall down with one push.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 When faced with setbacks, those who surrender have no way out, and facing difficulties will bring life to themselves</h1>
The family's financial constraints and tyrannical father have become obstacles on yin Xiya's road to realizing her dreams. But Yin Xiya boldly put forward her own requirements to life, and life is sometimes like this", "bullying soft and afraid of hard", favoring Yin Xiya and fulfilling all her wishes.
We often say that a certain person in a difficult situation has succeeded by taking the, but we have not thought about why he is successful because of thousands of people who are in difficulty, is it just because of a little luck? If you don't work hard, will luck really favor you?
Her father offered her school only to marry her to a good family, and the good family in her father's eyes was only rich and powerful, but her unruly spirit drove her to fight against this injustice and quietly pursue her dreams. She began practicing guitar at the age of 6, and she spent her spare time practicing singing and creating songs, secretly recording songs, posting websites, secretly recording songs in cities thousands of miles away, and secretly obtaining divorce agreements for her mother. In the face of all kinds of obstacles, she dared to challenge, dare to implement, dare to hide back from what belonged to her, and dared to fight with fate.
Talent is like wild wheat, you don't finish the work, you don't process it, you don't make it, it doesn't turn into delicious food. Yin Xiya is talented in music, and it is she who dares to break the silence and take a step forward to create her own success.
After watching this film, many netizens have given a full score, and they believe that the film reflects the three views everywhere. In a country like India that sees women as men's property, "dreams" are an absolute luxury for most women. "When the world rejects you, open a new world with your dreams."
In the face of life's bullying and fear of hardness, the antidote can only be yourself, if you are weak, the stronger it is; if you are strong, it will retreat.