For many girls, pulling a boyfriend into their "girlfriend group" is simply an incredible thing, and tonight (October 16) "Do Not Disturb", the emotional experience of a male guest has completely changed this view. Are you also expecting to meet a significant other who is tacit enough? Three teachers will teach you on the spot to cultivate a perfect tacit understanding between lovers.
Male guests are pulled into the "girlfriend group" by their predecessors? Don't want the other half to be "overly suspicious"
In the process of love, many people jokingly said "fireproof and anti-theft anti-girlfriend", male guest Wang Xuguang shared his experience on the spot, "After I successfully confessed to my ex, I did not expect that the first thing she did was to pull me into her girlfriend group." However, this incident did not affect our feelings, but everyone had a good chat. Later, because she went abroad, we had no choice but to break up. In real life, pulling a boyfriend into a "girlfriend group" is a thing beyond the imagination of many girls. However, the female guest Qian Dandan was not surprised by this, "I also like to pull my boyfriend into the girlfriend group, we will go out to dinner together, and I am also very relieved that my boyfriend and girlfriend are alone." ”
When talking about the criteria for choosing a mate, Wang Xuguang stressed that "I don't want the other half to be 'overly suspicious'", "Don't open your mind with a little thing, all kinds of imagination are out, I can't accept this kind of highly sensitive girl who is very suspicious." Like my ex pulling me into her girlfriend group, I appreciate it, and I like this kind of confident and open-minded girl. "How to deal with the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend? If the relationship is not good, there will be troubles; too much interaction, more troubles. Meng Fei suggested that in the face of love and friendship, we must maintain the most sincere understanding and trust, but also pay attention to the sense of proportion, "as the male guest said, do not always think wildly and overthinking, to have intersections, but also to have boundaries, respectively, to maintain their own one-on-one love and friendship." Huang Lan believes that love and friendship are not in conflict, "I also appreciate the attitude of the male guest's ex, not because of love, there will be a sense of attachment and possession to the other half, but to give the other party enough trust, this confidence makes her more charming, but also makes getting along more harmonious." ”
The feeling that Wang Xuguang expects is that two people get along in trust, accompany each other and grow together. In the end, will he be able to hold hands successfully?
Don't let love be defeated by details How to cultivate a perfect tacit understanding between lovers?
Recalling the last relationship, the male guest Yu Zilu was full of emotions, "At the beginning, she was particularly attractive to me, but after a period of time together, I found that she ignored our pets and was too lazy to clean up, which made me more and more disappointed in her." In a year and a half, there was less and less love, more and more disappointment, and eventually our feelings were defeated by the details. Yu Zilu said that what he values most in his relationship is the tacit understanding of the two people, "There was once a girl, when I thought of her, she was always just thinking about me, calling her was always busy, we even missed the frequency is the same, I like this tacit understanding." ”
Female guest Qian Dandan sweetly recalled: "I once had a special tacit boyfriend, and when we went to the supermarket, we often took the same pack of tissues and the same bottle of drinks. Meng Fei believes that the small tacit understanding in life is a part, and the lovers can understand and empathize well between them, which is the real full tacit understanding. The three teachers unanimously suggested: If you really love a person, you should use your heart to cultivate a tacit understanding between two people, "Of which three keywords are observation, summary, and application, carefully observing each other's details, including living habits, language habits, behavior habits, etc., you can do some things for each other's habits, distinguish each other's different emotional states and say different words." The so-called heart has a sharp mind but because it is familiar enough, and all tacit understanding is based on understanding. ”
Coming to "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb", Yu Zilu is looking forward to finding a sweet, clean, cheerful and independent girl. In the end, can he hold hands with his crush?
Watch tips: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Non-sincere Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged tonight (October 16) at 20:30!